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	<title>I WANT CLOSURE &#124;  A Women&#039;s Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love &#187; Finding the right guy</title>
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		<title>Emotionally Unavailable Men &amp; Women Who Are &#8220;Connected&#8221; to Them</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 03:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are a lot of blogs out there that talk about &#8220;connections&#8221; women can have with men in this airy fairy way that make me want to puke. I understand people can feel connected to someone but what I don&#8217;t understand is how &#8220;connections&#8221; seem to give women a free pass to stay in dead end relationships or to pursue the wrong ones. Women tell me that this &#8220;connection&#8221; is on another level, that it is not just love or attraction but something else. O.k. fine, I can go with that, but what I won&#8217;t buy into is that the Universe, God, or whatever &#8220;connected&#8221; you to an emotionally unavailable man that you cannot &#8220;disconnect&#8221; from. Why would the universe, God, your Angels, or anything good force you to feel a connection to a man who is emotionally unavailable? So you can &#8220;cure&#8221; him? Please. If the Universe, God, your Angels or whoever had the power to make this connection that you are powerless over, then couldn&#8217;t they make him emotionally available while they are at it? I do believe in connections with men that are good for us and good choices for us, but I believe the opposite is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is Your Man Emotionally Unavailable?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 03:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have heard the term &#8220;emotionally unavailable&#8221; and was not sure what to think. Was this yet another cute catch phrase/label or another excuse/reason we give to a man to explain why our relationships are off-balance? We are all human, and all humans have the ability to feel emotions, so wtf is an emotionally unavailable man? If a man cannot love anyone on earth, then I would call him emotionally unavailable. If he is emotionally involved with someone else, but not available to you emotionally, then he IS emotionally available, just not to you. And who is to say that if he was not emotionally involved with someone else, that he would be emotionally available to you anyway? Emotions, such as love, are not dictated by logic. You could be attractive, smart, funny, loving, the whole nine yards, but that does not mean that everyone will fall in love with you. No one knows exactly why people fall in love or become emotionally invested with their partners. There is no secret formula for getting all men to fall in love with you. So does that mean that every guy who won&#8217;t fall for you is emotionally unavailable? No. So where [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;Fixer Uppers&#8221; &#8211; Not Good Relationship Real Estate?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 05:51:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Quite often people purchase a home thinking it has &#8220;potential&#8221;. It needs a lot of work, but they think they can handle it, and decide fixing it up could be a lot of fun. Usually fixer uppers can be had for a great price and are therefore a good deal to the potential home buyer. They try to figure out how expensive the repairs would be to turn it into their dream house not realizing they have purchased a black hole. They think the can fix it themselves but soon realize they need professional help and suddenly the cost becomes much more than they imagined. Then they discover there are even hidden costs and more wrong with the house than initially believed. The work that thought they could finish in &#8220;x&#8221; amount of time took ten times as long. Clearly they did not know what they were getting into. So why do women enter into relationships with men they consider &#8220;fixer uppers&#8221;? Women do seem to love a project, but they do not understand the &#8220;project&#8221; is going to fight them every step of the way. They think they can do the work themselves, when it is actually the other [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mr. Right vs. Mr. Wrong</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 07:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=786</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Many women search for Mr. Right, and may even think they have found him. The problem is, he may be &#8220;right&#8221; for someone else, but he is &#8220;wrong&#8221; for YOU. Women in these relationships are hell-bent on turning &#8220;Mr. Wrong&#8221; into &#8220;Mr. Right&#8221;. Ain&#8217;t gonna happen ladies. We are all smart enough to see a bad guy coming and when we do, we should run like our butt is on fire. But what do many of us do? Stick around, to see if he will change. We think perhaps we might be the one he finally settles down for, or changes his ways for. We think maybe we can turn him into Mr. Right if he falls madly in love with us. We need to stop thinking that and get real with ourselves. We need to stop thinking men are made of clay, and that we, with our love and guidance, can shape them into our version of the perfect guy for us. Mr. Right might be out there, but Mr. Right does not require that much work in order to be Mr. Right. He is Mr. Right naturally. If you have to fight tooth and nail for months and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When he Says He Doesn&#8217;t Want to Lose You&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 20:01:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=847</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A friend of mine had a boyfriend who recently broke up with her. He is now seeing another woman (at least one she knows of) but he keeps calling her to chat as if they are friends. She has told him this is hard for her to do, that she cannot be friends, but he keeps telling her he doesn&#8217;t want to lose her. Well, I want to go to Chanel and grab a bunch of stuff and not pay for it. Not going to happen. If this guy really doesn&#8217;t want to lose her, why did he dump her? Why is he doing everything he can to lose her? When men do not want to make a commitment or decide they want to see other people they let you go and end the relationship. Very often they will turn around and insist on maintaining a friendship with you because they don&#8217;t want to lose you. This is their way of keeping you on a hook, making it difficult for you to move on and get closure. They may want sex with no commitment, they may want you as someone to fall back on if their new prospects don&#8217;t work [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 04:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My Mother asked me one day about a guy I was seeing. She told me that I didn&#8217;t seem to be so thrilled with him and she asked me &#8220;Do you think you could marry this guy?