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		<title>&#8220;It&#8217;s Complicated &#8221; Really is Code For &#8220;It&#8217;s Dysfunctional&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your relationship most likely should end, and you know it. All relationships are complex, but quite often we make them more complicated than they really are. Occam&#8217;s razor is a line of reasoning that the simplest answer is most likely the correct one. This line of reasoning is used by police to solve crimes, doctors to diagnose illnesses, etc. It would be great if people used this same line of reasoning to simplify their relationships, instead of making them more complicated. Let&#8217;s looks at some scenarios for &#8220;complicated relationships&#8221; and cut through the bull*hit once and for all: 1. If you are married but in the process of getting a divorce, just put divorced instead of the dramatic label of &#8220;it&#8217;s complicated&#8221;. If anyone really needs to know the details, they already know, or you can tell them personally. People that are working on their marriage, or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You Caught Him Red-Handed. Now What Are You Going to do About it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. He is in control, and it is going to get out of control and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Expose a Cheating Boyfriend or Husband?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While out on a window-shopping expedition at the local mall, you spot a close friend&#8217;s husband or boyfriend with another woman. You stop dead in your tracks thinking &#8220;Who the hell is that b*tch?&#8221; and decide to watch the two of them for a while to see what, if anything is going on. And then you see it&#8230;they are holding hands, kissing, and you know that he is indeed cheating on your friend. Now what do you do? Do you confront the two of them right there and then, insisting he confess to your friend, or you will tell her everything? Or should you immediately call your friend and tell her everything you just saw? It would be great if you are able to take some photos of the two of them with your cell phone, but only if you can do it without them seeing you (obviously). The next thing you need to do is take a moment to think about it. You may want to tell your friend right away, but this could be the worst news she has ever gotten in her life. Before you dial that phone, remember you don&#8217;t know where she is and she [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Many Chances Should You Give Him?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 21:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How many chances should you give a guy before you end a relationship? It really does depend on what you are giving him another chance for. It is reasonable to give him a few chances to remember to put the toilet seat down because it is not a major offense like having an affair. The key word is reasonable. If a man constantly lies about where he is and you keep catching him, if you don&#8217;t end the relationship, you have basically accepted the behavior and it becomes a part of your relationship. Relationships should have set, permanent boundaries, not temporary ones. If you do not want to be with a man who lies all the time, then end your relationship with the man who is lying to you all the time. When a man knows he can get away with something, not only will he do it, but he doesn&#8217;t fear the consequences of doing it. You cannot say you won&#8217;t tolerate a man who cheats on you and stay with a man who continues to cheat on you. Most people believe in second chances. They want to think they would be given a second chance, and I understand [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Confronting the Other Woman -Should You or Shouldn&#8217;t You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 03:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How would you feel if you discover your guy is seeing someone else? Lousy!  He made a commitment to you, broke it and is now seeing this other woman. You want to give them both a piece of your mind. Take a deep breath before you even think about doing this. All the hurt you are feeling now is nothing, because when you see her, your emotions just may skyrocket even further. You don&#8217;t want to get into a verbal shouting match in front of other people. You don&#8217;t want to do it in front of your children either. You don&#8217;t want to get arrested should it lead to a physical fight. All of these things can happen if you decide to confront the other woman. What do you hope to gain by confronting her? To cause her pain?  If she knew about your relationship she obviously doesn&#8217;t care enough about you or your feelings for you to hurt her. She may get mad, but that is about it. She already justified, in her own mind, the reasons for doing what she did. So causing her pain is out.  And forget about physical pain as well because this biotch is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Unacceptable Behavior in Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 20:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As time goes on, many unacceptable behaviors in relationships seem to be tolerated, especially by women. Things that used to be &#8220;deal breakers&#8221; have now become accepted and excused. It is time to put your foot down and stop allowing the unacceptable behavior in your relationship to continue. What is unacceptable behavior? Well the list is long, and can vary from person to person. There are some though that are on almost everyone&#8217;s list, such as: 1. Physical abuse. 2. Verbal abuse. 3. Threatening you with bodily harm. 4. Destruction of your personal property when they get angry with you. 5. Destruction of any property when they get angry at anyone. This is an anger management problem and must be addressed. 6. Cheating, if a commitment has been made. 7. Financial irresponsibility. Either spending your joint funds without your knowledge, keeping you in the dark about your finances, stealing money from you, or always borrowing money that they never pay back. 8. Lying repeatedly to the point you cannot trust anything they say. 9. Excessive drinking or abusing drugs. 10. Being bossy or controlling. If you find there are unacceptable behaviors in your relationship it is time to face the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Affair is Over &#8211; Do You Tell His Wife / Girlfriend?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 22:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you have been in a relationship with a married man, should you tell his wife or girlfriend that you and he had an affair? The answer is not the same one-size-fits-all. It depends on the situation and your reasons for wanting to tell her. Let&#8217;s say you were dating (and being intimate) with a man who you thought was single. You grew closer, trusted him, and saw a future between the two of you. One day he tells you he is married or has a girlfriend. It is quite understandable that you would want to let her know about it because you have both been tricked and mistreated by this man. You may feel the need to warn her and feel sympathy for her. Especially if he ends your affair (that you did not even know you were having) because he is beginning another (or already involved in another). But what if you knew exactly what you were getting into? What if you knew he was married or had a girlfriend and chased him anyway? What if you knew he was not single and was pursing you and you allowed it? If your affair began with full disclosure between [...]]]></description>
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		<title>“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 00:12:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The quote “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” is from Maya Angelou and is quite brilliant. Why, when someone shows us who they are do we not want to see it? Why, when a man shows us he is a player do we make excuses or think he will change down the road? Why do we think he will change? Why do we not simply accept that he is a player? Why do we not want to accept the truth about people? When a man shows you that he is a liar and cannot be trusted the first time, should we give them a second chance to lie to us again? Many people say we all deserve a second chance, as we would all like be given one. However, a third, fourth, fifth, etc. chance? No way. Do not make someone have to show you over and over and over again who they really are, believe them the first time they show you. Why does it take us so long to be believe the truth? If you are with a man who is not single, and is either married or has a girlfriend and he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Tell if Someone is Lying to You</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 06:04:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[No one wants to be lied to. Sometimes we have a &#8220;funny feeling&#8221; someone is lying to us, and sometimes we are totally clueless and believe every thing they say. What are some good ways to tell someone is lying to you? 1. Vagueness. When someone does not give you normal details suspect they are not being entirely truthful. For instance, if your husband normally tells you daily what restaurant he went to at lunch and what he ate but suddenly does stops bringing it up, ask him where he went for lunch. If he has to think about it, and seems to not want to discuss it further, it is time to get suspicious. He very well may be lying. 2. Rambling. If they are giving you way too much information than is called for, check and see if their nose is growing like Pinocchio, because in many cases, it should be. 3. They won&#8217;t look you in the eye. Avoiding eye contact can be a tell-tale sign that they are lying. 4. Body language. Are their feet tapping out of control? Are their arms crossed in a way that they look like they are giving themselves a hug? [...]]]></description>
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