Instead of spending an eternity searching for answers you may never get, why not ask the question “Why do I?” instead!
The bottom line is if he hasn’t taken the step to commit to you, shouldn’t you be consciously aware of when you will no longer tolerate a relationship without a commitment? Your friends should be asking YOU why you are still in a relationship without a commitment in the first place.
If you don’t find out the answers to your own questions about yourself, you will most likely attract the same type of men and the same type of relationships. So, instead of trying so hard to figure him out, take the bull by the horns and find out why you put up with what you do, why you allow yourself and your needs to be so low on someone else’s priority list, why you wait too long for changes that never occur, and WHY you are STILL in a relationship that SUCKS
I hear you but it is hard to let go sometimes. I wish it weren’t.