Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
I use the term “milk carton relationships” to describe those relationships that come with an expiration date. When you buy milk, there is a date stamped on it that let’s you know that after a certain date your milk will expire. There are some relationships that are just like milk cartons, and have an...
Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is “It’s complicated”? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as “It’s complicated”? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your...
Friends with benefits is an oxymoron. Exactly what benefits do you have in a situation like this? You don’t have the benefit of being long term friends, because the sex almost always gets in the way. You get sex, but with none of the benefits of having sex in an intimate, monogamous relationship. There...
I recently came across a site where people pose questions for other people on the site to answer. I found a repetitive theme, where people constantly were asking “What does it mean when he says this, or when he does that”? The answers were very obvious, but when seeing what answers were chosen by...
I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird – distant,...
When he Says He Doesn’t Want to Lose You, what exactly does he mean? A friend of mine had a boyfriend who recently broke up with her. He is now seeing another woman (at least one she knows of) but he keeps calling her to chat as if they are friends. She has told...
Here is Part 2 in our series of Signs He is NOT That Interested in YOU 4. He does not make plans with you, he just calls at the last minute. If the only time he seems to call you is after he has done something else and no one is around he is...
Signs You Are Being Used The signs are all there for people to see if they are being used. Why don’t people recognize the fact that they are being used? In many cases it is all about denial. They refuse to accept the fact that they are being used and choose to believe the...
There are always red flags that we "should have seen", the problem is, we most often see them way too late. Many people have lost money, possessions, and their hearts to someone they should have seen as suspicious from day one. Of course there are the more obvious red flags which we will discuss...
If that is what I need to do to impress him, or keep him, he can go chase himself because I am no longer interested. And you shouldn't be either. Really, what the hell does he need nude or sexy photos of you for anyway? If you want to take photos of yourself and...
