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		<title>Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 16:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care? I was speaking to a woman the other day who was asking a group of ladies about the man she loves. She found out he was cheating with numerous women, and had lied to her repeatedly. She asked us if we thought he had lied about everything, what we thought about what he had done, and why we think he had done it. After going on and on about this, I finally started answering every question she asked with &#8220;Who cares?&#8221;. It, to me, was the only fitting answer. She knows now he is a cheater, she spoke to two of the women he cheated with and they all told her he said the same things to her that he did to them. So why does it matter, and why should she care anymore? She knows who he is now. A cheater and a liar. Someone who cheats on you and lies to you all the time cannot possibly love you, respect you, or care about your feelings. So why the concern with theirs? Who cares if he ever loved you, because even if he did, his love, like his word, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trying Again and Again With an Ex?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 20:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trying Again and Again With an Ex? I noticed a phenomenon when it comes to pens. Most people I know have a pen holder or a collection of pens somewhere in their house. I have seen them try to write with a pen, see that it clearly does not work, AND THEN PUT THE PEN BACK IN THE PEN HOLDER. I ask them &#8220;Do you think it is going so magically work later? Why not just throw it out?&#8221;. Many of them didn&#8217;t even realize they were doing it, and tossed out the broken pen. Others said they actually DID think the pen might work later. I bet many of you reading this have a pen in your house that does not work that you, for some reason, didn&#8217;t it throw away. This reminds me so much of how so many women hold on to their ex&#8217;s the same way. How many times do you have to see that a relationship with them clearly will not work? When is it time to throw your ex (and your hopes for your ex to change) in the trash? Why do we keep trying to make something broken work? There are so many [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Does She Have That You Don&#8217;t Have?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:34:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What Does She Have That You Don&#8217;t Have? Quite often when a breakup occurs because we are left for another woman we wonder &#8220;What does she have that I don&#8217;t have?&#8221;. For starters: A lying, cheating pig of a man. Second, she has a man who will probably cheat on her too. And third, she has a relationship that will most likely end because he started it with her before he finished things with you. And last but not least, she has the ending of an affair, and the reality of what a relationship with him is really like. She also has bad taste. When you met him, he was free, and you had no idea he was this much of a scumbag, but she knows very well what he is capable of. She has a delusional mind. Where you would never trust him again, she is deluded enough to think he would never do that to her. Not really something to envy, is it? You could assume he left you for her because of something you lacked, but it really was not about you. He has no excuse for cheating, lying, and failing to work things out with you. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Healing After A Break Up</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 19:30:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Healing After A Break Up Pain is the first thing anyone feels after a breakup. Secondly, people tend to beat themselves up which makes that hurt linger for much longer than need be. Why do we find a need to beat ourselves up? To try and understand what the heck went wrong in your relationship and figure out what, if anything, you did to bring the relationship to an end. The common ways we beat ourselves up are: 1. Wondering what is wrong with you. You ask yourself why this keeps happening to you, why you always seem to attract the wrong type of guy, and tell yourself you will never find happiness and are doomed to failure. Stop doing that to yourself. It didn&#8217;t work with this guy but that does not mean it can&#8217;t work out with another. 2. You blame yourself. &#8220;If only I would have _____, or if only I didn&#8217;t ____&#8221; goes through your mind over and over again. Remember that if it was the right relationship you would not have done the &#8220;wrong&#8221; things or said the &#8220;wrong&#8221; things. And who is to say they were wrong anyway? Your ex? Why isn&#8217;t it about [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dealing With Rejection in a Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 18:31:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dealing With Rejection in a Relationship When we start out on our journey to find true love we are not equipped with the thick skin we may need to face rejection along the way. Most of us are not that lucky to find the love of our lives and the perfect relationship that is going to last a lifetime. We should be prepared for rejection, but we are not. Even if someone is wrong for us, if they are the person that verbalizes it first, we feel rejected somehow! We did not want them, but we did not want them to not want us. When we feel strong emotions from someone who does not feel the same way, we are distraught and devastated. We wonder why we were not good enough, attractive enough, sexually compatible enough or why they did not feel the same chemistry and connection that we did. We turn it on ourselves and blame ourselves. We take it personally, when really it isn&#8217;t personal. It was their opinion/feelings, not yours. They cannot control chemistry, emotions, or their opinions. We don&#8217;t know why we like chocolate rather than vanilla, we just do. Vanilla should not be upset with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Friends After a Break Up? Not a Good Idea!