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	<title>What Women Need to Know About Relationships &#187; Dysfunctional</title>
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	<description>Change the dynamics of your dysfunctional relationship or close the door for good!</description>
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		<title>Instead of Getting Closure &#8211; Some Ways to Stay in Limbo</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/instead-of-getting-closure-some-ways-to-stay-in-limbo/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/instead-of-getting-closure-some-ways-to-stay-in-limbo/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 16:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Staying Stuck]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Women have wonderful imaginations and are curious by nature. So if we can't talk to our ex or find out what is going on, we can simply fantasize about it! You can imagine telling him all the horrible things he has done and why he doesn't deserve to be back with you, you can imagine tears running down his face when he says how sorry he is, you can go over conversations over and over and over again so you know just what to say should you ever see/talk to him. You can picture him miserable, broken down and suffering. The problem is you are living in your imagination too much rather than accepting your reality and dealing with it.]]></description>
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		<title>Are YOU in an Abusive Relationship??</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/dysfunctional-relatinships/are-you-in-an-abusive-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/dysfunctional-relatinships/are-you-in-an-abusive-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 16:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relatinships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad behavior]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[treating badly]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=397</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Your partner is abusive when they feel they must "punish you" or threatens to "punish you" when they:

… Give you "the silent treatment" and/or tell you to "figure out" why they are mad and what to "figure out" what YOU did wrong.
… Strand you somewhere.]]></description>
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		<title>Is it worth it?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/ending-a-relationship/is-it-worth-it/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/ending-a-relationship/is-it-worth-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2010 04:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relatinships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=272</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[waiting for the payoff of the relationship to become what they want it to be. Let's say it is commitment, and you keep waiting, getting an excuse, yet you hang in there, and time is going by without a payoff. Exactly WHEN do you cut your losses and quit?]]></description>
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		<title>Apples and Oranges &#8211; Which Do You Want?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/starting-a-relationship/apples-and-oranges-which-do-you-want/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/starting-a-relationship/apples-and-oranges-which-do-you-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 19:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Compatibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Starting a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Beginning a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=262</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You can yell at an apple all day long and guess what? It still is not on orange.You can talk to the apple about how much you want it to be an orange. You can sit around and wait for the apple to change into an orange. Think it is going to work? No.]]></description>
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		<title>How to Trap a Man (it&#8217;s NOT what you think)</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/how-to-trap-a-man-its-not-what-you-think/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/how-to-trap-a-man-its-not-what-you-think/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 05:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=255</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This article is not about how to trap a man and get him to be yours forever and ever but the ways women often trap men into falling flat on their faces.]]></description>
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		<title>Friends or Enemies</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/friends-or-enemies/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/friends-or-enemies/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=215</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you look up the word friend to find a definition you would could up with something similar to the following:

 A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
 A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.
 A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade.

If you take a look at [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are you working full-time on your relationship while he is sleeping on the job?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/are-you-working-full-time-on-your-relationship-while-he-is-sleeping-on-the-job/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/are-you-working-full-time-on-your-relationship-while-he-is-sleeping-on-the-job/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 05:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relatinships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=210</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women need to learn to DELEGATE RESPONSIBILITY. Think of what your relationship needs. What does he need? What do you need? It is your job to do your share, and if you are doing it, wonderful. If your man is not doing HIS share, then write his ass up. Put him on 30 days notice. Then fire him if he doesn't get his shit together.]]></description>
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		<title>Give it UP Already&#8230;and MOVE ON!!!</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/give-it-up-already-and-move-on/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/give-it-up-already-and-move-on/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 00:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being Used]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deadend relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=184</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Why is it in almost every other area of a woman’s life she knows when to give up or quit EXCEPT when it comes to relationships? ]]></description>
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		<title>What Exactly Does He NEED You For?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-exactly-does-he-need-you-for/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-exactly-does-he-need-you-for/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 20:37:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Finding the right guy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=182</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What happens more often then not is he takes everything she does for granted, and then feel he is entitled to it. He doesn't feel grateful, just like a spoiled brat wouldn't either. Then if she does begin to say no to his needs he gets pissed off! Wow, how grateful.]]></description>
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		<title>Is it Time to End It versus Wasting Time to Mend it</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/learning-when-to-end-it-as-opposed-to-dragging-it-out/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/learning-when-to-end-it-as-opposed-to-dragging-it-out/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 01:19:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deadend relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=173</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ Women now seem to find the wrong guy and then try and make him the right guy! This works less than 1% of the time, if that. They waste years and years crying, fighting, and for what?]]></description>
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