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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You Caught Him Red-Handed. Now What Are You Going to do About it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. He is in control, and it is going to get out of control and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Went Back to His Ex &#8211; Now What?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 18:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=845</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When you first started dating your guy, he swore he was over her and would rather chew off his own foot than get back together. He told you negative things about her that made her out to be some swamp creature. As a matter of fact, he never seemed to have anything good to say about her. He may have told you all kinds of horror stories and admitted his friends and family will kill him if he ever got back together with his ex. Well, he should be a dead man any second now because he did. You just can&#8217;t believe it! You are devastated and can&#8217;t believe he gave her another chance. Did he tell you they had gotten broken up and gotten back together several times before? If he did, that was your first red flag. Couples that keep going back to one another, even though they swore that was the last time quite often repeat this pattern for years. It is always a good idea to ask how many times the couple has gone back and forth before you give him a shot. If he tells you more than 2 and that it has gone on [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Many Chances Should You Give Him?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 21:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How many chances should you give a guy before you end a relationship? It really does depend on what you are giving him another chance for. It is reasonable to give him a few chances to remember to put the toilet seat down because it is not a major offense like having an affair. The key word is reasonable. If a man constantly lies about where he is and you keep catching him, if you don&#8217;t end the relationship, you have basically accepted the behavior and it becomes a part of your relationship. Relationships should have set, permanent boundaries, not temporary ones. If you do not want to be with a man who lies all the time, then end your relationship with the man who is lying to you all the time. When a man knows he can get away with something, not only will he do it, but he doesn&#8217;t fear the consequences of doing it. You cannot say you won&#8217;t tolerate a man who cheats on you and stay with a man who continues to cheat on you. Most people believe in second chances. They want to think they would be given a second chance, and I understand [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is He Ever Going to Leave Her? (His wife or Girlfriend)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:51:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you do when you have feelings for a man who is in a relationship with another woman? This could be a man who has no idea you have feelings for him and is off limits because he is in another relationship with either a girlfriend or a wife. It could be a man you began an affair with, who did not tell you he was married until after he had you on the hook. It could be a man you knew full well was not single, yet you didn&#8217;t stop seeing him. This man could be someone who told you he is in loveless marriage, without intimacy, and they are only together for a certain reason. The excuses they usually give are financial, children or health problems of their spouse or one of the kids. But he says he will leave her someday. He could have told you he is in no position to leave and never will. Let&#8217;s break each scenario down for you: The guy who is clueless that you are interested in him probably won&#8217;t leave her, and if he does will most likely not be with you. Don&#8217;t pin your hopes on that because [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Unacceptable Behavior in Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 20:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As time goes on, many unacceptable behaviors in relationships seem to be tolerated, especially by women. Things that used to be &#8220;deal breakers&#8221; have now become accepted and excused. It is time to put your foot down and stop allowing the unacceptable behavior in your relationship to continue. What is unacceptable behavior? Well the list is long, and can vary from person to person. There are some though that are on almost everyone&#8217;s list, such as: 1. Physical abuse. 2. Verbal abuse. 3. Threatening you with bodily harm. 4. Destruction of your personal property when they get angry with you. 5. Destruction of any property when they get angry at anyone. This is an anger management problem and must be addressed. 6. Cheating, if a commitment has been made. 7. Financial irresponsibility. Either spending your joint funds without your knowledge, keeping you in the dark about your finances, stealing money from you, or always borrowing money that they never pay back. 8. Lying repeatedly to the point you cannot trust anything they say. 9. Excessive drinking or abusing drugs. 10. Being bossy or controlling. If you find there are unacceptable behaviors in your relationship it is time to face the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 00:12:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The quote “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” is from Maya Angelou and is quite brilliant. Why, when someone shows us who they are do we not want to see it? Why, when a man shows us he is a player do we make excuses or think he will change down the road? Why do we think he will change? Why do we not simply accept that he is a player? Why do we not want to accept the truth about people? When a man shows you that he is a liar and cannot be trusted the first time, should we give them a second chance to lie to us again? Many people say we all deserve a second chance, as we would all like be given one. However, a third, fourth, fifth, etc. chance? No way. Do not make someone have to show you over and over and over again who they really are, believe them the first time they show you. Why does it take us so long to be believe the truth? If you are with a man who is not single, and is either married or has a girlfriend and he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Tell if Someone is Lying to You</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 06:04:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No one wants to be lied to. Sometimes we have a &#8220;funny feeling&#8221; someone is lying to us, and sometimes we are totally clueless and believe every thing they say. What are some good ways to tell someone is lying to you? 1. Vagueness. When someone does not give you normal details suspect they are not being entirely truthful. For instance, if your husband normally tells you daily what restaurant he went to at lunch and what he ate but suddenly does stops bringing it up, ask him where he went for lunch. If he has to think about it, and seems to not want to discuss it further, it is time to get suspicious. He very well may be lying. 2. Rambling. If they are giving you way too much information than is called for, check and see if their nose is growing like Pinocchio, because in many cases, it should be. 3. They won&#8217;t look you in the eye. Avoiding eye contact can be a tell-tale sign that they are lying. 4. Body language. Are their feet tapping out of control? Are their arms crossed in a way that they look like they are giving themselves a hug? [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Truth is, Liars lie&#8230;..again and again</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 05:47:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why are people surprised that someone that lied to them before, lied to them again? In some ways, we all lie. When someone asks us how we are, instead of pouring out our problems, we simply say &#8220;I&#8217;m fine&#8221;. Those are not the kind of lies we are talking about. We are discussing serious lies, such as: 1. Cheating, affairs, and all the lies that come with them. 2. Financial lies. Spending large sums of money without tell you, or keeping your mutual finances a secret. 3. Telling you they are single or seeing no one else when they are not. 4. Blaming their ex&#8217;s for the reasons their relationships did not last, making up stories to appear sympathetic or the victim and not telling you their part in what went wrong. Throwing you under the bus to their people when they don&#8217;t admit what they did wrong, and make you out to be the bad guy. 5. Going to places like strip clubs where they swore to you they would not go, watching way too much porn online and keeping it a major secret. When lies like these come to the surface, people&#8217;s reactions are that of shock and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>THE SWEETHEART SCAMS</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 16:31:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The sweetheart scam is one of the most devastating scams of all. The victim will not only lose money, a car, property, a business, be left responsible for enormous debt, they will often suffer psychologically and emotional. The sense of betrayal one feels after being a victim of a sweetheart scam can lead to trust issues (and who can blame them?) and feelings of embarrassment, often so bad they won’t report the crimes against them. The internet has been a huge help to sweetheart scammers. The internet has helped them cast a much wider net to “catch” their victims, while they use the cloak of anonymity the internet provides to hide their secrets and schemes, and move on to the next victim. Many men and women have found themselves the victim of a sweetheart scam, and the come from all backgrounds, races, ages, and education levels. Don’t think you have to be incredibly naive to fall for a sweetheart scam, or that it couldn’t happen to you. No victim went into it thinking it could happen to them. These con artists are professionals, and often make these schemes their sole source of income! Most sweetheart scammers are pulling numerous scams [...]]]></description>
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