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		<title>When Will He Change His Mind? Shouldn&#8217;t You Change YOURS?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 03:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Will He Change His Mind? Shouldn&#8217;t You Change YOURS? You may be in love with a man who decided to end your relationship and hope one day he changes his mind. You may be currently with a man who refuses to commit to you, lies to you, cheats on you, or is emotionally unavailable to you, and you hope he changes his mind. You may be in a friends with benefits relationship, or one with no labels or boundaries, and hope one day he will change his mind. Why haven&#8217;t YOU changed YOUR mind and dropped this loser? What has gotten into your mind that you think his behavior is acceptable or what you deserve? What can you do to change your mind and see him for who he really is, and know that you deserve better than him? Instead of hoping his change will come someday, use that time to try and change yourself and your perception of your relationship with him. How can you love, trust or want to be with someone who treats you like shit, without respect, and does not make you happy? You did everything right to make him want to step up to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When Should You Give Up On Him?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 18:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Should You Give Up On Him? I had a conversation with a woman the other day. She told me how the man she loved told her two weeks ago how much he loved her, couldn&#8217;t live without her, and loved spending time with her. The problem is, she just found out he GOT MARRIED this weekend. She told me how confused she was. Why did he say all those things to her only to get married? He spent so much time over the last few months pursuing her, and getting her to believe his feelings for her were real. Why did he do that? She then went on to ask me if I think his marriage will last, if he really loves his new wife, and what did I think was the reason he did this? She seemed so focused on all the wrong things. Yes, I understand she was hurt and devastated, but what does it take to give up on him? Instead of wondering what the future holds for him and his wife, isn&#8217;t it time to realize she has no future with him? Instead of wondering why he did what he did, isn&#8217;t it time to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Signs of Dysfunctional Relationships vs Functional Ones</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 16:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Signs of Dysfunctional Relationships vs Functional Ones It would surprise many people to learn that they are in a dysfunctional relationship. Most people think their relationship may have a few problems or issues, but the truth is that their relationship is a dysfunctional one. It&#8217;s not complicated, as many like to say, it&#8217;s dysfunctional. So how can you tell if your relationship is dysfunctional, or functional? Here are some signs that your relationship is dysfunctional. 1. Your relationship status changes at the drop of a hat. You break up, get back together, break up again, and get back together again. No one takes your break ups seriously anymore because they happen so frequently. On/off relationships are dysfunctional, and the relationship is no longer sacred because it can be called off at any time. The relationship never matures and evolves,problems are never resolved, and the pattern continues. 2. Too much drama. Everyone has relationship drama now and then. Dysfunctional relationships have drama all the time, and for any little reason or no reason at all. This is unhealthy, and destructive. 3. Disappearing. If you or the one you are in a relationship with goes MIA without warning and for no good [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trying Again and Again With an Ex?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 20:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trying Again and Again With an Ex? I noticed a phenomenon when it comes to pens. Most people I know have a pen holder or a collection of pens somewhere in their house. I have seen them try to write with a pen, see that it clearly does not work, AND THEN PUT THE PEN BACK IN THE PEN HOLDER. I ask them &#8220;Do you think it is going so magically work later? Why not just throw it out?&#8221;. Many of them didn&#8217;t even realize they were doing it, and tossed out the broken pen. Others said they actually DID think the pen might work later. I bet many of you reading this have a pen in your house that does not work that you, for some reason, didn&#8217;t it throw away. This reminds me so much of how so many women hold on to their ex&#8217;s the same way. How many times do you have to see that a relationship with them clearly will not work? When is it time to throw your ex (and your hopes for your ex to change) in the trash? Why do we keep trying to make something broken work? There are so many [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When He Says He Doesn&#8217;t Know What He Wants</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 17:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When He Says He Doesn&#8217;t Know What He Wants Many women have found themselves involved or in love with a man who says, out of the blue, that he doesn&#8217;t know what he wants right now concerning a relationship. After a woman recovers from being completely blindsided, she then begins to wonder where that came from, and why. Why doesn&#8217;t he know what he wants all of a sudden? Why does he no longer know what he wants when he seemed to clearly know exactly what he wanted up til this point? When will he know what