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	<title>What Women Need to Know About Relationships &#187; Getting CLOSURE in relatonship</title>
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		<title>Instead of Getting Closure &#8211; Some Ways to Stay in Limbo</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/instead-of-getting-closure-some-ways-to-stay-in-limbo/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 16:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Women have wonderful imaginations and are curious by nature. So if we can't talk to our ex or find out what is going on, we can simply fantasize about it! You can imagine telling him all the horrible things he has done and why he doesn't deserve to be back with you, you can imagine tears running down his face when he says how sorry he is, you can go over conversations over and over and over again so you know just what to say should you ever see/talk to him. You can picture him miserable, broken down and suffering. The problem is you are living in your imagination too much rather than accepting your reality and dealing with it.]]></description>
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		<title>Closure&#8230; do you REALLY Want it or Just Using the Need for it as a Way to Keep Obsessing..?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 23:57:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[While men try to avoid anything that could remind them of their ex, women tend to do the opposite. Women will re-read emails and letters to the point that they have them memorized. That takes them on a literary journey through the relationship they just got out of and re-opens the wounds so they cannot heal. In most cases at times of breakups, women tend to focus on the "shiny happy times" before your ex showed his true colors. We think of all the things we will miss, how the relationship could have worked "If only he ____", and the pure shame of it all. What women DON'T tend to focus on is the bad side of their ex and all the reasons why it didn't work out.]]></description>
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		<title>Do You REALLY Want CLOSURE or is That Just an Excuse for Staying Stuck?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-an-excuse-for-staying-stuck/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 21:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Empowerment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self respect]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=226</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If it is really JUST about you saying your piece, then how your EX reacts, what he says, what he does, feels and thinks about it WOULD NOT MATTER TO YOU AT ALL. It would be all about YOU, and that is what closure is for, YOU. When his feelings, reactions (or lack of), emotions (or lack of), response (or lack of) have ANYTHING to do with it, then what you are seeking is NOT closure. What you are seeking is DIALOGUE. A continium. Closure is an ENDING. Not a continium. So be honest with yourself and the people in your life. Know what your real intentions are.]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Give Someone Closure?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/should-you-give-someone-closure/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 05:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Since most women are very vocal creatures they have, either through phone calls, email, or in person let their ex know why they ended things. So what is your ex-boyfriend or husband really looking for to get the closure they so desperately need?]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Really Want Closure or is That Just YOUR Excuse for Staying Stuck?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 15:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting a reaction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=156</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You tell them that you feel you can't move on without closure. Do you really believe this or is this just a line of BS because you really want him back? The "lack of closure" many women claim to want is, simply put, a lie. They actually are avoiding closure, because they don't want to accept the reality that a) it really IS over or b) that is really SHOULD be over. ]]></description>
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		<title>CLOSURE&#8230;Exactly what IS it you Need to GET IT?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-exactly-what-is-it-you-need-to-get-it/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-exactly-what-is-it-you-need-to-get-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 03:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Man whore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=113</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Justice is not always in the form of his punishment for what he did to you. Justice REALLY is the rewards you reap for no longer having this piece of garbage in your life. THAT is real closure.]]></description>
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		<title>So you Want to Curse Him Out? Tell Him Off?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/so-you-want-to-curse-him-out-tell-him-off/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/so-you-want-to-curse-him-out-tell-him-off/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 05:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Revenge]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am sure you have very good reasons to call him every name in the book. I know you would like to march over there right now and give him a piece of your mind. I am sure you would like to write him a letter or an email telling him off for every rotten evil thing he has ever done to you. I know you want him to know EXACTLY what you think of him. I am sure you have very good reasons to want to hit him over the head with a shovel as well.]]></description>
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