Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
Worried about being a bitch or being mean? Don’t be If one more woman tells me she is worried about being a bitch or being mean I am going to scream. First of all, the women worrying about being bitches or being mean couldn’t be either on their worst day. REAL bitches don’t worry,...
Forgetting or Ignoring? Some ladies wrote in recently asking what it means if their boyfriend or husband forgot their Birthday or Anniversary. Well, if he really forgot, it means he forgot. If he knew about it, did nothing, and then lied and said he forgot as an excuse, that is another thing. Yes it...
I use the term “milk carton relationships” to describe those relationships that come with an expiration date. When you buy milk, there is a date stamped on it that let’s you know that after a certain date your milk will expire. There are some relationships that are just like milk cartons, and have an...
Many women are attracted to bad boys, thinking that when they grow up, they will become good men. They think once bad boys settle down, their ways will change for the better. This is not always so. Bad boys often grow up to be bad man. Sure, a bad boy can eventually settle down,...
When it comes to dating, many men “claim” to be looking for a relationship, when they are actually looking to serial date. For example: On internet dating websites, so many men say they are looking for a serious relationship, yet when you date them, you find out what big fat liars they are. They...
Enabling Does Not Create Change If you want someone to make changes, you have to make some changes of your own. If you enable someone, you enable them to stay as they are and not make changes. You may want the man in your life to do, say, or act differently, but what if...
There are a lot of blogs out there that talk about “connections” women can have with men in this airy fairy way that make me want to puke. I understand people can feel connected to someone but what I don’t understand is how “connections” seem to give women a free pass to stay in...
Many of our female clients have asked us why men withdraw. Actually, many women wonder why men withdraw, and here are some reasons why: 1. When a couple first meets and feels an overwhelming connection or chemistry, a tendency to want to be with this person 24/7 is commonplace. You are thrilled that he...
Many women search for Mr. Right, and may even think they have found him. The problem is, he may be “right” for someone else, but he is “wrong” for YOU. Women in these relationships are hell-bent on turning “Mr. Wrong” into “Mr. Right”. Ain’t gonna happen ladies. We are all smart enough to see...
I recently came across a site where people pose questions for other people on the site to answer. I found a repetitive theme, where people constantly were asking “What does it mean when he says this, or when he does that”? The answers were very obvious, but when seeing what answers were chosen by...
