Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is “It’s complicated”? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as “It’s complicated”? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your...
Look at all the things you do for your significant other. Look at the way you treat them, speak to them, and all the ways you show them you love them. You clearly show them what you they are worth to you, but now look at how much they value you. Look at how...
I was listening to a woman tell a story about this guy who pursued her, told her he was over his ex, and had a relationship with her. They had a lot of fun, had great talks, opened up about their feelings and were very compatible. Suddenly he began to act weird – distant,...
We all have that little inner voice that tells us from time to time that something is not quite right. You know what it is feels like when that inner voice speaks to you. You may have stumbled upon something without even looking. But now you have caught him red-handed and wonder what you...
While out on a window-shopping expedition at the local mall, you spot a close friend’s husband or boyfriend with another woman. You stop dead in your tracks thinking “Who the hell is that b*tch?” and decide to watch the two of them for a while to see what, if anything is going on. And...
How would you feel if you discover your guy is seeing someone else? Lousy! He made a commitment to you, broke it and is now seeing this other woman. You want to give them both a piece of your mind. Take a deep breath before you even think about doing this. All the hurt...
What do you do when you have feelings for a man who is in a relationship with another woman? This could be a man who has no idea you have feelings for him and is off limits because he is in another relationship with either a girlfriend or a wife. It could be a...
When you have been in a relationship with a married man, should you tell his wife or girlfriend that you and he had an affair? The answer is not the same one-size-fits-all. It depends on the situation and your reasons for wanting to tell her. Let’s say you were dating (and being intimate) with...
The quote “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” is from Maya Angelou and is quite brilliant. Why, when someone shows us who they are do we not want to see it? Why, when a man shows us he is a player do we make excuses or think he will...
Why are people surprised that someone that lied to them before, lied to them again? In some ways, we all lie. When someone asks us how we are, instead of pouring out our problems, we simply say “I’m fine”. Those are not the kind of lies we are talking about. We are discussing serious...
