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		<title>Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 16:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care? I was speaking to a woman the other day who was asking a group of ladies about the man she loves. She found out he was cheating with numerous women, and had lied to her repeatedly. She asked us if we thought he had lied about everything, what we thought about what he had done, and why we think he had done it. After going on and on about this, I finally started answering every question she asked with &#8220;Who cares?&#8221;. It, to me, was the only fitting answer. She knows now he is a cheater, she spoke to two of the women he cheated with and they all told her he said the same things to her that he did to them. So why does it matter, and why should she care anymore? She knows who he is now. A cheater and a liar. Someone who cheats on you and lies to you all the time cannot possibly love you, respect you, or care about your feelings. So why the concern with theirs? Who cares if he ever loved you, because even if he did, his love, like his word, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When Should You Give Up On Him?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 18:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Should You Give Up On Him? I had a conversation with a woman the other day. She told me how the man she loved told her two weeks ago how much he loved her, couldn&#8217;t live without her, and loved spending time with her. The problem is, she just found out he GOT MARRIED this weekend. She told me how confused she was. Why did he say all those things to her only to get married? He spent so much time over the last few months pursuing her, and getting her to believe his feelings for her were real. Why did he do that? She then went on to ask me if I think his marriage will last, if he really loves his new wife, and what did I think was the reason he did this? She seemed so focused on all the wrong things. Yes, I understand she was hurt and devastated, but what does it take to give up on him? Instead of wondering what the future holds for him and his wife, isn&#8217;t it time to realize she has no future with him? Instead of wondering why he did what he did, isn&#8217;t it time to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>To See The Future of Your Relationship &#8211; Look at the Past</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 16:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To See The Future of Your Relationship &#8211; Look at the Past Women seem to hold on to their present relationships because of their hopes for the future. They feel if they can get through the storms currently in their relationship, that sunshine and rainbows will be waiting on the other side. The problem is, the future they imagined has a very slim to none chance of actually coming to fruition. To clearly see the future of your relationship, you must first look at the past. The past is a better indicator of what your relationship will be in the future that just hopes,wishes and daydreams. The future has to based on reality, and the past is reality. If you have been with a man who doesn&#8217;t take you anywhere and your relationship is only a sexual one, don&#8217;t think your future has something different in mind. The passage of time does not change things for the better, but our past behavior often sets the patterns of our behavior in the future. Take the first few months (which are always the best) out of the equation. Then look at your relationship from then til now. What has he learned? That [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Signs of Dysfunctional Relationships vs Functional Ones</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 16:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Signs of Dysfunctional Relationships vs Functional Ones It would surprise many people to learn that they are in a dysfunctional relationship. Most people think their relationship may have a few problems or issues, but the truth is that their relationship is a dysfunctional one. It&#8217;s not complicated, as many like to say, it&#8217;s dysfunctional. So how can you tell if your relationship is dysfunctional, or functional? Here are some signs that your relationship is dysfunctional. 1. Your relationship status changes at the drop of a hat. You break up, get back together, break up again, and get back together again. No one takes your break ups seriously anymore because they happen so frequently. On/off relationships are dysfunctional, and the relationship is no longer sacred because it can be called off at any time. The relationship never matures and evolves,problems are never resolved, and the pattern continues. 2. Too much drama. Everyone has relationship drama now and then. Dysfunctional relationships have drama all the time, and for any little reason or no reason at all. This is unhealthy, and destructive. 3. Disappearing. If you or the one you are in a relationship with goes MIA without warning and for no good [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I Can&#8217;t Believe He Did That!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 23:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I Can&#8217;t Believe He Did That! After reading several emails from women that contained the phrase &#8220;I can&#8217;t believe he did that&#8221; I felt it was time to address that phrase. Reading the emails from these ladies showed that they clearly did most of the work in the relationship, and that the man that they were in love with didn&#8217;t do shit. Quite often women believe that if they treat a man better than anyone else has, he will stay. Oh how wrong that is. If you can&#8217;t believe he broke up with you, it&#8217;s time to make a believer out of you. Sure, you treated him great and may have given him no good reason to break up with you and yet he did it anyway. Yes, it can be shocking and undeserving, but he did it. Men can have a good reason, a stupid one, or no reason at all to break up with you. It&#8217;s not fair, but it is the truth. Yes, he may have spent countless hours,days,months or years telling you how much he loved you. But now he says he no longer does and you cannot believe it. Believe that at one time he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Away With It, Do you Let Him Get Away With Too Much?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 18:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting Away With It &#8211; Do You Let Him Get Away With too Much? Are you letting him get away with too much in your relationship? Are the things you are letting him get away with helping your relationship or hurting it? If the man in your life is not the most punctual person in the world and runs late (but not too late) then letting that slide is not the worst thing in the world. We all have our flaws, and if the flaws are not that big of a deal to you, then let him get away with it. However, if the things you are letting him get away with are causing him to believe he can get away with anything and everything, it&#8217;s time you created some boundaries and rules and begin enforcing them. He should not be able to abuse you in any way shape or form and get away with it. He should not be able to have affairs and cheat and get away with it. When someone abuses you or cheats on you, they have no respect for you, or the relationship. You lose respect for yourself as well when you let someone get [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Emotional Logic &#8211; Dating and Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2012 18:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Emotional Logic &#8211; Dating and Relationships Emotional logic is an oxymoron. People tend to justify relationships they are in, trying to get in, or staying with for way too long by what we call &#8220;emotional logic&#8221;. This is when people justify their decisions in relationships with &#8220;logic&#8221; that makes zero sense. Rather than deal with their relationships the way real logic would dictate, they fabricate illogical reasons to stay stuck in unhealthy situations. Some of these fabrications may actually have some logic to them, but within the context of the entire relationship it falls very short. It can start small, and then grow into a parallel like universe where they cannot separate reality from fantasy anymore. It can start off simple, like when a guy does not call for days or weeks and the woman he is dating or in a relationship with accepts the fact that he is just so busy and leaves it at that. Shouldn&#8217;t she realize that it takes 10 seconds to send a text message saying &#8220;I am busy right now, but will call when I am free&#8221; and everyone has 10 seconds during a 24 hour day to do so? Shouldn&#8217;t it occur to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;It&#8217;s Complicated &#8221; Really is Code For &#8220;It&#8217;s Dysfunctional&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your relationship most likely should end, and you know it. All relationships are complex, but quite often we make them more complicated than they really are. Occom&#8217;s razor is a line of reasoning that the simplest answer is most likely the correct one. This line of reasoning is used by police to solve crimes, doctors to diagnose illnesses, etc. It would be great if people used this same line of reasoning to simplify their relationships, instead of making them more complicated. Let&#8217;s looks at some scenarios for &#8220;complicated relationships&#8221; and cut through the bull*hit once and for all: 1. If you are married but in the process of getting a divorce, just put divorced instead of the dramatic label of &#8220;it&#8217;s complicated&#8221;. If anyone really needs to know the details, they already know, or you can tell them personally. People that are working on their marriage, or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it? We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. [...]]]></description>
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