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 03:01:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Friends After a Break Up? Not a Good Idea! Now that the relationship is over, should you be friends with your ex? If either of you is hoping for a reconciliation, and believe maintaining a friendship is a good way to keep the door open, then the answer is NO! If you are still having sex with one another (stop that) then the answer is NO! Have neither of you moved on? If not, then it is impossible to be friends. Are there still unresolved feelings? Do either of you think being friends will help you to get closure? Being friends will not give you closure. After you have closure, then see if you would like to be friends with your ex. But not until then. If seeing your ex start a new relationship with someone would cause you pain and ruin your friendship with him, then obviously friendship is not a good idea. If your ex would be hurt be hurt if you began seeing someone else, the same rule applies. If friendship was never a real part of your relationship prior to now, chances are very slim you could really be friends at this point. You both need [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Moving on &#8211; Tips, Help, and Advice  Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 21:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Moving on &#8211; Tips, Help, and Advice Part 2 In a previous posting we gave you some great ideas, tips and guidance for moving on by taking control of your life and doing things for YOU. Here are some other pointers we can share with you to help you move on, let go and get closure from an ended relationship. It is ok to allow your self some time to let things go, but then comes the time to start adding structure back into your life. The things you let go, like your diet or exercising habits need to be brought back into your daily routine. You can bring them back into your routine one at a time or more quickly, but the point is to get back to being you again and start living life as normally as you can. Keep your thoughts focused on the present and try not to think of or dwell on the past. When trying to move on you may feel like you cannot even picture your life going on, but you must. You don&#8217;t have to create a fairytale that even you won&#8217;t believe, just start somewhere. If you always planned on writing [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Moving on &#8211; Tips, Help, and Advice  Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 20:54:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Moving on &#8211; Tips, Help, and Advice Part 1 The relationship, for whatever reason, is over. A chapter of your life has come to an end and it is time for move on and move forward to the next chapter. Sounds easy? Well, it&#8217;s not. It is very difficult for many people and they have no idea how to even begin the process of letting go and start moving on. Here are some tips, help and advice to help you along the way so you can finally move on. First, keep in mind that the end result of all of this is to move on. It will not happen overnight, and that is o.k. Take it one day at a time and do the best you can. Allow yourself to the varied emotions you will go through, and express them. Write letters you never send, use family members as sounding boards, or talk to an empty room. Just GET THEM OUT. Punch a pillow if you have to. Release them. Your life may be going through changes that have come from the end of this relationship. Your finances may now be different, and instead of ignoring it, deal with it. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Letting Go &#8211; Does it Mean Giving up on Your Ex?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 19:09:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Letting Go &#8211; Does it Mean Giving up on Your Ex? Many people are afraid to let go because they fear that at the same time, they must give up. But does letting go always mean you are giving up? Not necessarily. When you have an ex, or are currently involved in a relationship that is not working for you, letting go can simply mean that you have stopped trying. You finally reach a point where you realize you cannot control how another person feels, what they want, and their intentions towards you. They have free will and make their own decisions and are responsible for their own behavior, actions, words, and choices. Letting go does not mean you have given up on someone, but what you let go of is trying to force change that you are not in control of. The only person that you have that control over is you. If you want an ex back but they are not receptive towards you, you need to accept that at a certain point. You can hope they may want you back in the future, but you must accept that they do not want to reunite with you now. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Want Him Back, or do You Just Want to Get Back At Him?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 19:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do You Want Him Back, or do You Just Want to Get Back At Him? Sometimes instead of getting closure and moving on, we may be plotting, planning, wondering and/or hoping that we can get him back. Some people can do this for months, even years. If you find yourself in a situation where your main objective is to get him (or her) back, ask yourself do you really want him back, or do you just want to get back at him? If you really feel the relationship has potential and that on a whole the relationship was a good one, it is understandable that you would put dating on hold to see if there is a reconciliation coming. Be honest with yourself concerning your ex and the relationship. Don&#8217;t focus so much on the potential it had if big changes had to be made, but more so on if it had potential should nothing change. Look at how your relationship was vs how it could be. How it was is most likely how it will be in the future. Especially if it is not you who needs to make most of the changes. Then decide from that point if [...]]]></description>
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