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		<title>Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 16:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care? I was speaking to a woman the other day who was asking a group of ladies about the man she loves. She found out he was cheating with numerous women, and had lied to her repeatedly. She asked us if we thought he had lied about everything, what we thought about what he had done, and why we think he had done it. After going on and on about this, I finally started answering every question she asked with &#8220;Who cares?&#8221;. It, to me, was the only fitting answer. She knows now he is a cheater, she spoke to two of the women he cheated with and they all told her he said the same things to her that he did to them. So why does it matter, and why should she care anymore? She knows who he is now. A cheater and a liar. Someone who cheats on you and lies to you all the time cannot possibly love you, respect you, or care about your feelings. So why the concern with theirs? Who cares if he ever loved you, because even if he did, his love, like his word, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When Should You Give Up On Him?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 18:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Should You Give Up On Him? I had a conversation with a woman the other day. She told me how the man she loved told her two weeks ago how much he loved her, couldn&#8217;t live without her, and loved spending time with her. The problem is, she just found out he GOT MARRIED this weekend. She told me how confused she was. Why did he say all those things to her only to get married? He spent so much time over the last few months pursuing her, and getting her to believe his feelings for her were real. Why did he do that? She then went on to ask me if I think his marriage will last, if he really loves his new wife, and what did I think was the reason he did this? She seemed so focused on all the wrong things. Yes, I understand she was hurt and devastated, but what does it take to give up on him? Instead of wondering what the future holds for him and his wife, isn&#8217;t it time to realize she has no future with him? Instead of wondering why he did what he did, isn&#8217;t it time to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Away With It, Do you Let Him Get Away With Too Much?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 18:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting Away With It &#8211; Do You Let Him Get Away With too Much? Are you letting him get away with too much in your relationship? Are the things you are letting him get away with helping your relationship or hurting it? If the man in your life is not the most punctual person in the world and runs late (but not too late) then letting that slide is not the worst thing in the world. We all have our flaws, and if the flaws are not that big of a deal to you, then let him get away with it. However, if the things you are letting him get away with are causing him to believe he can get away with anything and everything, it&#8217;s time you created some boundaries and rules and begin enforcing them. He should not be able to abuse you in any way shape or form and get away with it. He should not be able to have affairs and cheat and get away with it. When someone abuses you or cheats on you, they have no respect for you, or the relationship. You lose respect for yourself as well when you let someone get [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;It&#8217;s Complicated &#8221; Really is Code For &#8220;It&#8217;s Dysfunctional&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your relationship most likely should end, and you know it. All relationships are complex, but quite often we make them more complicated than they really are. Occom&#8217;s razor is a line of reasoning that the simplest answer is most likely the correct one. This line of reasoning is used by police to solve crimes, doctors to diagnose illnesses, etc. It would be great if people used this same line of reasoning to simplify their relationships, instead of making them more complicated. Let&#8217;s looks at some scenarios for &#8220;complicated relationships&#8221; and cut through the bull*hit once and for all: 1. If you are married but in the process of getting a divorce, just put divorced instead of the dramatic label of &#8220;it&#8217;s complicated&#8221;. If anyone really needs to know the details, they already know, or you can tell them personally. People that are working on their marriage, or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Value and Price &#8211; Does he Value You or is Your Price too low?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 22:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[value and price does he value you or is your price too low Look at all the things you do for your significant other. Look at the way you treat them, speak to them, and all the ways you show them you love them. You clearly show them what you they are worth to you, but now look at how much they value you. Look at how much they seem to value you, and could it be that you set your price too low? No one should be so high maintenance that no one can really &#8220;afford&#8221; them, but the price they pay to have your in their lives and get all you have to offer should not be too low either. Have they put you in the bargain bin, or have you done that to yourself? If you constantly do for others, yet they won&#8217;t lift a finger when you ask for help, then they do not value what you do for them. If they did, they would &#8220;pay you back&#8221;. If they take for granted all that you do, it has no value to them. If they feel entitled to take from you and not be appreciative of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But he is Such a Nice Guy&#8221; &#8211; Another Lie We Tell Ourselves?