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	<title>What Women Need to Know About Relationships &#187; Can&#8217;t move forward</title>
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		<title>Pity is Never Pretty</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/ending-a-relationship/pity-is-never-pretty/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/ending-a-relationship/pity-is-never-pretty/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 08:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you begin to make yourself pathetic and set yourself up for him to treat you like garbage it is time to stop. It's over. No, he is NOT going to feel guilty. Showing him and telling him how much you are hurting and miserable after awhile just PISSES HIM OFF. He doesn't feel responsible and gets mad at you for trying to make him feel guilty.]]></description>
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		<title>Instead of Getting Closure &#8211; Some Ways to Stay in Limbo</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/instead-of-getting-closure-some-ways-to-stay-in-limbo/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/instead-of-getting-closure-some-ways-to-stay-in-limbo/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 16:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Staying Stuck]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=402</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Women have wonderful imaginations and are curious by nature. So if we can't talk to our ex or find out what is going on, we can simply fantasize about it! You can imagine telling him all the horrible things he has done and why he doesn't deserve to be back with you, you can imagine tears running down his face when he says how sorry he is, you can go over conversations over and over and over again so you know just what to say should you ever see/talk to him. You can picture him miserable, broken down and suffering. The problem is you are living in your imagination too much rather than accepting your reality and dealing with it.]]></description>
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		<title>Apples and Oranges &#8211; Which Do You Want?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/starting-a-relationship/apples-and-oranges-which-do-you-want/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/starting-a-relationship/apples-and-oranges-which-do-you-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 19:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Compatibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Starting a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Beginning a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=262</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You can yell at an apple all day long and guess what? It still is not on orange.You can talk to the apple about how much you want it to be an orange. You can sit around and wait for the apple to change into an orange. Think it is going to work? No.]]></description>
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		<title>Closure&#8230; do you REALLY Want it or Just Using the Need for it as a Way to Keep Obsessing..?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-do-you-really-want-it-or-just-using-the-need-for-it-as-a-way-to-keep-obsessing/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-do-you-really-want-it-or-just-using-the-need-for-it-as-a-way-to-keep-obsessing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 23:57:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=245</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[While men try to avoid anything that could remind them of their ex, women tend to do the opposite. Women will re-read emails and letters to the point that they have them memorized. That takes them on a literary journey through the relationship they just got out of and re-opens the wounds so they cannot heal. In most cases at times of breakups, women tend to focus on the "shiny happy times" before your ex showed his true colors. We think of all the things we will miss, how the relationship could have worked "If only he ____", and the pure shame of it all. What women DON'T tend to focus on is the bad side of their ex and all the reasons why it didn't work out.]]></description>
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		<title>Give it UP Already&#8230;and MOVE ON!!!</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/give-it-up-already-and-move-on/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/give-it-up-already-and-move-on/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 00:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being Used]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deadend relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=184</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Why is it in almost every other area of a woman’s life she knows when to give up or quit EXCEPT when it comes to relationships? ]]></description>
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		<title>When His Ex Becomes Your Problem</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/when-his-ex-becomes-your-problem/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/when-his-ex-becomes-your-problem/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 22:07:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Boundary]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[dealing with exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dealing with problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ex-girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ex-wife]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fairness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting what you want]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Waiting for change]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=165</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There is a lack of closure here as well. A woman who calls her ex every time she has a problem, aside from anything child related, like asking him for favors is behaving in a manner she is no longer entitled to. Obviously she is resisting it for one reason or another. She needs a man of her own, not yours, to discuss her problems, ask favors, the whole nine yards. He is not her man anymore, and he is not a fill-in until she finds one either.]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Really Want Closure or is That Just YOUR Excuse for Staying Stuck?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 15:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting a reaction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=156</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You tell them that you feel you can't move on without closure. Do you really believe this or is this just a line of BS because you really want him back? The "lack of closure" many women claim to want is, simply put, a lie. They actually are avoiding closure, because they don't want to accept the reality that a) it really IS over or b) that is really SHOULD be over. ]]></description>
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		<title>CLOSURE&#8230;Exactly what IS it you Need to GET IT?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-exactly-what-is-it-you-need-to-get-it/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-exactly-what-is-it-you-need-to-get-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 03:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relatonship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Man whore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship skills]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=113</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Justice is not always in the form of his punishment for what he did to you. Justice REALLY is the rewards you reap for no longer having this piece of garbage in your life. THAT is real closure.]]></description>
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		<title>If You Have to Stalk It&#8217;s Time to Walk</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/if-you-have-to-stalk-its-time-to-walk/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/if-you-have-to-stalk-its-time-to-walk/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 16:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Complaining]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Con artist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Stalking]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Trust]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=91</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[It is ridiculous if you have to check his phone constantly, hack into his email, MySpace and Facebook accounts and do drive-bys all the time because you don't believe he is where he says he is. Now you have crossed the line. You are a stalker. If he has given you reasons to not trust him whatsoever, you probably never will and you will have to continue this behavior forever. Do you like doing this?]]></description>
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		<title>When He is Not Over His Ex&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/when-he-is-not-over-his-ex/</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/dating/when-he-is-not-over-his-ex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Commitment-phobic]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Ex-girlfriend]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Needing closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rebound]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship mistakes]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Waiting for change]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=89</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Having a friendship with a recent ex makes it very difficult to move on and you have to ask "Why do they want to be friends?" 
How did you miss these red flags? You couldn't be that blind. You should have known the risks. Yes, he is a bastard, but you saw the huge chance that he could be one, so why did you let him in?]]></description>
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