The fairytales we read in our childhood end when the courtship ends and marriage or a serious relationship begins. Isn't that quite often when the fairytale ends in real life as well? We cannot expect to never have a fight or win every argument.
We want to satisfy our cravings not constantly and continually feel them. Just like people have told us to pay attention to what our body is craving, because most likely that is what your body needs, what we crave from relationships is our way of knowing what will really make us happy and content....
Today people are living together before even dating a few months. There was a time when living together was a step couples would often take to "test" the relationship before marriage. It was usually done by committed couples who had been together, gotten to know each other, and believed their relationship was being taken...
Commitment means different things to different people. For some women, it simply means manogomy and receiving the title of "girlfriend" when talked about or introduced to other people. For other women, commitment means marriage or living together. The question on so many womens' minds is "WHEN will we be in a committed relationship?"
How come you don't know how he feels? Is it because the relationship is too new for him to really have feelings? Is that why he doesn't express them? Is he sending you mixed signals, where one day he says something and then another day he says the exact opposite for no good reason...