he wants? Since the statement came out of no where, and she really does not know where they stand and what the future holds, she is just as confused as he apparently is. Let&#8217;s take out some of the confusion. When he says he doesn&#8217;t know what he wants, he is actually telling you he knows what he doesn&#8217;t want. What he doesn&#8217;t want is the relationship you want. Men often pull this stunt and use this line when it is time for a relationship to go to the next level, or for one to start. When you are dating they say they [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Friends or Enemies? part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 23:27:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Friends or Enemies? Part 2 In our previous article about friends and enemies we discussed how the man you are involved with should be more of a positive person in your life than a negative. We expect our friends to live up to our idea of what a friend really is: loyally, faithful, truthful and supportive. We expect our friends to treat us with respect, have time for us, and show us that they care about us. The intimate relationships we have should be held to the same standards. If you expect a friend to treat you a certain way, why would you let the man in your life have a lower standard? Why would you call your friend out on the carpet if they did something wrong, but not the man you love? Now let&#8217;s get to our enemies. Why are they our enemies? Did they do something to hurt you, lie to you, mistreat you, or disrespect you? If they did, it makes sense that they are your enemy. But if the man in your life has done all that, why don&#8217;t you see him as your enemy instead of the man you love? You cannot possibly expect [...]]]></description>
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		<title>New Years Resolutions For Your Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 01:24:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since the New Year is coming up, we decided to write a few resolutions for your relationship that can only make for a better, happier New Year and happier YOU. 1. Leave the games to the professional sports players and keep them out of your relationship. Don&#8217;t play them, and stop being played by game players. 2. Let go of a relationship that did not work out. Stop comparing your current (or future) relationship to an old one. Stop letting your fixation on an old relationship prevent you from getting into a new one. Let the past stay in the past where it belongs. 3. Allow your partner, and yourself, the freedom to be yourselves. You do not have to like the all of the same things. Everyone has a habit that can be annoying. That should be ok with us, and our partner, because perfection is an unobtainable goal that keeps us from appreciating the good person we were lucky enough to find. 4. Stop using the same tactics to fix the same problems. If those tactics didn&#8217;t work the first hundred times you tried them, come up with a new plan. If you do not, change will not [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Could You, Should You, And Will You Get Him Back?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:41:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When couples break up, the questions we are asked the most is: 1. Can I get him back? 2. Will I get him back? 3. Should I get him back? The first thing you have to look at, before you even think about getting back together, is why you broke up in the first place. If you have broken up several times already, and have always gotten back together, chances are you are in an on/off relationship and will get back together again. However, instead of worrying if you will reunite, you need to focus on why you are in an on/off relationship. An on/off relationship is one where most people are not aware they are even in a relationship. The couple breaks up numerous times and gets back together. For one, it is a game, and they know they will get back together. The other thinks the &#8220;break ups&#8221; are real and goes through emotional hell each time. These relationships get worse over time, never get the chance to grow, and inevitably will end. Focus on how to change your relationship from an on/off relationship first before you even think of getting back together, since you will only repeat [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Adult Relationships Cannot Withstand Childish Behavior</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 21:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Adult relationships are the most healthy, happy, and have the most longevity. Childish, immature relationships having Drama Queens and Drama Kings, are dysfunctional and will bring more misery than happiness. You may think you have found true love or real love, but if childishness and immaturity plays a big part in your relationship, you are in danger of losing the relationship because it is going to crash and burn. As an adult, in order to communicate properly you have to both listen attentively and know how to speak without resorting to snark, sarcasm, accusations, nagging, and other traits that make someone tune you out. Giving a child a time-out is one thing, but your relationship is NOT a child. Resorting to childish behavior, such as giving the silent treatment for days on end is destructive, not constructive. It is one thing to leave to calm down and return with a cool head but if it takes you days to calm down, you are again behaving like a baby (especially if the issue was no big deal) and causing damage. Without a lot of effort on your part, the damage can be irreparable. So why do it? Why do people act [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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