Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
If you want to make yourself a priority to him, you have to make YOURSELF a priority FIRST. Don't count on him as your only companion. He doesn't have time to do stuff you enjoy? Do it yourself or with someone ELSE. Dont rely on HIM for every social activity or hobby YOU enjoy....
Women need to learn to DELEGATE RESPONSIBILITY. Think of what your relationship needs. What does he need? What do you need? It is your job to do your share, and if you are doing it, wonderful. If your man is not doing HIS share, then write his ass up. Put him on 30 days...
Women want to know WHY their boyfriend or husband treats them badly. What could a good reason possibly be? Is there one? Why isn't the answer obvious? It's really not that difficult to figure out. How many people do you love and respect that you treat like shit 90% of the time? None?
Women love to talk, discuss, have conversations, express themselves etc. The problem is that women also think they are being heard, that their conversation, expressing themselves, or discussion actually amounts to something. They expect it to achieve some favorable result. That might be true in some cases, unless of course, you are talking to...
Where do you think the term dysfunctional relationship comes from? Go look at your situation, and don't kid yourself. Instead of wondering when you will be in a real relationship, accept that you are in a dysfunctional one.
Justice is not always in the form of his punishment for what he did to you. Justice REALLY is the rewards you reap for no longer having this piece of garbage in your life. THAT is real closure.
In the business world, a partnership is two people working together, each taking on separate responsibilities, putting their strengths to good use. Each individual's weakness can be overcome by the strength of the other partner.
Women always talk to each other about their relationships, often complaining about the guy and trying to figure out answers to the eternal question... "Why doesn't he...". Instead of spending an eternity searching for answers you may never get, why not ask the question "Why do I?" instead!
Okay, so he pissed you off because he hasn't called when he said he would. Understandable. Perhaps you are furious over the fact that he promised to see more of you but you are actually seeing eachother the same amount, if not LESS. Again, understandable. If he promised to take you somewhere or do...
