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		<title>Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 03:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Before you let your heart invest in a relationship, you need to make sure the man you choose in emotionally available. Here are some signs of an emotionally unavailable man so you can spot one quickly, before you are in too deep: 1. If he has a girlfriend or wife. If he has not divorced the wife and broken up with the girlfriend, he is emotionally unavailable to you. No ifs, ands or buts about it. If he is separated from his wife or broken-up with the girlfriend, but they still live together for ANY REASON AT ALL, he is emotionally unavailable and off-limits to your heart. 2. Communication &#8211; If he is hard to reach and disappears for days/weeks/months without warning (or explanation) then he is emotionally unavailable. If he wanted to get closer to you, he would keep your communication steady and reliable. You would talk about deeper things than sex, the weather and your jobs. He would use that communication to learn more about you and give you the chance to learn more about him. If trying to get him to talk is like pulling teeth, he is emotionally unavailable. If he is constantly unavailable when you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Do Men Withdraw?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 19:10:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many of our female clients have asked us why men withdraw. Actually, many women wonder why men withdraw, and here are some reasons why: 1. When a couple first meets and feels an overwhelming connection or chemistry, a tendency to want to be with this person 24/7 is commonplace. You are thrilled that he contacts you several times a day and wants to see you all the time. You begin to think you have found something really special. He seems so attentive and interested in everything about you and about your life. Then, suddenly, the does a 360. What happened? Why did he withdraw like this? Did you do something? Did his feelings change? Not necessarily. When a couple first meets, a man may come on very strong to show you how much he likes you. He is also caught up in the newness of it all and really is interested in you and getting to know you. But then all the things he has been avoiding or put on the back burner to put you in the front have caught up with him. It was unrealistic for him to devote that much time, energy and effort and live the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Adult Relationships Cannot Withstand Childish Behavior</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 21:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Adult relationships are the most healthy, happy, and have the most longevity. Childish, immature relationships having Drama Queens and Drama Kings, are dysfunctional and will bring more misery than happiness. You may think you have found true love or real love, but if childishness and immaturity plays a big part in your relationship, you are in danger of losing the relationship because it is going to crash and burn. As an adult, in order to communicate properly you have to both listen attentively and know how to speak without resorting to snark, sarcasm, accusations, nagging, and other traits that make someone tune you out. Giving a child a time-out is one thing, but your relationship is NOT a child. Resorting to childish behavior, such as giving the silent treatment for days on end is destructive, not constructive. It is one thing to leave to calm down and return with a cool head but if it takes you days to calm down, you are again behaving like a baby (especially if the issue was no big deal) and causing damage. Without a lot of effort on your part, the damage can be irreparable. So why do it? Why do people act [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Making Excuses to Contact an ex</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 03:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After a break-up most of you wonder if you will speak with or see your ex again. You wonder what he is doing and want to know what he is up to. You want to know if he misses you, thinks about you, or wants to get back together with you. You think he has not contacted you because he is already involved with someone new. Instead of coming right out and asking him these questions, many people make up excuses to contact an ex. If your ex has passed the third grade he should be able to see right through your lame excuse to initiate communication with him. Sure, you want to hear his voice and find out information about what is going on in his life, but what you really want you won&#8217;t get, because you are not upfront with him about the reasons you are calling him. On the other hand, your ex may be contacting you with lame excuses. What do you think he really wants? He does not really need to know if you got your brakes changed, found their pair of old socks, or had a good weekend. Obviously he does not have closure [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pride and Ego Can Ruin Your Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 22:06:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We should all be proud of ourselves, have pride in our accomplishments and a healthy ego. If we love ourselves, it is easier for others to love us. But in some cases our pride and ego can actually get in the way of our relationships. When someone is talking about themselves do you interject and try and &#8220;one up them?