Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is “It’s complicated”? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as “It’s complicated”? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your...
I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird – distant,...
We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you...
While out on a window-shopping expedition at the local mall, you spot a close friend’s husband or boyfriend with another woman. You stop dead in your tracks thinking “Who the hell is that b*tch?” and decide to watch the two of them for a while to see what, if anything is going on. And...
How would you feel if you discover your guy is seeing someone else? Lousy! He made a commitment to you, broke it and is now seeing this other woman. You want to give them both a piece of your mind. Take a deep breath before you even think about doing this. All the hurt...
As time goes on, many unacceptable behaviors in relationships seem to be tolerated, especially by women. Things that used to be “deal breakers” have now become accepted and excused. It is time to put your foot down and stop allowing the unacceptable behavior in your relationship to continue. What is unacceptable behavior? Well the...
When you have been in a relationship with a married man, should you tell his wife or girlfriend that you and he had an affair? The answer is not the same one-size-fits-all. It depends on the situation and your reasons for wanting to tell her. Let’s say you were dating (and being intimate) with...
The quote “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” is from Maya Angelou and is quite brilliant. Why, when someone shows us who they are do we not want to see it? Why, when a man shows us he is a player do we make excuses or think he will...
No one wants to be lied to. Sometimes we have a “funny feeling” someone is lying to us, and sometimes we are totally clueless and believe every thing they say. What are some good ways to tell someone is lying to you? 1. Vagueness. When someone does not give you normal details suspect they...
