We may think we like apples better than oranges, but what if we really are not sure? What if we like apples only if they are in a pie for example, yet like oranges better for a juice drink? We may actually like them the same amount. 
In relationships we may think we want one thing but come to find out we really don’t like it all that much. If you want a man who makes a lot of money AND gives you a lot of attention you have to realize in many cases these are two DIFFERENT fruits. If a man makes a lot of money that may mean he WORKS constantly and doesn’t have a ton of time to lavish you with attention. You are supposed to pick one fruit, remember?
You want an apple AND an orange. That may be harder to find of course. So you then have to decide again WHICH you prefer….. less money more attention or more money less attention. Yes, we can have it all, and you don’t have to lower your standards, but what you may need to do is lower your expectations, in the sense that if you want this guy to be a fruit basket all by himself, it may take you a LONG TIME picking fruit before you find this guy. It is fine to have high standards, and we encourage that, but please remember to include a reality check along with those standards as well. If you don’t, you may find yourself frustrated, where you may then be tempted to lower those standards, which defeats the purpose entirely.
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