I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird – distant,...
We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you...
When you first started dating your guy, he swore he was over her and would rather chew off his own foot than get back together. He told you negative things about her that made her out to be some swamp creature. As a matter of fact, he never seemed to have anything good to...
What do you do when you have feelings for a man who is in a relationship with another woman? This could be a man who has no idea you have feelings for him and is off limits because he is in another relationship with either a girlfriend or a wife. It could be a...
As time goes on, many unacceptable behaviors in relationships seem to be tolerated, especially by women. Things that used to be “deal breakers” have now become accepted and excused. It is time to put your foot down and stop allowing the unacceptable behavior in your relationship to continue. What is unacceptable behavior? Well the...
The quote “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” is from Maya Angelou and is quite brilliant. Why, when someone shows us who they are do we not want to see it? Why, when a man shows us he is a player do we make excuses or think he will...
No one wants to be lied to. Sometimes we have a “funny feeling” someone is lying to us, and sometimes we are totally clueless and believe every thing they say. What are some good ways to tell someone is lying to you? 1. Vagueness. When someone does not give you normal details suspect they...
Why are people surprised that someone that lied to them before, lied to them again? In some ways, we all lie. When someone asks us how we are, instead of pouring out our problems, we simply say “I’m fine”. Those are not the kind of lies we are talking about. We are discussing serious...
