Give it UP Already…and MOVE ON!!!
Why is it that people often refuse to give up on relationships, no matter how short, meaningless, dysfunctional, abusive (verbal or physical), unsatisfying and unhealthy?
I know a woman who has been with a man for less than 5 months, and in that five months he has pretty much admitted he expects her to help him out financially, babysit his toddler, drop everything and help him whenever he is in crisis, let him get away with every melodramatic episode he has, and put up with him giving her the cold shoulder when he doesn’t get his way.
He recently broke up with her and she is in tears. WHY? She says she loves him. In 5 months, two of which have REALLY sucked she loves him? Is there no man on planet earth other than this jamoke to date? Are pickins really that slim that knowing this guy is a douche and it is going to end anyway she is willing to give him another shot? Another shot at WHAT? If this guy has already hurt you, you want to give him the chance to hurt you more?
Why is it in almost every other area of a woman’s life she knows when to give up or quit EXCEPT when it comes to relationships? Why cant women learn when THEY need to close the door and shut it for good? Closure comes in many forms, not just getting over a relationship, but ENDING one.
Love the reality check! It’s wake up call time! Thanks for writing this. I needed to hear it.
Hey everyone, greetings from Sweden. This is a nice blog. Does anyone have any advice about staying out of the friend zone with women? I’m really tired of girls telling me they just want to be friends. Maybe I’m being too much of a nice guy?
Cool stuff, thanks…right now I have a specific question on this issue since I’m writing a book modern dating and how to get a girlfriend in the modern world. I’d like to get your advice on this new trend of guys learning how to pick up girls, and I’m curious whether that stuff works? Is there one “dating coach” out there who can actually teach guys to pick up women?
It depends what you want to pick them up for! If you want to pick them up for just sex, we are not the ones to talk to for that! If you want just sex, check out your own site.
You can never be too much of a nice guy – women do like ‘bad boys’ for some reason though but you have to find the right way to mix it together. Hope we can be of service!