Comments for I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com A Guide to help you change the dynamics of your dysfunctional relationship or close the door for good! Wed, 22 Feb 2012 02:53:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on Do You Really Want Closure or is That Just YOUR Excuse for Staying Stuck? by Laura http://iwantclosure.com/closure/do-you-really-want-closure-or-is-that-just-your-excuse-for-staying-stuck/comment-page-1/#comment-5377 Laura Wed, 22 Feb 2012 02:53:20 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=156#comment-5377 Great article, and what I needed to hear! Thank you for the honesty. Great article, and what I needed to hear! Thank you for the honesty.

]]> Comment on Your Heart is Stupid, so Listen to Your Gut Instead by Matt http://iwantclosure.com/dating/your-heart-is-stupid-so-listen-to-your-gut-instead/comment-page-1/#comment-5349 Matt Wed, 15 Feb 2012 21:31:46 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=1506#comment-5349 Interesting subject and I can definitely apply it to my life at this time. Being in a relationship early on is difficult because of all the chemical processes that happen. Red flags are easy to ignore due to these feelings. Interesting subject and I can definitely apply it to my life at this time. Being in a relationship early on is difficult because of all the chemical processes that happen. Red flags are easy to ignore due to these feelings.

]]> Comment on What Does it Mean When Your Husband/Boyfriend Treats You Like Shit? by Janey http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-does-it-mean-when-your-husbandboyfriend-treats-you-like-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-5319 Janey Thu, 09 Feb 2012 11:23:15 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=169#comment-5319 I am thinking of leaving my husband. I have 2 children aged 16 and 14 that still live at home. He is very rude, he will come home from work and the children will say 'Hello' he will walk past and totally ignore them. My daughter just got out of hospital after an operation, he came home, walked straight past her, didn't ask how she was or even acknowledge her, then he went upstairs. She was upset so I went up to speak to him and said he'd upset her, his answer 'I'm going to bed cos I don't need this s**t right now' It was 2 in the afternoon! He expects his dinner ready when he comes home from work, but if he's home before me he does nothing. I'm constantly accused of sleeping/flirting with other people, hiding things from him, keeping secrets. I do none of this and am fed up of having to justify myself all the time! Am now at the stage where I don't want to leave the kids at home when I go out because he is always mean to them and upsets my daughter alot :( I am thinking of leaving my husband. I have 2 children aged 16 and 14 that still live at home. He is very rude, he will come home from work and the children will say ‘Hello’ he will walk past and totally ignore them. My daughter just got out of hospital after an operation, he came home, walked straight past her, didn’t ask how she was or even acknowledge her, then he went upstairs. She was upset so I went up to speak to him and said he’d upset her, his answer ‘I’m going to bed cos I don’t need this s**t right now’ It was 2 in the afternoon! He expects his dinner ready when he comes home from work, but if he’s home before me he does nothing. I’m constantly accused of sleeping/flirting with other people, hiding things from him, keeping secrets. I do none of this and am fed up of having to justify myself all the time! Am now at the stage where I don’t want to leave the kids at home when I go out because he is always mean to them and upsets my daughter alot :(

]]> Comment on If You Want Him Back.. Do NOT do THIS! by Rowena Kennedy http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/ending-a-relationship/if-you-want-him-back-do-not-do-this/comment-page-1/#comment-5316 Rowena Kennedy Wed, 08 Feb 2012 19:18:28 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=427#comment-5316 I wish I had found this before I acted like an utter psycho....I couldn't see what I was doing as my heart was broken & I was acting so out of character it was unreal. I'm lucky he didn't call the police, I harrassed him with e-mails no end. I thought I was being funny & cute I was acting MAD. I couldnl't believe the way it just ended! Now I have ruined whatever chance I may have ever had forever & made a total show out of myself in the process. Oh well, I suppose it's a lesson learned anyhow. I wish I had found this before I acted like an utter psycho….I couldn’t see what I was doing as my heart was broken & I was acting so out of character it was unreal.

I’m lucky he didn’t call the police, I harrassed him with e-mails no end. I thought I was being funny & cute I was acting MAD. I couldnl’t believe the way it just ended!

