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	<title>I WANT CLOSURE &#124;  A Women&#039;s Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love &#187; Dysfunctional Relationships</title>
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		<title>Friends or Enemies? part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 23:27:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In our previous article about friends and enemies we discussed how the man you are involved with should be more of a positive person in your life than a negative. We expect our friends to live up to our idea of what a friend really is: loyally, faithful, truthful and supportive. We expect our friends to treat us with respect, have time for us, and show us that they care about us. The intimate relationships we have should be held to the same standards. If you expect a friend to treat you a certain way, why would you let the man in your life have a lower standard? Why would you call your friend out on the carpet if they did something wrong, but not the man you love? Now let&#8217;s get to our enemies. Why are they our enemies? Did they do something to hurt you, lie to you, mistreat you, or disrespect you? If they did, it makes sense that they are your enemy. But if the man in your life has done all that, why don&#8217;t you see him as your enemy instead of the man you love? You cannot possibly expect to be happy if you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Talking But He Is Not Listening?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 02:51:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Women seem to want to talk about things with the men in their lives. They want to talk about their day, their feelings, the relationship, the people that are driving them crazy etc. But what if the man in your life is not listening to you when you talk? Why would you continue talking to them at that point? You may be frustrated that you tell him things to do, and he doesn&#8217;t do them. You may be angry that you warned him not to stay out late again with his buddies and not call you. You have told him over and over again that if he stands you up or cancels on you one more time it is over. But yet he does exactly what you told him over and over not to, or he doesn&#8217;t do what you have told him over and over to do. You do not understand WHY you have to tell him this same crap over and over and over again. I know why. It is because your words are not followed by ACTIONS. Therefore, they are meaningless and no real threat to him. So he doesn&#8217;t take out the garbage like you asked [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What to do When He Pulls Away or Withdraws</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 02:13:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everything has been going great but you noticed your boyfriend has started to pull away. The first thing most women do is try and latch on as tight as they can, giving their man a hard time to escape. THIS NEVER WORKS LADIES. (Please read the previous sentence again for good measure.) When a man starts to pull away it is either because he is feeling smothered and wants some of his own space, he is dealing with personal issues, or he is on his way out of the relationship. Either way, tying him to a chair won&#8217;t work, and is a felony in most states. When a man is feeling smothered the absolute WORST thing you can do is smother him MORE. Give him the space that he wants. Try and act like YOU could use some space too. Instead of obsessing or worrying about what HE is doing with his time away from you, DO something fun with YOUR time away from him. Don&#8217;t let him think you are sitting home pouting because he isn&#8217;t around. Don&#8217;t try and make him feel guilty for wanting space either, that usually backfires and just pisses him off in the end [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;It&#8217;s Complicated &#8221; Really is Code For &#8220;It&#8217;s Dysfunctional&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated&#8221;? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your relationship most likely should end, and you know it. All relationships are complex, but quite often we make them more complicated than they really are. Occam&#8217;s razor is a line of reasoning that the simplest answer is most likely the correct one. This line of reasoning is used by police to solve crimes, doctors to diagnose illnesses, etc. It would be great if people used this same line of reasoning to simplify their relationships, instead of making them more complicated. Let&#8217;s looks at some scenarios for &#8220;complicated relationships&#8221; and cut through the bull*hit once and for all: 1. If you are married but in the process of getting a divorce, just put divorced instead of the dramatic label of &#8220;it&#8217;s complicated&#8221;. If anyone really needs to know the details, they already know, or you can tell them personally. People that are working on their marriage, or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Isn&#8217;t he Afraid of Losing You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 14:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone is afraid of something. We may not all be afraid of the same things, but we are all afraid of something. For the moment, let us use sharks as an example. Why are most human beings afraid of sharks? Because sharks will bite you, eat you, and you will probably die. (Good reasons). We are afraid of sharks because of what they will do to us. If sharks just hugged and blew kisses at people instead of eat/kill them, everyone would want to have a pet shark in their pool. So how does this relate to relationships? It is the same concept. If your husband or boyfriend is always doing things to upset you, hurt you, or make you angry, you may wonder, why he isn’t afraid of you, or afraid of losing you. Could it be because he views you as a baby seal and not as a shark? When he does something you don’t like do you just yell, scream, or talk his ear off? Please keep in mind that no one is a afraid of a barking dog, they are afraid of the barking dog biting them. If you just verbalize your displeasure with him (barking) [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Emotionally Unavailable Men &amp; Women Who Are &#8220;Connected&#8221; to Them</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 03:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are a lot of blogs out there that talk about &#8220;connections&#8221; women can have with men in this airy fairy way that make me want to puke. I understand people can feel connected to someone but what I don&#8217;t understand is how &#8220;connections&#8221; seem to give women a free pass to stay in dead end relationships or to pursue the wrong ones. Women tell me that this &#8220;connection&#8221; is on another level, that it is not just love or attraction but something else. O.k. fine, I can go with that, but what I won&#8217;t buy into is that the Universe, God, or whatever &#8220;connected&#8221; you to an emotionally unavailable man that you cannot &#8220;disconnect&#8221; from. Why would the universe, God, your Angels, or anything good force you to feel a connection to a man who is emotionally unavailable? So you can &#8220;cure&#8221; him? Please. If the Universe, God, your Angels or whoever had the power to make this connection that you are powerless over, then couldn&#8217;t they make him emotionally available while they are at it? I do believe in connections with men that are good for us and good choices for us, but I believe the opposite is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You too Available for an Unavailable Guy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 04:34:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend of mine is crazy about this man she has been seeing for about six months. She has not seen much of him though, because he has many hobbies and interests and works a lot. She told me she wished that she could see more of him but understands that he has a high profile job and that his career is important to him. When I asked her why she had not seen him for the last two weekends she told me he was hunting with his buddies out of state for one weekend and attending a sporting event the other weekend. I asked her if that was ok with her. She said it was because it was not like he was spending time with other women. I asked her why she was trying to have a relationship with someone who is not available for one. She did not like that and tried to explain six ways from Sunday that he is just a very busy man, blah blah blah, and gives her what time he has, blah blah blah and then it was my turn. I asked her, point blank: He has shown you he doesn&#8217;t have time [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 03:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Before you let your heart invest in a relationship, you need to make sure the man you choose in emotionally available. Here are some signs of an emotionally unavailable man so you can spot one quickly, before you are in too deep: 1. If he has a girlfriend or wife. If he has not divorced the wife and broken up with the girlfriend, he is emotionally unavailable to you. No ifs, ands or buts about it. If he is separated from his wife or broken-up with the girlfriend, but they still live together for ANY REASON AT ALL, he is emotionally unavailable and off-limits to your heart. 2. Communication &#8211; If he is hard to reach and disappears for days/weeks/months without warning (or explanation) then he is emotionally unavailable. If he wanted to get closer to you, he would keep your communication steady and reliable. You would talk about deeper things than sex, the weather and your jobs. He would use that communication to learn more about you and give you the chance to learn more about him. If trying to get him to talk is like pulling teeth, he is emotionally unavailable. If he is constantly unavailable when you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Toxic Relationships part 1 &#8211; Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 04:24:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever looked in the mirror and wonder what the hell happened to you and how you got here? Did you used to be lighthearted, carefree, strong, independent and secure? Did you have a mind of your own and a will that could not be broken? Well how the hell did you wind up a broken mess who is insecure, cries all the time, walks on eggshells and someone who constantly questions their own sanity? You got here by being, and remaining, in a toxic relationship with a man. Toxic men come in many different forms, but the chaos they all cause is pretty much the same. They are in control, you are not. They go out of control at the drop of a hat, and no matter what you do, you cannot keep the peace because they can go off (and will) at any time. You can do nothing right, yet they do EVERYTHING right. (At least according to them). Nothing is ever their fault, it is always yours. They expect no punishment for their behavior, but will punish you in ways you never thought of in your worst nightmares, for the slightest &#8220;offense&#8221;. The punishment never fits [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;But We Are SO Compatible&#8221; &#8212; In Every Way Except The Ones That Count</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 03:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a friend whose boyfriend keeps talking behind her back to his ex in inappropriate ways. They have broken up many times before, and he goes back to the ex for a while. When that doesn&#8217;t work, he comes back to her. I told her he is a cheater, and is playing the both of them. I said he is a liar and untrustworthy. Want to know what she said to me? &#8220;But we are so compatible in every way!!&#8221;. After I picked up the pieces of my exploded head and put it back together, I said to her &#8220;How the f*#$ are you two compatible? Because you have fun together, have similar tastes in music, movies and tv shows? Because the sex is good?&#8221; She said yes and looked at me as if that was the stupidest question she ever heard. I then proceeded to tell her that just because they had similar interests, that doesn&#8217;t mean that they are compatible. She looked at me like I was an idiot and said &#8220;Of course it does&#8221;. I said IF you are looking for someone to go to concerts with, watch tv with, and have sex with, then yes [...]]]></description>
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