&#8221; I laughed and said &#8220;No way!&#8221;. She asked if I could see us in a long term relationship. Again, I said no. She said &#8220;Then why are you with him right now?&#8221;. I had no answer. My Mother was right. If I did not see any potential in him, why was I with him? He was not &#8220;Mr. Right&#8221;, but &#8220;Mr. Right now&#8221;. Most women would love to find &#8220;Mr Right&#8221;, but what if they miss the opportunity because they are settling with &#8220;Mr. Right Now&#8221;? Is there really a point to &#8220;Mr. Right now&#8221;? Do we keep him around because there is no one else around? If we know there is no future with this man, are we using him to keep ourselves from feeling lonely? Is that fair to do to a person? Would we want someone to do that to us? Keep us around til they found something better? It is time for a reality check. If you have a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is He Ever Going to Leave Her? (His wife or Girlfriend)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:51:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you do when you have feelings for a man who is in a relationship with another woman? This could be a man who has no idea you have feelings for him and is off limits because he is in another relationship with either a girlfriend or a wife. It could be a man you began an affair with, who did not tell you he was married until after he had you on the hook. It could be a man you knew full well was not single, yet you didn&#8217;t stop seeing him. This man could be someone who told you he is in loveless marriage, without intimacy, and they are only together for a certain reason. The excuses they usually give are financial, children or health problems of their spouse or one of the kids. But he says he will leave her someday. He could have told you he is in no position to leave and never will. Let&#8217;s break each scenario down for you: The guy who is clueless that you are interested in him probably won&#8217;t leave her, and if he does will most likely not be with you. Don&#8217;t pin your hopes on that because [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Signs He is Bad For You</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 00:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When shopping for a new home we have to enter someone else&#8217;s house and begin to picture how our furniture and other items would fit into that home. We make mental changes in our heads to see how the home would look our personalized touches. Women also seem to do this a lot with men. They picture the man in their lives and how that man will improve with enough work, help and guidance. These changes have a slim chance of actually happening. Now the woman has in her head her man&#8217;s potential and how great the relationship could become. Unfortunately, she won&#8217;t let go of this illusion. She refuses to see that the guy is actually bad news and bad for her. Here are some signs to spot if a man is bad for you before you too get caught up in POTENTIAL instead of seeing reality. 1. Every reasonable boundary you create, he steps over. 2. He is already involved with one or more women. 3. His compliments (if he has any for you) always have a &#8220;but&#8221; attached to them. &#8220;You are a sexy woman, why do you have to dress that way? You don&#8217;t need to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Settling Down vs. Settling &#8211; What is the Difference?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/commitment/settling-down-vs-settling-what-is-the-difference/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=settling-down-vs-settling-what-is-the-difference</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 17:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many people use the terms &#8220;settling down&#8221; and &#8220;settling&#8221; as if they are inter-changeable, when in actuality, they are completely different things. What is the difference between the two? Well, when you settle down it is usually because you have found something that made you happy. You stop searching for it, because you found it. Your behavior and lifestyle changes but you are happy to do it because of the payoff. Settling, however, is the complete opposite. Settling is usually done when someone no longer believes they can achieve a goal or find what they have been looking for. They then settle for less. It is never more, or just enough, settling is always for less. When people settle down, they are often content and made their choices to do so because whatever sacrifices made it all seems worth it to them. When people settle, it is usually when they have given up and feel like something is better than nothing. People who settle down have a much better chance at being happy down the road, whereas people who have settled don&#8217;t. People who have settled are never satisfied because they did not get what they wanted. In relationships, when [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Chasing a man often backfires</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 22:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever met a guy you were &#8220;kinda&#8221; interested in that came on really strong?  Did it change your mind and make you feel better about him? In many cases, it is just the opposite &#8212; you get turned off! Have you ever had a guy you were unsure of or not that interested in call you repeatedly to say &#8220;Hi&#8221; or whatever and suddenly found yourself seeing him in a different way and became more interested? Again, in many cases, just the opposite. Instead you found him annoying, pushy, and now you are sure you want nothing to do with him. Have you ever, to be polite, told someone you were busy, not ready for a relationship, or don&#8217;t have time to date instead of telling them the truth? The truth being: You don&#8217;t have time for him, don&#8217;t want a relationship with him, or don&#8217;t have time to date him. You didn&#8217;t want him to take it personally and hurt his feelings, so you made it about you. Don&#8217;t you then get annoyed when he won&#8217;t get the hint and keeps trying? Now you see how a man feels when a woman does these things. So why [...]]]></description>
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