http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/he-owes-you-an-apology-and-needs-to-be-sorry/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=he-owes-you-an-apology-and-needs-to-be-sorry A Guide to help you change the dynamics of your dysfunctional relationship or close the door for good! Wed, 08 Feb 2012 19:18:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/he-owes-you-an-apology-and-needs-to-be-sorry/comment-page-1/#comment-1137 I Want Closure Tue, 30 Aug 2011 02:07:24 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=104#comment-1137 OH MY GOD!!!! We hate her too. Holy smokes! We hope he crawled across broken glass to get back to you. And very smart of you to go to work with him and make him confront the biotch. YES she did have greater designs on him than just friendship and all her little plans have now gone awry. SUCKS to be HER. Also unfortunate she had to do it on FB and risk ruining his work ethic and reputation also - wow --- they could have lost their jobs over this. OH MY GOD!!!! We hate her too. Holy smokes! We hope he crawled across broken glass to get back to you. And very smart of you to go to work with him and make him confront the biotch. YES she did have greater designs on him than just friendship and all her little plans have now gone awry. SUCKS to be HER. Also unfortunate she had to do it on FB and risk ruining his work ethic and reputation also – wow — they could have lost their jobs over this.

]]> http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/he-owes-you-an-apology-and-needs-to-be-sorry/comment-page-1/#comment-1131 Tabbi Mon, 29 Aug 2011 08:08:35 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=104#comment-1131 I feel like my feelings and pain are sometimes secondary to him...in part because he doesn't think I should be hurt or angry because a female friend/co-worker flirts on Facebook with him in front of all their co-workers...to him it's funny and they are just joking but it's not a joke for her. I've seen it when she looks at him. He says nothing has ever happened,or ever would because he loves me and he's married and she is married...But it still hurts me that he allowed the flirting to go on especially on a very public site viewed by co-workers etc... This really hurt me because that's something I would never do to him because its hurtful and disrespectful of him, our friends,our families,and co-workers... I forgive him but I hate her because she knew what she was doing was affecting our marriage and she thinks it's funny.It's a game for that sicko. He seems remorseful but I still feel hurt because he lied and said they weren't still friends but they were for over a year... He did go to her at work with me there and tell her he couldn't be friends with her anymore because it was affecting his marriage...She was obviously upset,said it wasn't fair all teary eyed, and threw things around and said he wasn't worth all her time which in female terms means she's pissed she put in all that effort getting close to him but didn't get the return on her investment that she had planned on. Honestly I kind of forced the issue...There would've been a physical confrontation at his work between she and I had he not put an end to the situation right then... Thankfully he did. I feel like my feelings and pain are sometimes secondary to him…in part because he doesn’t think I should be hurt or angry because a female friend/co-worker flirts on Facebook with him in front of all their co-workers…to him it’s funny and they are just joking but it’s not a joke for her. I’ve seen it when she looks at him. He says nothing has ever happened,or ever would because he loves me and he’s married and she is married…But it still hurts me that he allowed the flirting to go on especially on a very public site viewed by co-workers etc… This really hurt me because that’s something I would never do to him because its hurtful and disrespectful of him, our friends,our families,and co-workers… I forgive him but I hate her because she knew what she was doing was affecting our marriage and she thinks it’s funny.It’s a game for that sicko. He seems remorseful but I still feel hurt because he lied and said they weren’t still friends but they were for over a year… He did go to her at work with me there and tell her he couldn’t be friends with her anymore because it was affecting his marriage…She was obviously upset,said it wasn’t fair all teary eyed, and threw things around and said he wasn’t worth all her time which in female terms means she’s pissed she put in all that effort getting close to him but didn’t get the return on her investment that she had planned on. Honestly I kind of forced the issue…There would’ve been a physical confrontation at his work between she and I had he not put an end to the situation right then… Thankfully he did.

]]> http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/he-owes-you-an-apology-and-needs-to-be-sorry/comment-page-1/#comment-166 Nancie Fri, 22 Jan 2010 12:28:56 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=104#comment-166 He does not really apologize to me when he screws stuff up I have to always be the one that tries to fix the relationship...so I do because I don't want to lose him. He does not really apologize to me when he screws stuff up I have to always be the one that tries to fix the relationship…so I do because I don’t want to lose him.

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