http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-do-you-really-want-it-or-just-using-the-need-for-it-as-a-way-to-keep-obsessing/ Change the dynamics of your dysfunctional relationship or close the door for good! Thu, 20 May 2010 11:52:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-do-you-really-want-it-or-just-using-the-need-for-it-as-a-way-to-keep-obsessing/comment-page-1/#comment-121 I Want Closure Mon, 28 Dec 2009 20:52:20 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=245#comment-121 GOOD FOR YOU!!!!! taking our power and our lives back after someone has hurt, used and mistreated us is very difficult for some of us because it does damage our self-esteem but taking the power back is what is needed and required for healing. And you are so right that some men do indeed fall prey to these predators and it is equally as difficult for them to take their lives back. But when you do it is very freeing and powerful! Best wishes to you! GOOD FOR YOU!!!!! taking our power and our lives back after someone has hurt, used and mistreated us is very difficult for some of us because it does damage our self-esteem but taking the power back is what is needed and required for healing. And you are so right that some men do indeed fall prey to these predators and it is equally as difficult for them to take their lives back. But when you do it is very freeing and powerful! Best wishes to you!

]]> http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-do-you-really-want-it-or-just-using-the-need-for-it-as-a-way-to-keep-obsessing/comment-page-1/#comment-120 anonymous Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:02:12 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=245#comment-120 Unfortuately, its not just women who are guilty of obsessing over broken relationships, men do it too. I will be the first to admit as a guy, it happened to me. The bad part about it was the woman I was involved with turned out to be nothing more than a con artist. Once she used me, it didn't take her long to find someone else. It took me a long time to find closure, but once I realized what she was all about, I took my life back. Unfortuately, its not just women who are guilty of obsessing over broken relationships, men do it too. I will be the first to admit as a guy, it happened to me. The bad part about it was the woman I was involved with turned out to be nothing more than a con artist. Once she used me, it didn’t take her long to find someone else. It took me a long time to find closure, but once I realized what she was all about, I took my life back.

]]> http://iwantclosure.com/closure/closure-do-you-really-want-it-or-just-using-the-need-for-it-as-a-way-to-keep-obsessing/comment-page-1/#comment-92 anonymous Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:43:47 +0000 http://iwantclosure.com/?p=245#comment-92 Perhaps women feel that they are the ones at fault for the relationship ending and they want some sort of closure so that they know what they did so they can work on it and not repeat it again in the future. Granted the woman isn't the only one to blame for the relationship ending. It's just good to know what went wrong. Sometimes ya just need to know. Perhaps women feel that they are the ones at fault for the relationship ending and they want some sort of closure so that they know what they did so they can work on it and not repeat it again in the future. Granted the woman isn’t the only one to blame for the relationship ending. It’s just good to know what went wrong. Sometimes ya just need to know.

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