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		<title>Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 16:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care? I was speaking to a woman the other day who was asking a group of ladies about the man she loves. She found out he was cheating with numerous women, and had lied to her repeatedly. She asked us if we thought he had lied about everything, what we thought about what he had done, and why we think he had done it. After going on and on about this, I finally started answering every question she asked with &#8220;Who cares?&#8221;. It, to me, was the only fitting answer. She knows now he is a cheater, she spoke to two of the women he cheated with and they all told her he said the same things to her that he did to them. So why does it matter, and why should she care anymore? She knows who he is now. A cheater and a liar. Someone who cheats on you and lies to you all the time cannot possibly love you, respect you, or care about your feelings. So why the concern with theirs? Who cares if he ever loved you, because even if he did, his love, like his word, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 03:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Before you let your heart invest in a relationship, you need to make sure the man you choose in emotionally available. Here are some signs of an emotionally unavailable man so you can spot one quickly, before you are in too deep: 1. If he has a girlfriend or wife. If he has not divorced the wife and broken up with the girlfriend, he is emotionally unavailable to you. No ifs, ands or buts about it. If he is separated from his wife or broken-up with the girlfriend, but they still live together for ANY REASON AT ALL, he is emotionally unavailable and off-limits to your heart. 2. Communication &#8211; If he is hard to reach and disappears for days/weeks/months without warning (or explanation) then he is emotionally unavailable. If he wanted to get closer to you, he would keep your communication steady and reliable. You would talk about deeper things than sex, the weather and your jobs. He would use that communication to learn more about you and give you the chance to learn more about him. If trying to get him to talk is like pulling teeth, he is emotionally unavailable. If he is constantly unavailable when you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When he Says He Doesn&#8217;t Want to Lose You</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 20:01:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When he Says He Doesn&#8217;t Want to Lose You, what exactly does he mean? A friend of mine had a boyfriend who recently broke up with her. He is now seeing another woman (at least one she knows of) but he keeps calling her to chat as if they are friends. She has told him this is hard for her to do, that she cannot be friends, but he keeps telling her he doesn&#8217;t want to lose her. Well, I want to go to Chanel and grab a bunch of stuff, not pay for it and not go directly to jail. Not going to happen. If this guy really doesn&#8217;t want to lose her, why did he dump her? Why is he doing everything he can to lose her? When men do not want to make a commitment or decide they want to see other people they let you go and end the relationship. Very often they will turn around and insist on maintaining a friendship with you because they don&#8217;t want to lose you. This is their way of keeping you on the hook, making it difficult for you to move on and get closure. They may want sex [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Went Back to His Ex &#8211; Now What?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 18:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[He Went Back to His Ex &#8211; Now What? When you first started dating your guy, he swore he was over her and would rather chew off his own foot than get back together. He told you negative things about her that made her out to be some swamp creature. As a matter of fact, he never seemed to have anything good to say about her. He may have told you all kinds of horror stories and admitted his friends and family will kill him if he ever got back together with his ex. Well, he should be a dead man any second now because he did. You just can&#8217;t believe it! You are devastated and can&#8217;t believe he gave her another chance. Did he tell you they had gotten broken up and gotten back together several times before? If he did, that was your first red flag. Couples that keep going back to one another, even though they swore that was the last time quite often repeat this pattern for years. It is always a good idea to ask how many times the couple has gone back and forth before you give him a shot. If he tells you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Settling Down vs. Settling &#8211; What is the Difference?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 17:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Settling Down vs. Settling &#8211; What is the Difference? Many people use the terms &#8220;settling down&#8221; and &#8220;settling&#8221; as if they are inter-changeable, when in actuality, they are completely different things. What is the difference between the two? Well, when you settle down it is usually because you have found something that made you happy. You stop searching for it, because you found it. Your behavior and lifestyle changes but you are happy to do it because of the payoff. Settling, however, is the complete opposite. Settling is usually done when someone no longer believes they can achieve a goal or find what they have been looking for. They then settle for less. It is never more, or just enough, settling is always for less. When people settle down, they are often content and made their choices to do so because whatever sacrifices made it all seems worth it to them. When people settle, it is usually when they have given up and feel like something is better than nothing. People who settle down have a much better chance at being happy down the road, whereas people who have settled don&#8217;t. People who have settled are never satisfied because they [...]]]></description>
