In our previous article about friends and enemies we discussed how the man you are involved with should be more of a positive person in your life than a negative. We expect our friends to live up to our idea of what a friend really is: loyally, faithful, truthful and supportive. We expect our...
Dysfunctional Relationships
Are You Talking But He Is Not Listening?
Women seem to want to talk about things with the men in their lives. They want to talk about their day, their feelings, the relationship, the people that are driving them crazy etc. But what if the man in your life is not listening to you when you talk? Why would you continue talking...
What to do When He Pulls Away or Withdraws
Everything has been going great but you noticed your boyfriend has started to pull away. The first thing most women do is try and latch on as tight as they can, giving their man a hard time to escape. THIS NEVER WORKS LADIES. (Please read the previous sentence again for good measure.) When a...
“It’s Complicated ” Really is Code For “It’s Dysfunctional”
Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is “It’s complicated”? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as “It’s complicated”? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your...
Why Isn’t he Afraid of Losing You?
Everyone is afraid of something. We may not all be afraid of the same things, but we are all afraid of something. For the moment, let us use sharks as an example. Why are most human beings afraid of sharks? Because sharks will bite you, eat you, and you will probably die. (Good reasons)....
Emotionally Unavailable Men & Women Who Are “Connected” to Them
There are a lot of blogs out there that talk about “connections” women can have with men in this airy fairy way that make me want to puke. I understand people can feel connected to someone but what I don’t understand is how “connections” seem to give women a free pass to stay in...
Are You too Available for an Unavailable Guy?
A friend of mine is crazy about this man she has been seeing for about six months. She has not seen much of him though, because he has many hobbies and interests and works a lot. She told me she wished that she could see more of him but understands that he has a...
Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Man
Before you let your heart invest in a relationship, you need to make sure the man you choose in emotionally available. Here are some signs of an emotionally unavailable man so you can spot one quickly, before you are in too deep: 1. If he has a girlfriend or wife. If he has not...
Toxic Relationships part 1 – Men
Have you ever looked in the mirror and wonder what the hell happened to you and how you got here? Did you used to be lighthearted, carefree, strong, independent and secure? Did you have a mind of your own and a will that could not be broken? Well how the hell did you wind...
“But We Are SO Compatible” — In Every Way Except The Ones That Count
I have a friend whose boyfriend keeps talking behind her back to his ex in inappropriate ways. They have broken up many times before, and he goes back to the ex for a while. When that doesn’t work, he comes back to her. I told her he is a cheater, and is playing the...
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