What Does it Mean When Your Husband/Boyfriend Treats You Like Shit?
Well, first thing you need to look at is how OFTEN does he treat you like shit? Let’s face it, we can all treat someone we love like garbage sometimes, although we all know we should not. If your boyfriend or husband is constantly or continually treating you bad you have to start wondering why you are allowing him to treat you like this.
Is he having trouble at work, with his boss, friends, feeling sorry for himself, facing financial difficulties? Well boo hoo on him. Just because he is having a bad life right now doesn’t mean he should take it out on you and screw with your world and turn it upside down. He is supposed to come to you for comfort, not to make you his partner is misery, so stop excusing him because the poor baby isn’t happy right now. Tough. Clearly it’s time for him to put on his big boy panties and deal with it.
By the same token, if he really is going through a rough patch, and you, for some reason feel the need to add to the drama in his life, adding to his problems then you are creating problems. Knock it off. But what if this behavior is the norm, not just random moodiness that we all have? What does it mean?
Women want to know WHY their boyfriend or husband treats them badly. What could a good reason possibly be? Is there one? Why isn’t the answer obvious? It’s really not that difficult to figure out. How many people do you love and respect that you treat like shit 90% of the time? None? Now ask YOURSELF why you don’t treat the people you love and respect like shit 90% of the time. Because you love and respect them? Because you know right from wrong? Because you are a good person? Because you would not want that person to leave you? Yes, those are all good reasons, and the reasons why people that love you don’t treat you like shit 90% of the time.
So you answered your own question, didn’t you? Obviously if he loved AND respected you, this would not be happening. Obviously if he treats the people in his life that love him like shit then he either doesn’t know right from wrong or just isn’t a good person. If he was afraid of losing you, he wouldn’t be treating you like this. So that’s it, that’s the bottom line. You can continue to search or wonder, but the truth is simple. He doesn’t love and respect you or he COULDNT treat you this way. He WOULDNT treat you this way if he was afraid of losing you. If he was a good person he wouldn’t treat someone that loves him like this if he cared. The end.
