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	<title>What Women Need to Know About Relationships &#187; Needing closure</title>
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		<title>Closure&#8230; do you REALLY Want it or Just Using the Need for it as a Way to Keep Obsessing..?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-do-you-really-want-it-or-just-using-the-need-for-it-as-a-way-to-keep-obsessing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 23:57:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[While men try to avoid anything that could remind them of their ex, women tend to do the opposite. Women will re-read emails and letters to the point that they have them memorized. That takes them on a literary journey through the relationship they just got out of and re-opens the wounds so they cannot heal. In most cases at times of breakups, women tend to focus on the "shiny happy times" before your ex showed his true colors. We think of all the things we will miss, how the relationship could have worked "If only he ____", and the pure shame of it all. What women DON'T tend to focus on is the bad side of their ex and all the reasons why it didn't work out.]]></description>
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		<title>Do You REALLY Want CLOSURE or is That Just an Excuse for Staying Stuck?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-an-excuse-for-staying-stuck/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 21:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Empowerment]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=226</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If it is really JUST about you saying your piece, then how your EX reacts, what he says, what he does, feels and thinks about it WOULD NOT MATTER TO YOU AT ALL. It would be all about YOU, and that is what closure is for, YOU. When his feelings, reactions (or lack of), emotions (or lack of), response (or lack of) have ANYTHING to do with it, then what you are seeking is NOT closure. What you are seeking is DIALOGUE. A continium. Closure is an ENDING. Not a continium. So be honest with yourself and the people in your life. Know what your real intentions are.]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Give Someone Closure?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/should-you-give-someone-closure/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 05:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=200</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Since most women are very vocal creatures they have, either through phone calls, email, or in person let their ex know why they ended things. So what is your ex-boyfriend or husband really looking for to get the closure they so desperately need?]]></description>
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		<title>Give it UP Already&#8230;and MOVE ON!!!</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/give-it-up-already-and-move-on/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/give-it-up-already-and-move-on/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 00:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being Used]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deadend relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=184</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Why is it in almost every other area of a woman’s life she knows when to give up or quit EXCEPT when it comes to relationships? ]]></description>
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		<title>When His Ex Becomes Your Problem</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/when-his-ex-becomes-your-problem/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/when-his-ex-becomes-your-problem/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 22:07:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Fairness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=165</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There is a lack of closure here as well. A woman who calls her ex every time she has a problem, aside from anything child related, like asking him for favors is behaving in a manner she is no longer entitled to. Obviously she is resisting it for one reason or another. She needs a man of her own, not yours, to discuss her problems, ask favors, the whole nine yards. He is not her man anymore, and he is not a fill-in until she finds one either.]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Really Want Closure or is That Just YOUR Excuse for Staying Stuck?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 15:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting a reaction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=156</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You tell them that you feel you can't move on without closure. Do you really believe this or is this just a line of BS because you really want him back? The "lack of closure" many women claim to want is, simply put, a lie. They actually are avoiding closure, because they don't want to accept the reality that a) it really IS over or b) that is really SHOULD be over. ]]></description>
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		<title>CLOSURE&#8230;Exactly what IS it you Need to GET IT?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-exactly-what-is-it-you-need-to-get-it/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-exactly-what-is-it-you-need-to-get-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 03:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Man whore]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=113</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Justice is not always in the form of his punishment for what he did to you. Justice REALLY is the rewards you reap for no longer having this piece of garbage in your life. THAT is real closure.]]></description>
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		<title>When He is Not Over His Ex&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/when-he-is-not-over-his-ex/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/when-he-is-not-over-his-ex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rebound]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=89</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Having a friendship with a recent ex makes it very difficult to move on and you have to ask "Why do they want to be friends?" 
How did you miss these red flags? You couldn't be that blind. You should have known the risks. Yes, he is a bastard, but you saw the huge chance that he could be one, so why did you let him in?]]></description>
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		<title>Closure ~ You THINK You NEED it&#8230;but You Really DON&#8217;T</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 15:05:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[CLOSURE - The mere mention of the word closure makes many do a collective "rolling of the eyes". When it comes to attaining closure in relationships, we all need to understand that you probably won't get it from the other person, you must get it from yourself.]]></description>
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