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		<title>New Years Resolutions For Your Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 01:24:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since the New Year is coming up, we decided to write a few resolutions for your relationship that can only make for a better, happier New Year and happier YOU. 1. Leave the games to the professional sports players and keep them out of your relationship. Don&#8217;t play them, and stop being played by game players. 2. Let go of a relationship that did not work out. Stop comparing your current (or future) relationship to an old one. Stop letting your fixation on an old relationship prevent you from getting into a new one. Let the past stay in the past where it belongs. 3. Allow your partner, and yourself, the freedom to be yourselves. You do not have to like the all of the same things. Everyone has a habit that can be annoying. That should be ok with us, and our partner, because perfection is an unobtainable goal that keeps us from appreciating the good person we were lucky enough to find. 4. Stop using the same tactics to fix the same problems. If those tactics didn&#8217;t work the first hundred times you tried them, come up with a new plan. If you do not, change will not [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Making Excuses to Contact an ex</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 03:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After a break-up most of you wonder if you will speak with or see your ex again. You wonder what he is doing and want to know what he is up to. You want to know if he misses you, thinks about you, or wants to get back together with you. You think he has not contacted you because he is already involved with someone new. Instead of coming right out and asking him these questions, many people make up excuses to contact an ex. If your ex has passed the third grade he should be able to see right through your lame excuse to initiate communication with him. Sure, you want to hear his voice and find out information about what is going on in his life, but what you really want you won&#8217;t get, because you are not upfront with him about the reasons you are calling him. On the other hand, your ex may be contacting you with lame excuses. What do you think he really wants? He does not really need to know if you got your brakes changed, found their pair of old socks, or had a good weekend. Obviously he does not have closure [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it? We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Does &#8220;Taking a Break&#8221; Always Lead to a Break-up?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:28:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many couples take breaks from their relationships but more times than not, the &#8220;break&#8221; becomes a break up. But does &#8220;taking a break&#8221; always lead to a break up? First let&#8217;s look at the common reasons couples decide to take a break in their relationship: 1. They have a huge blow up and need some space to cool down. These &#8220;breaks&#8221; are usually just for the couple to clear their minds and keep things from escalating. They are usually short-lived. 2. Sometimes people do not want to deal with their partner&#8217;s reaction to a break-up, so instead they slowly pull away. You may notice emotional distance, lack of phone calls, texts, and emails. Affectionate behavior and sex also slows down. Then they announce they need to &#8220;take a break&#8221; from the relationship. Instead of breaking it off cleanly they drag out the break up process. 3. They don&#8217;t want to lose you, but they want to explore other possibilities. Let&#8217;s say you are in a monogamous relationship with John. John has been flirting with a girl at work for some time, and is curious to see what could happen with her. So what does John do? He suggests &#8220;taking a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Does She Have That You Don&#8217;t Have?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:34:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What Does She Have That You Don&#8217;t Have? Quite often when a breakup occurs because we are left for another woman we wonder &#8220;What does she have that I don&#8217;t have?&#8221;. For starters: A lying, cheating pig of a man. Second, she has a man who will probably cheat on her too. And third, she has a relationship that will most likely end because he started it with her before he finished things with you. And last but not least, she has the ending of an affair, and the reality of what a relationship with him is really like. She also has bad taste. When you met him, he was free, and you had no idea he was this much of a scumbag, but she knows very well what he is capable of. She has a delusional mind. Where you would never trust him again, she is deluded enough to think he would never do that to her. Not really something to envy, is it? You could assume he left you for her because of something you lacked, but it really was not about you. He has no excuse for cheating, lying, and failing to work things out with you. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Healing After A Break Up</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 19:30:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Healing After A Break Up Pain is the first thing anyone feels after a breakup. Secondly, people tend to beat themselves up which makes that hurt linger for much longer than need be. Why do we find a need to beat ourselves up? To try and understand what the heck went wrong in your relationship and figure out what, if anything, you did to bring the relationship to an end. The common ways we beat ourselves up are: 1. Wondering what is wrong with you. You ask yourself why this keeps happening to you, why you always seem to attract the wrong type of guy, and tell yourself you will never find happiness and are doomed to failure. Stop doing that to yourself. It didn&#8217;t work with this guy but that does not mean it can&#8217;t work out with another. 2. You blame yourself. &#8220;If only I would have _____, or if only I didn&#8217;t ____&#8221; goes through your mind over and over again. Remember that if it was the right relationship you would not have done the &#8220;wrong&#8221; things or said the &#8220;wrong&#8221; things. And who is to say they were wrong anyway? Your ex? Why isn&#8217;t it about [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dealing With Rejection in a Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 18:31:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dealing With Rejection in a Relationship When we start out on our journey to find true love we are not equipped with the thick skin we may need to face rejection along the way. Most of us are not that lucky to find the love of our lives and the perfect relationship that is going to last a lifetime. We should be prepared for rejection, but we are not. Even if someone is wrong for us, if they are the person that verbalizes it first, we feel rejected somehow! We did not want them, but we did not want them to not want us. When we feel strong emotions from someone who does not feel the same way, we are distraught and devastated. We wonder why we were not good enough, attractive enough, sexually compatible enough or why they did not feel the same chemistry and connection that we did. We turn it on ourselves and blame ourselves. We take it personally, when really it isn&#8217;t personal. It was their opinion/feelings, not yours. They cannot control chemistry, emotions, or their opinions. We don&#8217;t know why we like chocolate rather than vanilla, we just do. Vanilla should not be upset with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Letting Go &#8211; Does it Mean Giving up on Your Ex?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 19:09:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Letting Go &#8211; Does it Mean Giving up on Your Ex? Many people are afraid to let go because they fear that at the same time, they must give up. But does letting go always mean you are giving up? Not necessarily. When you have an ex, or are currently involved in a relationship that is not working for you, letting go can simply mean that you have stopped trying. You finally reach a point where you realize you cannot control how another person feels, what they want, and their intentions towards you. They have free will and make their own decisions and are responsible for their own behavior, actions, words, and choices. Letting go does not mean you have given up on someone, but what you let go of is trying to force change that you are not in control of. The only person that you have that control over is you. If you want an ex back but they are not receptive towards you, you need to accept that at a certain point. You can hope they may want you back in the future, but you must accept that they do not want to reunite with you now. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is Your Emotional Baggage Too Heavy For Your relationship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 06:28:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have all heard of the term &#8220;Emotional Baggage&#8221; but what is it exactly? A definition I found online states that emotional baggage is : Painful memories, mistrust and hurt carried around from past sexual or emotional rejection that cause issues in the present. Are you carrying around emotional baggage? It it getting in the way of you being happy in your current relationship? Is it what is keeping you from having a relationship? Has emotional baggage caused any of your past relationships to end? If you answered &#8220;Yes&#8221; to any of the above questions, then it is time to get rid of that emotional baggage once and for all. It will take time, but the time to start is now. You may have been cheated on in the past. Yes, it is going to take time to trust again, but instead of thinking you will be cheated on, use your hindsight to help you, not block you. Were there signs that you were being cheated on? If you can discover them, use that knowledge in your current relationships. Think about how much smarter you are now and how you will see those signs should they arise. Was the person [...]]]></description>
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