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	<title>I WANT CLOSURE &#124;  A Women&#039;s Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love &#187; Affairs</title>
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		<title>&#8220;It&#8217;s Complicated &#8221; Really is Code For &#8220;It&#8217;s Dysfunctional&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your relationship most likely should end, and you know it. All relationships are complex, but quite often we make them more complicated than they really are. Occam&#8217;s razor is a line of reasoning that the simplest answer is most likely the correct one. This line of reasoning is used by police to solve crimes, doctors to diagnose illnesses, etc. It would be great if people used this same line of reasoning to simplify their relationships, instead of making them more complicated. Let&#8217;s looks at some scenarios for &#8220;complicated relationships&#8221; and cut through the bull*hit once and for all: 1. If you are married but in the process of getting a divorce, just put divorced instead of the dramatic label of &#8220;it&#8217;s complicated&#8221;. If anyone really needs to know the details, they already know, or you can tell them personally. People that are working on their marriage, or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Value and Price &#8211; Does he Value You or is Your Price too low?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 22:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Look at all the things you do for your significant other. Look at the way you treat them, speak to them, and all the ways you show them you love them. You clearly show them what you they are worth to you, but now look at how much they value you. Look at how much they seem to value you, and could it be that you set your price too low? No one should be so high maintenance that no one can really &#8220;afford&#8221; them, but the price they pay to have your in their lives and get all you have to offer should not be too low either. Have they put you in the bargain bin, or have you done that to yourself? If you constantly do for others, yet they won&#8217;t lift a finger when you ask for help, then they do not value what you do for them. If they did, they would &#8220;pay you back&#8221;. If they take for granted all that you do, it has no value to them. If they feel entitled to take from you and not be appreciative of it, what you are giving really has no value either. If they keep [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You Caught Him Red-Handed. Now What Are You Going to do About it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. He is in control, and it is going to get out of control and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Expose a Cheating Boyfriend or Husband?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While out on a window-shopping expedition at the local mall, you spot a close friend&#8217;s husband or boyfriend with another woman. You stop dead in your tracks thinking &#8220;Who the hell is that b*tch?&#8221; and decide to watch the two of them for a while to see what, if anything is going on. And then you see it&#8230;they are holding hands, kissing, and you know that he is indeed cheating on your friend. Now what do you do? Do you confront the two of them right there and then, insisting he confess to your friend, or you will tell her everything? Or should you immediately call your friend and tell her everything you just saw? It would be great if you are able to take some photos of the two of them with your cell phone, but only if you can do it without them seeing you (obviously). The next thing you need to do is take a moment to think about it. You may want to tell your friend right away, but this could be the worst news she has ever gotten in her life. Before you dial that phone, remember you don&#8217;t know where she is and she [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Confronting the Other Woman -Should You or Shouldn&#8217;t You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 03:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=813</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[How would you feel if you discover your guy is seeing someone else? Lousy!  He made a commitment to you, broke it and is now seeing this other woman. You want to give them both a piece of your mind. Take a deep breath before you even think about doing this. All the hurt you are feeling now is nothing, because when you see her, your emotions just may skyrocket even further. You don&#8217;t want to get into a verbal shouting match in front of other people. You don&#8217;t want to do it in front of your children either. You don&#8217;t want to get arrested should it lead to a physical fight. All of these things can happen if you decide to confront the other woman. What do you hope to gain by confronting her? To cause her pain?  If she knew about your relationship she obviously doesn&#8217;t care enough about you or your feelings for you to hurt her. She may get mad, but that is about it. She already justified, in her own mind, the reasons for doing what she did. So causing her pain is out.  And forget about physical pain as well because this biotch is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is He Ever Going to Leave Her? (His wife or Girlfriend)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:51:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you do when you have feelings for a man who is in a relationship with another woman? This could be a man who has no idea you have feelings for him and is off limits because he is in another relationship with either a girlfriend or a wife. It could be a man you began an affair with, who did not tell you he was married until after he had you on the hook. It could be a man you knew full well was not single, yet you didn&#8217;t stop seeing him. This man could be someone who told you he is in loveless marriage, without intimacy, and they are only together for a certain reason. The excuses they usually give are financial, children or health problems of their spouse or one of the kids. But he says he will leave her someday. He could have told you he is in no position to leave and never will. Let&#8217;s break each scenario down for you: The guy who is clueless that you are interested in him probably won&#8217;t leave her, and if he does will most likely not be with you. Don&#8217;t pin your hopes on that because [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Affair is Over &#8211; Do You Tell His Wife / Girlfriend?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 22:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you have been in a relationship with a married man, should you tell his wife or girlfriend that you and he had an affair? The answer is not the same one-size-fits-all. It depends on the situation and your reasons for wanting to tell her. Let&#8217;s say you were dating (and being intimate) with a man who you thought was single. You grew closer, trusted him, and saw a future between the two of you. One day he tells you he is married or has a girlfriend. It is quite understandable that you would want to let her know about it because you have both been tricked and mistreated by this man. You may feel the need to warn her and feel sympathy for her. Especially if he ends your affair (that you did not even know you were having) because he is beginning another (or already involved in another). But what if you knew exactly what you were getting into? What if you knew he was married or had a girlfriend and chased him anyway? What if you knew he was not single and was pursing you and you allowed it? If your affair began with full disclosure between [...]]]></description>
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		<title>“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 00:12:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The quote “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” is from Maya Angelou and is quite brilliant. Why, when someone shows us who they are do we not want to see it? Why, when a man shows us he is a player do we make excuses or think he will change down the road? Why do we think he will change? Why do we not simply accept that he is a player? Why do we not want to accept the truth about people? When a man shows you that he is a liar and cannot be trusted the first time, should we give them a second chance to lie to us again? Many people say we all deserve a second chance, as we would all like be given one. However, a third, fourth, fifth, etc. chance? No way. Do not make someone have to show you over and over and over again who they really are, believe them the first time they show you. Why does it take us so long to be believe the truth? If you are with a man who is not single, and is either married or has a girlfriend and he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Truth is, Liars lie&#8230;..again and again</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 05:47:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why are people surprised that someone that lied to them before, lied to them again? In some ways, we all lie. When someone asks us how we are, instead of pouring out our problems, we simply say &#8220;I&#8217;m fine&#8221;. Those are not the kind of lies we are talking about. We are discussing serious lies, such as: 1. Cheating, affairs, and all the lies that come with them. 2. Financial lies. Spending large sums of money without tell you, or keeping your mutual finances a secret. 3. Telling you they are single or seeing no one else when they are not. 4. Blaming their ex&#8217;s for the reasons their relationships did not last, making up stories to appear sympathetic or the victim and not telling you their part in what went wrong. Throwing you under the bus to their people when they don&#8217;t admit what they did wrong, and make you out to be the bad guy. 5. Going to places like strip clubs where they swore to you they would not go, watching way too much porn online and keeping it a major secret. When lies like these come to the surface, people&#8217;s reactions are that of shock and [...]]]></description>
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