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		<title>They love you, but are not &#8220;in love&#8221; with you. What do you do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 20:22:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[They love you, but are not &#8220;in love&#8221; with you. What do you do? One of the most devastating things to hear is when the person you love tells you they love you, but are not in love with you. You may feel completely blindsided, as quite often this happens with no warning. But even if you have been going through some tough times you did not think it would make them fall out of love with you. You walk around in a daze and feel your world has been rocked to it&#8217;s core. Now what? What do you do? Not only do you have to deal with your feelings, but you are worried about their feelings. (Or lack thereof). You want answers, reasons, and you want to know if their feelings will return. The problem is that you have no control over the situation. It is entirely up to them if they want to give your relationship a chance or let it go. That is very hard for people to deal with, the uncertainty of it all. The first steps should be to have a talk about the here and now. Ask them if they want to go to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>10 Tips That Can Keep a Relationship Alive</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 06:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[10 Tips That Can Keep a Relationship Alive Think of your relationship as a living thing. In the beginning you gave it everything it needed, food, water, attention, and a place to live and grow. Now that time has passed, are you giving your relationship what it needs to survive and stay alive? Just because we are in a relationship does not mean we no longer have to care for it. if we don&#8217;t, it can simply die. What can you do to keep your relationship alive? 1. Don&#8217;t sweat the small stuff. After all, in the grand scheme of things it really is small stuff. Who cares if he left his socks on the floor? Sure, remind him again to pick them up, but is that really worthy of an argument and hostility? Why not remind yourself that the same guy who left the socks on the floor is the same guy who held your hand while you were afraid to keep you calm. 2. Have time set aside for the two of you to act like a couple. It is hard, with all the things we have to do and our hectic lives to find time, but it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Respect, and why all relationships need it</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 05:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you want your boyfriend or husbands private conversations with you to your girlfriends is showing him respect? I should hope not. Do you think if your boyfriend or husband reveals intimate details about your sex life to his friends he is showing you respect? He isn&#8217;t. Do either of you think about each others feelings before you do or say something? If you don&#8217;t, you are not showing each other the respect that is deserved in a relationship. Do either of you resort to insensitive name-calling or &#8220;teasing&#8221; and do not acknowledge you are hurting their feelings? Do you justify it by saying &#8220;I was only kidding&#8221;? Have you stopped doing it, now that you know they do not like it, or do you keep doing it? If you have not stopped, you are disrespecting your partner time and again. When either of you make decisions that affect you both, do you ask for your partners input, or do you simply decide what is best for you regardless of how they may feel? Do you respect the commitment you made and not allow other people to disrespect it? Do you allow the people in your life to talk or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love vs. Infatuation ~ What is the Difference?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 04:57:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Real love and infatuation are two completely different things. The problem is that many people confuse the two. What is the difference between love and infatuation? Infatuation centers around emotion. When you love someone, it is much more than just emotion. Your behaviors and commitment come along with it. As we all know, our emotions change from hour to hour, day to day, and are not consistent and cannot be counted on to stay the same. When you really love someone, you love them warts and all. You see them for who they are and love them anyway. When you are infatuated with someone, you fail to see their faults because to you they have none. They are perfect in your eyes and can do no wrong. Infatuation is spur of the moment, can happen in an instant, and can be towards someone you just met, just saw in a magazine or on tv but have never met in person, nor may you ever. We can all be infatuated with someone like Angelina Jolie or Hugh Jackman, but we don&#8217;t love them. We don&#8217;t really know them, and if we think we do we are kidding ourselves. We become infatuated [...]]]></description>
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