Now I have ruined whatever chance I may have ever had forever & made a total show out of myself in the process.

Oh well, I suppose it’s a lesson learned anyhow.

]]> Comment on Apples and Oranges – Part 3 by Apples and Oranges – Continued | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/communication/apples-and-oranges-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-5297 Apples and Oranges – Continued | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Fri, 03 Feb 2012 02:43:04 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=278#comment-5297 [...] the DIFFERENCE between an apple and an orange and which ONE you prefer. For PART 3 in this series, CLICK HERE Share this:FacebookDiggEmailRedditStumbleUponPrint Tags: Commitment, Compatibility, dating advice, [...] [...] the DIFFERENCE between an apple and an orange and which ONE you prefer. For PART 3 in this series, CLICK HERE Share this:FacebookDiggEmailRedditStumbleUponPrint Tags: Commitment, Compatibility, dating advice, [...]

]]> Comment on Apples and Oranges – Continued by Apples and Oranges – Which Do You Want? Compatibility in relationships | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/ending-a-relationship/apples-and-oranges-continued/comment-page-1/#comment-5296 Apples and Oranges – Which Do You Want? Compatibility in relationships | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Fri, 03 Feb 2012 02:40:48 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=274#comment-5296 [...] should be more focused on the ones where our hard work will pay off. TO CONTINUE WITH THIS TOPIC, CLICK HERE: Share this:FacebookDiggEmailRedditStumbleUponPrint Tags: Beginning a Relationship, Can't move [...] [...] should be more focused on the ones where our hard work will pay off. TO CONTINUE WITH THIS TOPIC, CLICK HERE: Share this:FacebookDiggEmailRedditStumbleUponPrint Tags: Beginning a Relationship, Can't move [...]

]]> Comment on When His Ex Becomes Your Problem by Chuck http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/when-his-ex-becomes-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-5287 Chuck Mon, 30 Jan 2012 22:04:10 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=165#comment-5287 The last part is most pertinent - you cannot change others, only how you are prepared to respond. The last part is most pertinent – you cannot change others, only how you are prepared to respond.

]]> Comment on Instead of Getting Closure – Some Ways to Stay in Limbo by Sean http://iwantclosure.com/closure/instead-of-getting-closure-some-ways-to-stay-in-limbo/comment-page-1/#comment-5286 Sean Mon, 30 Jan 2012 19:45:32 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=402#comment-5286 I'm a guy but do many of these things, and your site does a great job of laying it out. I broke up nearly 10 months ago and while I started to move on after 2, I find myself still holding on and using the smallest excuses as reasons to keep the door open. I know it's time to live in reality, but flipping that switch is hard. Thank you for the help I’m a guy but do many of these things, and your site does a great job of laying it out. I broke up nearly 10 months ago and while I started to move on after 2, I find myself still holding on and using the smallest excuses as reasons to keep the door open. I know it’s time to live in reality, but flipping that switch is hard. Thank you for the help

