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	<title>What Women Need to Know About Relationships &#187; Creating change</title>
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	<description>Change the dynamics of your dysfunctional relationship or close the door for good!</description>
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		<title>Fruit Salad&#8230; Apples and Oranges (V)</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/compatibility/fruit-salad-apples-and-oranges-v/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/compatibility/fruit-salad-apples-and-oranges-v/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 04:35:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Compatibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Differences are not always deal breakers, but we have to examine our differences to see if they are harmonious or not.]]></description>
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		<title>Apples and Oranges &#8211; Part IV</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/compatibility/apples-and-oranges-part-iv/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 23:53:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Compatibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Deadend relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[
Knowing yourself and who you are, having the courage to express your personality, feelings, opinions etc helps people to know if YOU are the right choice for them. If a man wants an orange and you are an apple, why would you want him to pick you? That makes no sense. You want someone to love you for who you are, not who you have to pretend to be.]]></description>
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		<title>Tired of Being Second Choice? Do Something About it!</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/tired-of-being-second-choice-do-something-about-it/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self respect]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=217</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you want to make yourself a priority to him, you have to make YOURSELF a priority FIRST. Don't count on him as your only companion. He doesn't have time to do stuff you enjoy? Do it yourself or with someone ELSE. Dont rely on HIM for every social activity or hobby YOU enjoy. Show him you made YOURSELF a priority and he will too. If he doesnt, you will be too busy to notice, and wont settle for a man who only has time to squeeze you in when it is convenient for HIM.]]></description>
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		<title>Are you working full-time on your relationship while he is sleeping on the job?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/are-you-working-full-time-on-your-relationship-while-he-is-sleeping-on-the-job/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/are-you-working-full-time-on-your-relationship-while-he-is-sleeping-on-the-job/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 05:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relatinships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=210</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women need to learn to DELEGATE RESPONSIBILITY. Think of what your relationship needs. What does he need? What do you need? It is your job to do your share, and if you are doing it, wonderful. If your man is not doing HIS share, then write his ass up. Put him on 30 days notice. Then fire him if he doesn't get his shit together.]]></description>
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		<title>What Does it Mean When Your Husband/Boyfriend Treats You Like Shit?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-does-it-mean-when-your-husbandboyfriend-treats-you-like-shit/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-does-it-mean-when-your-husbandboyfriend-treats-you-like-shit/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 05:30:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mean to me]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=169</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women want to know WHY their boyfriend or husband treats them badly. What could a good reason possibly be? Is there one? Why isn't the answer obvious?  It's really not that difficult to figure out. How many people do you love and respect that you treat like shit 90% of the time? None?]]></description>
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		<title>Why are You Talking to a Shoe?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/why-are-you-talking-to-a-shoe/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/why-are-you-talking-to-a-shoe/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 04:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Waiting for change]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=125</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women love to talk, discuss, have conversations, express themselves etc. The problem is that women also think they are being heard, that their conversation, expressing themselves, or discussion actually amounts to something. They expect it to achieve some favorable result. That might be true in some cases, unless of course, you are talking to a man that is the equivalent of talking to a SHOE. ]]></description>
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		<title>Did you Even Know You Are IN a Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/did-you-even-know-you-are-in-a-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/did-you-even-know-you-are-in-a-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 04:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relatinships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Booty call]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment-phobic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=122</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Where do you think the term dysfunctional relationship comes from? Go look at your situation, and don't kid yourself. Instead of wondering when you will be in a real relationship, accept that you are in a dysfunctional one.]]></description>
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		<title>CLOSURE&#8230;Exactly what IS it you Need to GET IT?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-exactly-what-is-it-you-need-to-get-it/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-exactly-what-is-it-you-need-to-get-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 03:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Man whore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=113</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Justice is not always in the form of his punishment for what he did to you. Justice REALLY is the rewards you reap for no longer having this piece of garbage in your life. THAT is real closure.]]></description>
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		<title>Once an Asshole&#8230;Always an Asshole</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/once-an-asshole-always-an-asshole/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/once-an-asshole-always-an-asshole/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 14:58:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Man whore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=87</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[At the beginning of a relationship we are getting to know the person, to decide if this is someone is right for us, and to see if we are a good match. If one of your pet peeves is tardiness, why are you giving the perpetually late guy a shot? If one of your top needs in a relationship is to spend a lot of time with the man, they why are you giving the workaholic the time of day?]]></description>
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		<title>Relationships Require Work&#8230; Is the Load Split 50/50?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/relationships-require-work-is-the-load-split-5050/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/relationships-require-work-is-the-load-split-5050/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 05:23:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Giving too much]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Partnership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Taking advantage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Taking for granted]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=68</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In the business world, a partnership is two people working together, each taking on separate responsibilities, putting their strengths to good use.  Each individual's weakness can be overcome by the strength of the other partner.]]></description>
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