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		<title>Jealousy, The Green Eyed Psycho Hosebeast</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is completely normal to want to strangle the gorgeous sexy woman who is hogging your mans attention at a party. Can we blame you for marching right over there and putting your arm around him while giving her the &#8220;Bitch, don&#8217;t even think about it&#8221; look. Nah, not really. Can we blame you for making a snide comment to your man for talking to the gorgeous sexy woman at the party? Again, not really. Now if you go over there and slap him across the face and throw a drink in hers, we have a problem with THAT. Being jealous is not a bad thing per say, but the things people DO when they get jealous can cause MAJOR problems in relationships. Jealousy, at it&#8217;s core, stems from insecurity. If you are with your boyfriend and another man is blatantly hitting on you right it front of him, he has a right to get pissed. Your boyfriend is being disrespected and challenged to some degree by this stranger. We get that. However, if he breaks a beer bottle over a guys head just because the guys asked you if you knew what time it is, that is a problem [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Isn&#8217;t he Afraid of Losing You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 14:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone is afraid of something. We may not all be afraid of the same things, but we are all afraid of something. For the moment, let us use sharks as an example. Why are most human beings afraid of sharks? Because sharks will bite you, eat you, and you will probably die. (Good reasons). We are afraid of sharks because of what they will do to us. If sharks just hugged and blew kisses at people instead of eat/kill them, everyone would want to have a pet shark in their pool. So how does this relate to relationships? It is the same concept. If your husband or boyfriend is always doing things to upset you, hurt you, or make you angry, you may wonder, why he isn’t afraid of you, or afraid of losing you. Could it be because he views you as a baby seal and not as a shark? When he does something you don’t like do you just yell, scream, or talk his ear off? Please keep in mind that no one is a afraid of a barking dog, they are afraid of the barking dog biting them. If you just verbalize your displeasure with him (barking) [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Will He Forgive You or Forget You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 20:32:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many women we speak to contact us in a panic when their boyfriend or husband is angry with them. They are terrified that their significant other will never forgive them and they ask us what they can do to make their significant other forgive them. First of all, you cannot make someone forgive you, no matter what you do. It is up to them when and if they will forgive you. What we have found alarming is how angry their significant others get for the smallest little things. These are the same men that screw up big time, and are forgiven over and over and over again but when the woman does the tiniest thing world war three breaks out. Sure, he forgot her birthday but SHE forgot to get him Pop Tarts when she went grocery shopping KNOWING FULL WELL how important Pop Tarts are to him! He makes a Federal Case out of the whole thing and is seeking the death penalty. In a relationship, if you are going to sweat the small stuff and want the other to beg for forgiveness, you should expect the same thing done to you when you screw up as well. (And [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Your Heart is Stupid, so Listen to Your Gut Instead</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 04:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our guts tell us a lot of things. We get this funny feeling there that something is not right in our relationship. The problem is though, that our heart grabs a megaphone and starts screaming &#8220;Don&#8217;t listen to your gut, listen to ME instead&#8221;. Well, your heart is an idiot. You heart already took over for your brain and now wants to silence your gut as well. Your gut may see the writing on the wall, but your heart grabs a can of spray paint and covers the writing with &#8220;BUT I LOVE HIM&#8221; until the writing on the wall is completely covered in nonsense. It is time to silence that loud heart of yours and start listening more to your gut. Those feelings you get, those twinges of unpleasantness, are your instincts warning you for a reason. It is your bodies way of raising a red-flag so you can avoid danger. Your heart, being the idiot that it is, likes to throw caution to the wind, even though it knows when the heart breaks, it hurts worse and takes longer to heal than any other physical injury. Many women I have spoken to, in retrospect, wish they had listened [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Adult Relationships Cannot Withstand Childish Behavior</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 21:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Adult relationships are the most healthy, happy, and have the most longevity. Childish, immature relationships having Drama Queens and Drama Kings, are dysfunctional and will bring more misery than happiness. You may think you have found true love or real love, but if childishness and immaturity plays a big part in your relationship, you are in danger of losing the relationship because it is going to crash and burn. As an adult, in order to communicate properly you have to both listen attentively and know how to speak without resorting to snark, sarcasm, accusations, nagging, and other traits that make someone tune you out. Giving a child a time-out is one thing, but your relationship is NOT a child. Resorting to childish behavior, such as giving the silent treatment for days on end is destructive, not constructive. It is one thing to leave to calm down and return with a cool head but if it takes you days to calm down, you are again behaving like a baby (especially if the issue was no big deal) and causing damage. Without a lot of effort on your part, the damage can be irreparable. So why do it? Why do people act [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You Caught Him Red-Handed. Now What Are You Going to do About it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. He is in control, and it is going to get out of control and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Went Back to His Ex &#8211; Now What?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 18:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you first started dating your guy, he swore he was over her and would rather chew off his own foot than get back together. He told you negative things about her that made her out to be some swamp creature. As a matter of fact, he never seemed to have anything good to say about her. He may have told you all kinds of horror stories and admitted his friends and family will kill him if he ever got back together with his ex. Well, he should be a dead man any second now because he did. You just can&#8217;t believe it! You are devastated and can&#8217;t believe he gave her another chance. Did he tell you they had gotten broken up and gotten back together several times before? If he did, that was your first red flag. Couples that keep going back to one another, even though they swore that was the last time quite often repeat this pattern for years. It is always a good idea to ask how many times the couple has gone back and forth before you give him a shot. If he tells you more than 2 and that it has gone on [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Settling Down vs. Settling &#8211; What is the Difference?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 17:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many people use the terms &#8220;settling down&#8221; and &#8220;settling&#8221; as if they are inter-changeable, when in actuality, they are completely different things. What is the difference between the two? Well, when you settle down it is usually because you have found something that made you happy. You stop searching for it, because you found it. Your behavior and lifestyle changes but you are happy to do it because of the payoff. Settling, however, is the complete opposite. Settling is usually done when someone no longer believes they can achieve a goal or find what they have been looking for. They then settle for less. It is never more, or just enough, settling is always for less. When people settle down, they are often content and made their choices to do so because whatever sacrifices made it all seems worth it to them. When people settle, it is usually when they have given up and feel like something is better than nothing. People who settle down have a much better chance at being happy down the road, whereas people who have settled don&#8217;t. People who have settled are never satisfied because they did not get what they wanted. In relationships, when [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Said You Are a Control freak &#8230;.Are You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 23:44:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You got into a big fight recently and your boyfriend/husband accused you of being a control freak.&#160; He may have even said this to you before in the heat of an argument. Now you are beginning to wonder if you indeed are a control freak. Here are some questions for you to answer to see if what he said may be true: 1. When he is doing household chores, or anything for that matter, do you hover over him to see if he is doing it right? Does &#8220;doing it right&#8221; mean &#8220;doing it your way&#8221;? It&#8217;s one thing to want the right result, but who cares how he does it as long as he gets the right result? If you do, there is a good chance you are too controlling. 2. When he is with his buddies or family do you feel the need to call or text several times? Do you do this whenever he is away from you, even for a few hours? If you do, you may be a control freak. It&#8217;s not cute, it&#8217;s not romantic, it&#8217;s not showing him, and everyone else, what a cute couple you are. (Unless you and everyone you know [...]]]></description>
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