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		<title>Self Esteem &#8211; How Our Relationships are affected by it</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 04:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Self Esteem &#8211; How Our Relationships are affected by it If one has low self esteem it has a very negative impact on romantic relationships. Someone with low self esteem constantly wonders what their new love interests sees in them, and quite often feels undeserving of love. Instead of believing that they deserve what everyone else does, someone with low self esteem expects less. Someone with low self esteem is always waiting for the shoe to drop, and rarely has hope their relationships will work out. Someone with low self esteem will put themselves down, and will not accept compliments gracefully. (They often do not believe a word of them) Someone involved in a relationship with someone with low self esteem may try very hard to help them build up their self esteem. The problem is, when and if it does not work, they get frustrated and quite often angry. This can sabotage a relationship big time. When someone loves you yet feel no matter what they do you will never believe it, they feel defeated. The believe they can never make you happy no matter what they do. They can get tired of hearing you put yourself down over [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Toxic Relationships part 1 &#8211; Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 04:24:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever looked in the mirror and wonder what the hell happened to you and how you got here? Did you used to be lighthearted, carefree, strong, independent and secure? Did you have a mind of your own and a will that could not be broken? Well how the hell did you wind up a broken mess who is insecure, cries all the time, walks on eggshells and someone who constantly questions their own sanity? You got here by being, and remaining, in a toxic relationship with a man. Toxic men come in many different forms, but the chaos they all cause is pretty much the same. They are in control, you are not. They go out of control at the drop of a hat, and no matter what you do, you cannot keep the peace because they can go off (and will) at any time. You can do nothing right, yet they do EVERYTHING right. (At least according to them). Nothing is ever their fault, it is always yours. They expect no punishment for their behavior, but will punish you in ways you never thought of in your worst nightmares, for the slightest &#8220;offense&#8221;. The punishment never fits [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Self Esteem &#8211; How Our Relationships Affect it</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 04:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Self Esteem &#8211; How our relationships affect it Don&#8217;t you dare, for one more second, surround yourself with people who are not aware of the greatness that you are. ~Jo Blackwell-Preston Great quote, isn&#8217;t it? It should be common sense that if we surround ourselves with positive people that treat us right we are happier people. If you surround yourself with critical, negative people, you wind up miserable yourself. Look around you at the people you have in your life. If you have high self esteem, the people around you appreciate you, support you, and make you feel good about yourself. If you have low self esteem, chances are that the people around you have damaged your sense of self and have kept it low. Our self esteem plays a big role in our relationships. If we have low self esteem, we tend to attract people to us who do not appreciate our worth, because we do not know it ourselves. When you have low self esteem you do not think you deserve better, and can sometimes feel you are not worthy of love. You then set the bar extremely low, instead of the height it should be. People with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it? We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Chasing a man often backfires</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 22:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever met a guy you were &#8220;kinda&#8221; interested in that came on really strong?&#160; Did it change your mind and make you feel better about him? In many cases, it is just the opposite &#8212; you get turned off! Have you ever had a guy you were unsure of or not that interested in call you repeatedly to say &#8220;Hi&#8221; or whatever and suddenly found yourself seeing him in a different way and became more interested? Again, in many cases, just the opposite. Instead you found him annoying, pushy, and now you are sure you want nothing to do with him. Have you ever, to be polite, told someone you were busy, not ready for a relationship, or don&#8217;t have time to date instead of telling them the truth? The truth being: You don&#8217;t have time for him, don&#8217;t want a relationship with him, or don&#8217;t have time to date him. You didn&#8217;t want him to take it personally and hurt his feelings, so you made it about you. Don&#8217;t you then get annoyed when he won&#8217;t get the hint and keeps trying? Now you see how a man feels when a woman does these things. So why [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is it Time to End Your Relationship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 18:50:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a good side and a bad side that many people tend to hang on to relationships rather than let them go easily. The good side is that some people are willing to hang in there through the good times and the bad times, and don&#8217;t just bail when the relationship hits a snag. It shows a willingness to work things out and a commitment to the relationships. It also shows that they do not have unrealistic expectations of relationships and know that things don&#8217;t always go smoothly. The bad side is that many people tend to hang in there too long. The relationship is beyond repair, yet they stay in a miserable situation that will never change because they don&#8217;t want to &#8220;give up&#8221;. When is it time to end your relationship? 1. If you are being abused in any way. Do not stay one minute longer in an abusive relationship. End it now. You did not ask to be abused, and you can do nothing to stop it. It is up to them, and you need not be around if they are not working on their issue, or even if they are. End it now. 2. Are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Not having sex in your relationship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 18:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Not having sex in your relationship? Most people want to experience the connection to their partner, the intimacy and the passion of sex in their relationship on a regular basis. So why is aren&#8217;t you having sex? Are you or your partner ill? Have your fights gone unresolved to where you don&#8217;t connect sexually or one (or both) of you is withholding? Are either of you so unpleasant to be around? Always being negative, always critical, and never putting out any compliments or affectionate behavior? Do you take each other for granted and then expect that because you are ready they should be too? Do you say nasty things to your partner when they are not in the mood and give them a hard time? All of these things can contribute to a lack of sexual relations in your relationship. If you make your partner feel unattractive all week long but then on Saturday night you want them to feel turned on with no help from you, you are asking to be turned down. For men, the mood to have sex can strike immediately. For women, the mood develops slowly, and seems to be something men cannot and almost refuse [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Enough with the Nude Photos and Sex Cams!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 21:47:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If that is what I need to do to impress him, or keep him, he can go chase himself because I am no longer interested. And you shouldn't be either. Really, what the hell does he need nude or sexy photos of you for anyway? If you want to take photos of yourself and show them to him yet keep them in your possession, fine, go ahead. But after hearing about every sex tape that a celebrity has been ashamed of, think about how many women in the everyday world have had the same thing happen to them.]]></description>
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		<title>REALLY Want CLOSURE or  Just an Excuse for Staying Stuck</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 21:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If it is really JUST about you saying your piece, then how your EX reacts, what he says, what he does, feels and thinks about it WOULD NOT MATTER TO YOU AT ALL. It would be all about YOU, and that is what closure is for, YOU. When his feelings, reactions (or lack of), emotions (or lack of), response (or lack of) have ANYTHING to do with it, then what you are seeking is NOT closure. What you are seeking is DIALOGUE. A continium. Closure is an ENDING. Not a continium. So be honest with yourself and the people in your life. Know what your real intentions are.]]></description>
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		<title>Tired of Being Second Choice? Do Something About it!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you want to make yourself a priority to him, you have to make YOURSELF a priority FIRST. Don't count on him as your only companion. He doesn't have time to do stuff you enjoy? Do it yourself or with someone ELSE. Dont rely on HIM for every social activity or hobby YOU enjoy. Show him you made YOURSELF a priority and he will too. If he doesnt, you will be too busy to notice, and wont settle for a man who only has time to squeeze you in when it is convenient for HIM.]]></description>
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