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	<title>What Women Need to Know About Relationships &#187; Playing games</title>
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		<title>Apples and Oranges &#8211; Part IV</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/compatibility/apples-and-oranges-part-iv/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/compatibility/apples-and-oranges-part-iv/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 23:53:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Compatibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deadend relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[
Knowing yourself and who you are, having the courage to express your personality, feelings, opinions etc helps people to know if YOU are the right choice for them. If a man wants an orange and you are an apple, why would you want him to pick you? That makes no sense. You want someone to love you for who you are, not who you have to pretend to be.]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Really Want Closure or is That Just YOUR Excuse for Staying Stuck?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 15:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting a reaction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=156</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You tell them that you feel you can't move on without closure. Do you really believe this or is this just a line of BS because you really want him back? The "lack of closure" many women claim to want is, simply put, a lie. They actually are avoiding closure, because they don't want to accept the reality that a) it really IS over or b) that is really SHOULD be over. ]]></description>
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		<title>THE SWEETHEART SCAMS</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/online-dating/the-sweetheart-scams/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/online-dating/the-sweetheart-scams/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 16:31:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Booty call]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Con artist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dangers of internet dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dangers of online dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deadend relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Honest]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Inconsistent behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Internet dating issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet scams]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[liar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Man whore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proving your love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Steal your money]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sweetheart scam]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Trust]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[ 
The sweetheart scam is one of the most devastating scams of all. The victim will not only lose money, a car, property, a business, be left responsible for enormous debt, they will often suffer psychologically and emotional. The sense of betrayal one feels after being a victim of a sweetheart scam can lead to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is The Person You&#8217;re Dating Married?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/online-dating/is-the-person-youre-dating-married/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/online-dating/is-the-person-youre-dating-married/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 16:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affair]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[birthday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Booty call]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Con artist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dangers of internet dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dangers of online dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[holiday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Honest]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Internet dating issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet scams]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[liar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Long Distance Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Man whore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Married man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[special occassion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Truth]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=145</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Believe it or not, according to an MSNBC dating survey, 30% of men with active listings on dating sites today are married!
Says one expert: "Whether a single woman meets her date through an online dating service, or at offline places like church or the market down the street, the 30% rat ratio remains constant."]]></description>
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		<title>How to Recognize a Con-Artist</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/online-dating/how-to-recognize-a-con-artist/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/online-dating/how-to-recognize-a-con-artist/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 19:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bad boy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breaking promises]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Con artist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Connection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Desperation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Disrepectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Excitement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Excuses]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Inconsistent behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Internet dating issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[liar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Long Distance Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Promises]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proving your love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rich]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Steal your money]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Taking advantage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Victim]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=136</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Con artists know that to be effective they have to hide their past. They are smart enough to know that if they come across as "loners", this may raise a red flag with their next victim. They will often go into great detail describing their friends,  family members, co-workers, and experiences they had together. In a way, this makes them (the friends and family) "witnesses" to the lies they are telling you, and give the victim of the con artist a false sense of security. They wouldn't lie about their experiences or who they are if you can easily verify their lie by speaking with their friends and family and associates, right? Wrong. You will NEVER meet these people!  ]]></description>
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		<title>What Makes a Man Bad Relationship Material?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-makes-a-man-bad-relationship-material/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-makes-a-man-bad-relationship-material/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 00:04:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Booty call]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment-phobic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Con artist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotionally distant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Expressing feelings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Man whore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Married man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rebound]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=128</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was going to write an article telling women to stay away from and stop waiting for men that are poor relationship choices. Then I realized I must first define what a poor choice is:

1) If he is married, he is bad relationship material]]></description>
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		<title>If You Have to Stalk It&#8217;s Time to Walk</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/if-you-have-to-stalk-its-time-to-walk/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/if-you-have-to-stalk-its-time-to-walk/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 16:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Complaining]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Con artist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Stalking]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Trust]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=91</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[It is ridiculous if you have to check his phone constantly, hack into his email, MySpace and Facebook accounts and do drive-bys all the time because you don't believe he is where he says he is. Now you have crossed the line. You are a stalker. If he has given you reasons to not trust him whatsoever, you probably never will and you will have to continue this behavior forever. Do you like doing this?]]></description>
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		<title>When He is Not Over His Ex&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/when-he-is-not-over-his-ex/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/when-he-is-not-over-his-ex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment-phobic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Con artist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotionally distant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ex-girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ex-wife]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rebound]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Waiting for change]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=89</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Having a friendship with a recent ex makes it very difficult to move on and you have to ask "Why do they want to be friends?" 
How did you miss these red flags? You couldn't be that blind. You should have known the risks. Yes, he is a bastard, but you saw the huge chance that he could be one, so why did you let him in?]]></description>
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		<title>Once an Asshole&#8230;Always an Asshole</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/once-an-asshole-always-an-asshole/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/once-an-asshole-always-an-asshole/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 14:58:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=87</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[At the beginning of a relationship we are getting to know the person, to decide if this is someone is right for us, and to see if we are a good match. If one of your pet peeves is tardiness, why are you giving the perpetually late guy a shot? If one of your top needs in a relationship is to spend a lot of time with the man, they why are you giving the workaholic the time of day?]]></description>
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		<title>He Calls You His &#8220;Girlfriend&#8221;, but Does He Treat You Like One?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/he-calls-you-his-girlfriend-but-does-he-treat-you-like-one/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/he-calls-you-his-girlfriend-but-does-he-treat-you-like-one/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 22:44:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=29</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The problem with labels in relationships is that labels lie. The man in your life can "label" you as his girlfriend, but if he sees other women, barely contacts you, hides his comings and goings with you, and basically is still acting single, sure you have the label, but does it mean anything?]]></description>
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