Your partner is abusive when they feel they must "punish you" or threatens to "punish you" when they: … Give you "the silent treatment" and/or tell you to "figure out" why they are mad and what to "figure out" what YOU did wrong. … Strand you somewhere.
Women want to know WHY their boyfriend or husband treats them badly. What could a good reason possibly be? Is there one? Why isn't the answer obvious? It's really not that difficult to figure out. How many people do you love and respect that you treat like shit 90% of the time? None?
