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		<title>When Will He Change His Mind? Shouldn&#8217;t You Change YOURS?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 03:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Will He Change His Mind? Shouldn&#8217;t You Change YOURS? You may be in love with a man who decided to end your relationship and hope one day he changes his mind. You may be currently with a man who refuses to commit to you, lies to you, cheats on you, or is emotionally unavailable to you, and you hope he changes his mind. You may be in a friends with benefits relationship, or one with no labels or boundaries, and hope one day he will change his mind. Why haven&#8217;t YOU changed YOUR mind and dropped this loser? What has gotten into your mind that you think his behavior is acceptable or what you deserve? What can you do to change your mind and see him for who he really is, and know that you deserve better than him? Instead of hoping his change will come someday, use that time to try and change yourself and your perception of your relationship with him. How can you love, trust or want to be with someone who treats you like shit, without respect, and does not make you happy? You did everything right to make him want to step up to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When He Says He Doesn&#8217;t Know What He Wants</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 17:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When He Says He Doesn&#8217;t Know What He Wants Many women have found themselves involved or in love with a man who says, out of the blue, that he doesn&#8217;t know what he wants right now concerning a relationship. After a woman recovers from being completely blindsided, she then begins to wonder where that came from, and why. Why doesn&#8217;t he know what he wants all of a sudden? Why does he no longer know what he wants when he seemed to clearly know exactly what he wanted up til this point? When will he know what he wants? Since the statement came out of no where, and she really does not know where they stand and what the future holds, she is just as confused as he apparently is. Let&#8217;s take out some of the confusion. When he says he doesn&#8217;t know what he wants, he is actually telling you he knows what he doesn&#8217;t want. What he doesn&#8217;t want is the relationship you want. Men often pull this stunt and use this line when it is time for a relationship to go to the next level, or for one to start. When you are dating they say they [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Isn&#8217;t he Afraid of Losing You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 14:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#60;h1&#62;Why Isn&#8217;t he Afraid of Losing You?&#60;/h1&#62; Everyone is afraid of something. We may not all be afraid of the same things, but we are all afraid of something. For the moment, let us use sharks as an example. Why are most human beings afraid of sharks? Because sharks will bite you, eat you, and you will probably die. (Good reasons). We are afraid of sharks because of what they will do to us. If sharks just hugged and blew kisses at people instead of eat/kill them, everyone would want to have a pet shark in their pool. So how does this relate to relationships? It is the same concept. If your husband or boyfriend is always doing things to upset you, hurt you, or make you angry, you may wonder, why he isn’t afraid of you, or afraid of losing you. Could it be because he views you as a baby seal and not as a shark? When he does something you don’t like do you just yell, scream, or talk his ear off? Please keep in mind that no one is a afraid of a barking dog, they are afraid of the barking dog biting them. If you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Could You, Should You, And Will You Get Him Back?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:41:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When couples break up, the questions we are asked the most is: 1. Can I get him back? 2. Will I get him back? 3. Should I get him back? The first thing you have to look at, before you even think about getting back together, is why you broke up in the first place. If you have broken up several times already, and have always gotten back together, chances are you are in an on/off relationship and will get back together again. However, instead of worrying if you will reunite, you need to focus on why you are in an on/off relationship. An on/off relationship is one where most people are not aware they are even in a relationship. The couple breaks up numerous times and gets back together. For one, it is a game, and they know they will get back together. The other thinks the &#8220;break ups&#8221; are real and goes through emotional hell each time. These relationships get worse over time, never get the chance to grow, and inevitably will end. Focus on how to change your relationship from an on/off relationship first before you even think of getting back together, since you will only repeat [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mr. Right vs. Mr. Wrong</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 07:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many women search for Mr. Right, and may even think they have found him. The problem is, he may be &#8220;right&#8221; for someone else, but he is &#8220;wrong&#8221; for YOU. Women in these relationships are hell-bent on turning &#8220;Mr. Wrong&#8221; into &#8220;Mr. Right&#8221;. Ain&#8217;t gonna happen ladies. We are all smart enough to see a bad guy coming and when we do, we should run like our butt is on fire. But what do many of us do? Stick around, to see if he will change. We think perhaps we might be the one he finally settles down for, or changes his ways for. We think maybe we can turn him into Mr. Right if he falls madly in love with us. We need to stop thinking that and get real with ourselves. We need to stop thinking men are made of clay, and that we, with our love and guidance, can shape them into our version of the perfect guy for us. Mr. Right might be out there, but Mr. Right does not require that much work in order to be Mr. Right. He is Mr. Right naturally. If you have to fight tooth and nail for months and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it? We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Insecurity &#8211; His, Yours, And How it Affects Your Relationship part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 02:28:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Insecurity &#8211; His, Yours, And How it Affects Your Relationship part 2 We have covered insecurities coming from past relationships in a previous posting, but what if your current relationship is the cause of insecurity? What if your new boyfriend is warm, caring, expressive and loving but then out of nowhere becomes quiet, sullen and distant? You may find yourself questioning why he suddenly changed, and asking yourself if it was something you did or said. It just makes it worse if he won&#8217;t tell you and has no explanation for it. If he continues the pattern of being Dr. Jekyll and Mr Hyde you will always be insecure because his behavior is not allowing you to feel secure. When he acts and says things that makes you feel he cares or loves you, but other times it is the exact opposite, you are always left feeling uncertain. The first thing you must do is stop worrying about what you may have done, or may have said. There is no reason to blame yourself, because it is not your fault. You must also stop trying to come up with ideas to make him stop running hot and cold. The next [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is it Time to End Your Relationship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 18:50:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a good side and a bad side that many people tend to hang on to relationships rather than let them go easily. The good side is that some people are willing to hang in there through the good times and the bad times, and don&#8217;t just bail when the relationship hits a snag. It shows a willingness to work things out and a commitment to the relationships. It also shows that they do not have unrealistic expectations of relationships and know that things don&#8217;t always go smoothly. The bad side is that many people tend to hang in there too long. The relationship is beyond repair, yet they stay in a miserable situation that will never change because they don&#8217;t want to &#8220;give up&#8221;. When is it time to end your relationship? 1. If you are being abused in any way. Do not stay one minute longer in an abusive relationship. End it now. You did not ask to be abused, and you can do nothing to stop it. It is up to them, and you need not be around if they are not working on their issue, or even if they are. End it now. 2. Are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Apples and Oranges &#8211; Part IV</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 23:53:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Knowing yourself and who you are, having the courage to express your personality, feelings, opinions etc helps people to know if YOU are the right choice for them. If a man wants an orange and you are an apple, why would you want him to pick you? That makes no sense. You want someone to love you for who you are, not who you have to pretend to be.]]></description>
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		<title>Apples and Oranges &#8211; Which Do You Want? Compatibility in relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 19:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You can yell at an apple all day long and guess what? It still is not on orange.You can talk to the apple about how much you want it to be an orange. You can sit around and wait for the apple to change into an orange. Think it is going to work? No.]]></description>
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