Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them. The quote “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” is from Maya Angelou and is quite brilliant. Why, when someone shows us who they are do we not want to see it? Why, when a man shows us he...
Why are people surprised that someone that lied to them before, lied to them again? The Truth is, Liars lie again and again In some ways, we all lie. When someone asks us how we are, instead of pouring out our problems, we simply say “I’m fine”. Those are not the kind of lies...
Signs You Are Being Used The signs are all there for people to see if they are being used. Why don’t people recognize the fact that they are being used? In many cases it is all about denial. They refuse to accept the fact that they are being used and choose to believe the...
There is a good side and a bad side that many people tend to hang on to relationships rather than let them go easily. The good side is that some people are willing to hang in there through the good times and the bad times, and don’t just bail when the relationship hits a...
How Can He Chase YOU…if You are Chasing Him? Men love the thrill of the chase. It is like hunting. They buy the right gun, gear, safety orange jumpsuit and pack it all up to go and get their prey. They can wait hours on end, sitting in a tree, freezing their butts off...
Women have wonderful imaginations and are curious by nature. So if we can't talk to our ex or find out what is going on, we can simply fantasize about it! You can imagine telling him all the horrible things he has done and why he doesn't deserve to be back with you, you can...
Your partner is abusive when they feel they must "punish you" or threatens to "punish you" when they: … Give you "the silent treatment" and/or tell you to "figure out" why they are mad and what to "figure out" what YOU did wrong. … Strand you somewhere.
waiting for the payoff of the relationship to become what they want it to be. Let's say it is commitment, and you keep waiting, getting an excuse, yet you hang in there, and time is going by without a payoff. Exactly WHEN do you cut your losses and quit?
Friends or Enemies? Is The One You Love a Friend or an Enemy? If you look up the word friend to find a definition you would could up with something similar to the following: A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts. A person whom one knows; an acquaintance. A person with whom one...
Women need to learn to DELEGATE RESPONSIBILITY. Think of what your relationship needs. What does he need? What do you need? It is your job to do your share, and if you are doing it, wonderful. If your man is not doing HIS share, then write his ass up. Put him on 30 days...