&#8221;. Were they excited to tell you about let&#8217;s say the money they won but when you felt the need to interrupt and talk about the time you won money they withdrew? Allow someone else their moment to shine, to brag, and to feel proud. Be proud of them, but don&#8217;t take away from their experience by making it about you. You don&#8217;t want your partner to feel you are in competition with one another, yet by constantly turning it back to you, you are giving them that very feeling. When you are wrong, can you say you are sorry? If you both had a disagreement, do you always wait for the other person to come to you to work it out? Why can&#8217;t you swallow your pride instead of letting your partner be the bigger person? The sense of winning [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Complaining and Criticizing in a Relationship Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 20:01:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No relationship is perfect, and neither are the two people in that relationship. It is hard not to criticize our loved ones even when we try. Sometimes our criticism is constructive, but other times it is the exact opposite &#8211; destructive. Too many complaints and too much criticism can take the romance out of a relationship faster than a speeding bullet. Look at the way you and your partner communicate? Is it mostly in a loving, supportive and uplifting way? When you speak is it one negative thing after the other? If it is the latter, one would assume your sex life is not as good as it could be. It is much more difficult to feel sexy or romantic towards your partner when they have very little good to say about you. Those criticisms and complaints can really hurt your ego, so initiating sex can lead to rejection, so you simply don&#8217;t do it anymore. People say you should not take it personally and that your partner may mean well, but when the delivery is bad and it goes on day after day, you have no choice but to start taking it personally. Instead of using words like &#8220;You [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Insecurity &#8211; His, Yours, And How it Affects Your Relationship part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 02:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Insecurity in a relationship can quickly destroy it. Think of insecurity as you would a termite. You know that one termite in your house becomes thousands, and those thousands will quickly eat away at your home in no time flat. The damage is often extensive and in some cases, irreparable. The same is true with insecurity. Once it contaminates a relationship, it grows and grows to the point that the relationship is ultimately destroyed. But where is this insecurity coming from anyway? Is it coming from a past relationship and you or your husband/boyfriend have brought it into this one? Let&#8217;s say you, for instance, have been cheated on in the past. Your ex boyfriend used tell you he was going out with his friends when in actually he was seeing another woman. Now, whenever your new boyfriend tells you he is going out with his friends you instantly panic. You either question him or a) let your mind run amok with horrible scenarios of what he could be doing b) pick a fight with him because you are now sure he is up to no good, just like all the other guys you&#8217;ve known. You could try and spy [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Tell if Someone is Lying to You</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 06:04:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No one wants to be lied to. Sometimes we have a &#8220;funny feeling&#8221; someone is lying to us, and sometimes we are totally clueless and believe every thing they say. What are some good ways to tell someone is lying to you? 1. Vagueness. When someone does not give you normal details suspect they are not being entirely truthful. For instance, if your husband normally tells you daily what restaurant he went to at lunch and what he ate but suddenly does stops bringing it up, ask him where he went for lunch. If he has to think about it, and seems to not want to discuss it further, it is time to get suspicious. He very well may be lying. 2. Rambling. If they are giving you way too much information than is called for, check and see if their nose is growing like Pinocchio, because in many cases, it should be. 3. They won&#8217;t look you in the eye. Avoiding eye contact can be a tell-tale sign that they are lying. 4. Body language. Are their feet tapping out of control? Are their arms crossed in a way that they look like they are giving themselves a hug? [...]]]></description>
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		<title>They love you, but are not &#8220;in love&#8221; with you. What do you do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 20:22:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the most devastating things to hear is when the person you love tells you they love you, but are not in love with you. You may feel completely blindsided, as quite often this happens with no warning. But even if you have been going through some tough times you did not think it would make them fall out of love with you. You walk around in a daze and feel your world has been rocked to it&#8217;s core. Now what? What do you do? Not only do you have to deal with your feelings, but you are worried about their feelings. (Or lack thereof). You want answers, reasons, and you want to know if their feelings will return. The problem is that you have no control over the situation. It is entirely up to them if they want to give your relationship a chance or let it go. That is very hard for people to deal with, the uncertainty of it all. The first steps should be to have a talk about the here and now. Ask them if they want to go to counseling, if they want to work it out, and what they would like you [...]]]></description>
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