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	<title>What Women Need to Know About Relationships &#187; Getting what you want</title>
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	<description>Change the dynamics of your dysfunctional relationship or close the door for good!</description>
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		<title>Apples and Oranges &#8211; Part 3</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/compatibility/apples-and-oranges-part-3/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/compatibility/apples-and-oranges-part-3/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2010 04:59:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Compatibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Defining Your Needs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[In relationships we may think we want one thing but come to find out we really don't like it all that much. If you want a man who makes a lot of money AND gives you a lot of attention you have to realize in many cases these are two DIFFERENT fruits. If a man makes a lot of money that may mean he WORKS constantly and doesn't have a ton of time to lavish you with attention. You are supposed to pick one fruit, remember?]]></description>
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		<title>Tired of Being Second Choice? Do Something About it!</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/tired-of-being-second-choice-do-something-about-it/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/tired-of-being-second-choice-do-something-about-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Empowerment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self respect]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=217</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you want to make yourself a priority to him, you have to make YOURSELF a priority FIRST. Don't count on him as your only companion. He doesn't have time to do stuff you enjoy? Do it yourself or with someone ELSE. Dont rely on HIM for every social activity or hobby YOU enjoy. Show him you made YOURSELF a priority and he will too. If he doesnt, you will be too busy to notice, and wont settle for a man who only has time to squeeze you in when it is convenient for HIM.]]></description>
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		<title>Are you working full-time on your relationship while he is sleeping on the job?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/are-you-working-full-time-on-your-relationship-while-he-is-sleeping-on-the-job/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/are-you-working-full-time-on-your-relationship-while-he-is-sleeping-on-the-job/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 05:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relatinships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=210</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women need to learn to DELEGATE RESPONSIBILITY. Think of what your relationship needs. What does he need? What do you need? It is your job to do your share, and if you are doing it, wonderful. If your man is not doing HIS share, then write his ass up. Put him on 30 days notice. Then fire him if he doesn't get his shit together.]]></description>
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		<title>When His Ex Becomes Your Problem</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/when-his-ex-becomes-your-problem/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/when-his-ex-becomes-your-problem/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 22:07:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Boundary]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dealing with exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dealing with problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ex-girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ex-wife]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fairness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Waiting for change]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=165</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There is a lack of closure here as well. A woman who calls her ex every time she has a problem, aside from anything child related, like asking him for favors is behaving in a manner she is no longer entitled to. Obviously she is resisting it for one reason or another. She needs a man of her own, not yours, to discuss her problems, ask favors, the whole nine yards. He is not her man anymore, and he is not a fill-in until she finds one either.]]></description>
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		<title>Why are You Talking to a Shoe?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/why-are-you-talking-to-a-shoe/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/why-are-you-talking-to-a-shoe/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 04:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=125</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women love to talk, discuss, have conversations, express themselves etc. The problem is that women also think they are being heard, that their conversation, expressing themselves, or discussion actually amounts to something. They expect it to achieve some favorable result. That might be true in some cases, unless of course, you are talking to a man that is the equivalent of talking to a SHOE. ]]></description>
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		<title>Did you Even Know You Are IN a Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/did-you-even-know-you-are-in-a-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/did-you-even-know-you-are-in-a-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 04:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relatinships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Booty call]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment-phobic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deadend relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=122</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Where do you think the term dysfunctional relationship comes from? Go look at your situation, and don't kid yourself. Instead of wondering when you will be in a real relationship, accept that you are in a dysfunctional one.]]></description>
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		<title>Why Doesn&#8217;t He&#8230;? The Real Question is&#8230; WHY DO YOU?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/why-doesnt-he-the-real-question-is-why-do-you/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/why-doesnt-he-the-real-question-is-why-do-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 22:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment-phobic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=38</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women always talk to each other about their relationships, often complaining about the guy and trying to figure out answers to the eternal question...  "Why doesn't he...".     Instead of spending an eternity searching for answers you may never get, why not ask the question "Why do I?" instead! ]]></description>
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		<title>He Calls You His &#8220;Girlfriend&#8221;, but Does He Treat You Like One?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/he-calls-you-his-girlfriend-but-does-he-treat-you-like-one/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/he-calls-you-his-girlfriend-but-does-he-treat-you-like-one/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 22:44:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=29</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The problem with labels in relationships is that labels lie. The man in your life can "label" you as his girlfriend, but if he sees other women, barely contacts you, hides his comings and goings with you, and basically is still acting single, sure you have the label, but does it mean anything?]]></description>
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		<title>Mean What you Say&#8230; Say What you Mean</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/mean-what-you-say-say-what-you-mean/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/mean-what-you-say-say-what-you-mean/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 21:04:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=18</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay, so he pissed you off because he hasn't called when he said he would. Understandable. Perhaps you are furious over the fact that he promised to see more of you but you are actually seeing eachother the same amount, if not LESS. Again, understandable. If he promised to take you somewhere or do something special with you yet never delivered, again, you have every right to be pissed. Who wouldn't be?]]></description>
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