Comments on: Closure ~ You THINK You NEED it…but You Really DON’T http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont A dating and relationship blog to encourage change in the dynamics of your dysfunctional relationship or close the door for good! Wed, 09 May 2012 03:14:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Could You, Should You, And Will You Get Him Back? | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6258 Could You, Should You, And Will You Get Him Back? | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 01:15:03 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6258 [...] go is hard, and getting closure is a process. But it is not an excuse to get back together either. After a breakup, look back on [...] [...] go is hard, and getting closure is a process. But it is not an excuse to get back together either. After a breakup, look back on [...]

]]> By: Making Excuses to Contact an ex | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6256 Making Excuses to Contact an ex | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 01:12:23 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6256 [...] ever again and have nothing to say, you don’t contact them. If it is over, you should have closure and there is nothing left to talk about. So let’s be real folks and cut the crap — you [...] [...] ever again and have nothing to say, you don’t contact them. If it is over, you should have closure and there is nothing left to talk about. So let’s be real folks and cut the crap — you [...]

]]> By: Dealing With Rejection in a Relationship | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6255 Dealing With Rejection in a Relationship | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 01:09:22 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6255 [...] as a learning experience and use that knowledge to empower yourself to move forward and get closure. The right relationship for you is out there. Leave the rejection from the wrong relationship [...] [...] as a learning experience and use that knowledge to empower yourself to move forward and get closure. The right relationship for you is out there. Leave the rejection from the wrong relationship [...]

]]> By: Healing After A Break Up | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6254 Healing After A Break Up | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 00:58:23 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6254 [...] the time you need, and use that time to learn, grown, and become stronger. You will get there. Closure is within reach, you just need to take the first step. Share [...] [...] the time you need, and use that time to learn, grown, and become stronger. You will get there. Closure is within reach, you just need to take the first step. Share [...]

]]> By: “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6253 “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 00:56:10 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6253 [...] Many people say we all deserve a second chance, as we would all like be given one. However, a third, fourth, fifth, etc. chance? No way. Do not make someone have to show you over and over and over again who they really are, believe them the first time they show you. Why does it take us so long to be believe the truth and get closure? [...] [...] Many people say we all deserve a second chance, as we would all like be given one. However, a third, fourth, fifth, etc. chance? No way. Do not make someone have to show you over and over and over again who they really are, believe them the first time they show you. Why does it take us so long to be believe the truth and get closure? [...]

]]> By: Instead of Getting Closure – Some Ways to Stay in Limbo | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6252 Instead of Getting Closure – Some Ways to Stay in Limbo | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 00:53:23 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6252 [...] of Getting Closure – Some Ways to Stay in Limbo June 1, 2010So many women say they want closure yet have a hard time finding it. They wonder why they cannot free themselves from thoughts and [...] [...] of Getting Closure – Some Ways to Stay in Limbo June 1, 2010So many women say they want closure yet have a hard time finding it. They wonder why they cannot free themselves from thoughts and [...]

]]> By: Give it UP Already…and MOVE ON!!! | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6251 Give it UP Already…and MOVE ON!!! | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 00:51:09 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6251 [...] comes to relationships? Why cant women learn when THEY need to close the door and shut it for good? Closure comes in many forms, not just getting over a relationship, but ENDING one. Share [...] [...] comes to relationships? Why cant women learn when THEY need to close the door and shut it for good? Closure comes in many forms, not just getting over a relationship, but ENDING one. Share [...]

]]> By: Do You Really Want Closure or is That Just YOUR Excuse for Staying Stuck? | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6250 Do You Really Want Closure or is That Just YOUR Excuse for Staying Stuck? | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 00:47:54 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6250 [...] I talk to women all the time that say they are waiting for closure and will only get it when he calls them and they can speak their mind. I give them my “you are so full of shit” look, because most of them are. What they really should be saying is “I want him to call so I can have the upper hand. He will try to be nice and get me back and I will tell him all he has done wrong to me and he will feel bad and promise to change. I will then have to give him the benefit of the doubt and give him another shot, because if I don’t………………………..drum roll please………… I will never know if it could have worked out and therefore won’t have CLOSURE!!” [...] [...] I talk to women all the time that say they are waiting for closure and will only get it when he calls them and they can speak their mind. I give them my “you are so full of shit” look, because most of them are. What they really should be saying is “I want him to call so I can have the upper hand. He will try to be nice and get me back and I will tell him all he has done wrong to me and he will feel bad and promise to change. I will then have to give him the benefit of the doubt and give him another shot, because if I don’t………………………..drum roll please………… I will never know if it could have worked out and therefore won’t have CLOSURE!!” [...]

]]> By: If You Have to Stalk It's Time to Walk | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-6249 If You Have to Stalk It's Time to Walk | I WANT CLOSURE | A Women's Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love Tue, 27 Mar 2012 00:45:34 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-6249 [...] begin with. If you have to stalk, it’s time to walk. So walk out, slam the door and get your closure. Period. Share this:FacebookDiggEmailRedditStumbleUponPrint Tags: Affairs, Can't move forward, [...] [...] begin with. If you have to stalk, it’s time to walk. So walk out, slam the door and get your closure. Period. Share this:FacebookDiggEmailRedditStumbleUponPrint Tags: Affairs, Can't move forward, [...]

]]> By: Used http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-you-think-you-need-it-but-you-really-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-691 Used Sat, 09 Oct 2010 20:32:27 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=3#comment-691 This really, really helped me. I lost my virginity to a guy not even two months ago, and he's just disappeared. I'm 25, and I explained to him that I waited all my life, and I wanted to make the right decision. And he just ... withdrew from me. First, he stopped calling or texting, saying that he was waiting to me to do it. Now, he's just totally severed contact. I NEEDED this article. Thanks so much. This really, really helped me. I lost my virginity to a guy not even two months ago, and he’s just disappeared. I’m 25, and I explained to him that I waited all my life, and I wanted to make the right decision. And he just … withdrew from me. First, he stopped calling or texting, saying that he was waiting to me to do it.

Now, he’s just totally severed contact.

I NEEDED this article. Thanks so much.

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