Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
Settling Down vs. Settling – What is the Difference? Many people use the terms “settling down” and “settling” as if they are inter-changeable, when in actuality, they are completely different things. What is the difference between the two? Well, when you settle down it is usually because you have found something that made you...
How Can He Chase YOU…if You are Chasing Him? Men love the thrill of the chase. It is like hunting. They buy the right gun, gear, safety orange jumpsuit and pack it all up to go and get their prey. They can wait hours on end, sitting in a tree, freezing their butts off...
In relationships we may think we want one thing but come to find out we really don't like it all that much. If you want a man who makes a lot of money AND gives you a lot of attention you have to realize in many cases these are two DIFFERENT fruits. If a...
If you want to make yourself a priority to him, you have to make YOURSELF a priority FIRST. Don't count on him as your only companion. He doesn't have time to do stuff you enjoy? Do it yourself or with someone ELSE. Dont rely on HIM for every social activity or hobby YOU enjoy....
Women need to learn to DELEGATE RESPONSIBILITY. Think of what your relationship needs. What does he need? What do you need? It is your job to do your share, and if you are doing it, wonderful. If your man is not doing HIS share, then write his ass up. Put him on 30 days...
Women love to talk, discuss, have conversations, express themselves etc. The problem is that women also think they are being heard, that their conversation, expressing themselves, or discussion actually amounts to something. They expect it to achieve some favorable result. That might be true in some cases, unless of course, you are talking to...
Where do you think the term dysfunctional relationship comes from? Go look at your situation, and don't kid yourself. Instead of wondering when you will be in a real relationship, accept that you are in a dysfunctional one.
Women always talk to each other about their relationships, often complaining about the guy and trying to figure out answers to the eternal question... "Why doesn't he...". Instead of spending an eternity searching for answers you may never get, why not ask the question "Why do I?" instead!
The problem with labels in relationships is that labels lie. The man in your life can "label" you as his girlfriend, but if he sees other women, barely contacts you, hides his comings and goings with you, and basically is still acting single, sure you have the label, but does it mean anything?
Okay, so he pissed you off because he hasn't called when he said he would. Understandable. Perhaps you are furious over the fact that he promised to see more of you but you are actually seeing eachother the same amount, if not LESS. Again, understandable. If he promised to take you somewhere or do...