]]> Comment on What Does it Mean When Your Husband/Boyfriend Treats You Like Shit? by Ciera http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-does-it-mean-when-your-husbandboyfriend-treats-you-like-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-5283 Ciera Sun, 29 Jan 2012 08:30:59 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=169#comment-5283 Maybe this venting will make me feel better...my boyfriend for 5 years now treats me like shit. He always makes up excusses why he doesn't want to visit my family and friends. He sees his friends alot. He has taken my car my parents have given me put it under his name and goes 'hustles' drugs all the time. We have two children together 2 and 7 months! I stay home with them because we cannot afford daycare and he promised he could take care of me. He doesn't pay my bills. Like one credit card our cell phone bill and a TV I financed. Everything is under my name because he has such bad credit. I wised up though and stopped that. Good thing I did because he can't pay his cable bill now he begged me to put under my name. He owes my parents money and doesn't pay them a dime. When all this started, him selling drugs and being insecure, left him and dated someone else for a while. I met the man while we were still together though. So I see where he could not trust me but I'm the mother of his children Nd I show him lots of love. Why doesn't he let me go to the store? Why can't I visit my friend that is married and have a playdate with ourI kids? Its 2:17 am and he's not home! He slept all day. I woke up with the kids played with them cooked cleaned etc. Then around 5 I told him wake up I want some attention. Straight up I'm a good talker. He didn't wake up for me.but he gets a "sale" call from his boy and up he jumps on the drop of a dime for them. He's a great dad but damn I'm miserable. He even will ask why I have makeup on or tells me to change when I feel nice. When I was in college he would expects me home like 30 mins after my last class. Ever heard of studying? Can't do it at home with a lazy ass and two kids. Which I'm not in college anymore bc he has to have the car for work. When we first got together I use to bring him to work then go to my classes then pick him up after work. Why can't I do that now? He's so selfish. Im too big of a wuss and too nice of a woman to put my foot down and just take the car wherever I need to go bc he would jump up and come rush me wherever I was and fight with me on the way there on how he never goes out too. I tell him, "you visit your friends why can't I visit mine?" Then he expects Mr to beloved they're not my friends and I don't hang out. Well everybody he ain't home at2:30 and HD left Maybe this venting will make me feel better…my boyfriend for 5 years now treats me like shit. He always makes up excusses why he doesn’t want to visit my family and friends. He sees his friends alot. He has taken my car my parents have given me put it under his name and goes ‘hustles’ drugs all the time. We have two children together 2 and 7 months! I stay home with them because we cannot afford daycare and he promised he could take care of me. He doesn’t pay my bills. Like one credit card our cell phone bill and a TV I financed. Everything is under my name because he has such bad credit. I wised up though and stopped that. Good thing I did because he can’t pay his cable bill now he begged me to put under my name. He owes my parents money and doesn’t pay them a dime. When all this started, him selling drugs and being insecure, left him and dated someone else for a while. I met the man while we were still together though. So I see where he could not trust me but I’m the mother of his children Nd I show him lots of love. Why doesn’t he let me go to the store? Why can’t I visit my friend that is married and have a playdate with ourI kids? Its 2:17 am and he’s not home! He slept all day. I woke up with the kids played with them cooked cleaned etc. Then around 5 I told him wake up I want some attention. Straight up I’m a good talker. He didn’t wake up for me.but he gets a “sale” call from his boy and up he jumps on the drop of a dime for them. He’s a great dad but damn I’m miserable. He even will ask why I have makeup on or tells me to change when I feel nice. When I was in college he would expects me home like 30 mins after my last class. Ever heard of studying? Can’t do it at home with a lazy ass and two kids. Which I’m not in college anymore bc he has to have the car for work. When we first got together I use to bring him to work then go to my classes then pick him up after work. Why can’t I do that now? He’s so selfish. Im too big of a wuss and too nice of a woman to put my foot down and just take the car wherever I need to go bc he would jump up and come rush me wherever I was and fight with me on the way there on how he never goes out too. I tell him, “you visit your friends why can’t I visit mine?” Then he expects Mr to beloved they’re not my friends and I don’t hang out. Well everybody he ain’t home at2:30 and HD left

]]> Comment on What Does it Mean When Your Husband/Boyfriend Treats You Like Shit? by deeeee http://iwantclosure.com/relationship-issues/what-does-it-mean-when-your-husbandboyfriend-treats-you-like-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-5277 deeeee Sat, 28 Jan 2012 17:57:50 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=169#comment-5277 ohh and ive bend over backwards for him.....i have climbed to the moon and back for him ive been soo nice and caring i go out of my way to do things for him when i tell him he sayd thats ur dumbass fault noone told u to...he takes me for granted i have trust issues with him...i just wanted to also say i treated him like gold and he has never really gone out of his way for me.......he turned me into the most angry low self esteem person ever...he always telle me if i dont like something then theres the door..... ohh and ive bend over backwards for him…..i have climbed to the moon and back for him ive been soo nice and caring i go out of my way to do things for him when i tell him he sayd thats ur dumbass fault noone told u to…he takes me for granted i have trust issues with him…i just wanted to also say i treated him like gold and he has never really gone out of his way for me…….he turned me into the most angry low self esteem person ever…he always telle me if i dont like something then theres the door…..

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