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird &#8211; distant, quiet, and pulled away. She called him on it and he said that a few weeks ago his ex had contacted him and they began talking and now he is confused about his feelings. He said he didn&#8217;t want to lose her he just needs some time to get his head on straight. It goes without saying this woman is upset and hopes it will turn out in her favor. After all, he told her when they first met he would never get back with his ex. He said many times that he had closure on the past relationship and was ready to move forward with her, not go backward with the ex. He told her he and the ex tried so many times but the relationship was irreparable. Cut to the chase &#8211; he went back to his ex. This woman then went on to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You caught him red handed, now what are you going to do about it? We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you should do about it. If you caught him doing any of the following, you have no choice but to do something: 1 Having an affair 2. Having a private email account that he communicates with other women with. 3. Flirting with other women via text message. 4. Talking to an ex 5. Lying repeatedly 6. Trolling, or with a profile on a dating site 7. Bad-mouthing you to other people 8. Giving his number to other women 9. Talking to his friends about intimate details of your relationship instead of talking to you about it. 10. Telling another woman the same thing he is telling you If you don&#8217;t do something drastic his behavior will get worse You already know sometime this relationship (or whatever it is) is going to end anyway. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Expose a Cheating Boyfriend or Husband?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Expose a Cheating Boyfriend or Husband? While out on a window-shopping expedition at the local mall, you spot a close friend&#8217;s husband or boyfriend with another woman. You stop dead in your tracks thinking &#8220;Who the hell is that b*tch?&#8221; and decide to watch the two of them for a while to see what, if anything is going on. And then you see it&#8230;they are holding hands, kissing, and you know that he is indeed cheating on your friend. Now what do you do? Do you confront the two of them right there and then, insisting he confess to your friend, or you will tell her everything? Or should you immediately call your friend and tell her everything you just saw? It would be great if you are able to take some photos of the two of them with your cell phone, but only if you can do it without them seeing you (obviously). The next thing you need to do is take a moment to think about it. You may want to tell your friend right away, but this could be the worst news she has ever gotten in her life. Before you dial that phone, remember you don&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Confronting the Other Woman -Should You or Shouldn&#8217;t You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 03:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Confronting the Other Woman -Should You or Shouldn&#8217;t You? How would you feel if you discoverd your guy is seeing someone else? Lousy!&#160; He made a commitment to you, broke it and is now seeing this other woman. You want to give them both a piece of your mind. Take a deep breath before you even think about doing this. All the hurt you are feeling now is nothing, because when you see her, your emotions just may skyrocket even further. You don&#8217;t want to get into a verbal shouting match in front of other people. You don&#8217;t want to do it in front of your children either. You don&#8217;t want to get arrested should it lead to a physical fight. All of these things can happen if you decide to confront the other woman. What do you hope to gain by confronting her? To cause her pain?&#160; If she knew about your relationship she obviously doesn&#8217;t care enough about you or your feelings for you to hurt her. She may get mad, but that is about it. She already justified, in her own mind, the reasons for doing what she did. So causing her pain is out.&#160; And forget [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is He Ever Going to Leave Her? (His wife or Girlfriend)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:51:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you do when you have feelings for a man who is in a relationship with another woman? This could be a man who has no idea you have feelings for him and is off limits because he is in another relationship with either a girlfriend or a wife. It could be a man you began an affair with, who did not tell you he was married until after he had you on the hook. It could be a man you knew full well was not single, yet you didn&#8217;t stop seeing him. This man could be someone who told you he is in loveless marriage, without intimacy, and they are only together for a certain reason. The excuses they usually give are financial, children or health problems of their spouse or one of the kids. But he says he will leave her someday. He could have told you he is in no position to leave and never will. Let&#8217;s break each scenario down for you: The guy who is clueless that you are interested in him probably won&#8217;t leave her, and if he does will most likely not be with you. Don&#8217;t pin your hopes on that because [...]]]></description>
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