“How Does He FEEL About Me” Test… Part 1
How come you don’t know how he feels? Is it because the relationship is too new for him to really have feelings? Is that why he doesn’t express them? Is he sending you mixed signals, where one day he says something and then another day he says the exact opposite for no good reason at all? Does he say wonderful romantic things and make promises for the future but then his actions create contradictions?
Do you find yourself never really feeling secure about how he feels? Are you insecure for good reason? Are you asking for too much? Are you insecure for no good reason at all or from a past relationship? Does he do things other women would swoon for and wish they had but it is not enough for you?
Compose a list of the things he does and says that make you believe he has strong positive feelings for you. Then make a list of the things he does and says that make you feel he does not care about or love you. Which list is longer? Which things occur more often?
Your emotions can often cloud your judgment, but putting the facts on paper can really help you to face the reality of your situation, and see just how good/bad it is. We will be posting a blog with a follow up, for you to “grade” your own relationship.
