Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
When Will He Change His Mind? Shouldn’t You Change YOURS? You may be in love with a man who decided to end your relationship and hope one day he changes his mind. You may be currently with a man who refuses to commit to you, lies to you, cheats on you, or is emotionally...
When Should You Give Up On Him? I had a conversation with a woman the other day. She told me how the man she loved told her two weeks ago how much he loved her, couldn’t live without her, and loved spending time with her. The problem is, she just found out he GOT...
To See The Future of Your Relationship – Look at the Past Women seem to hold on to their present relationships because of their hopes for the future. They feel if they can get through the storms currently in their relationship, that sunshine and rainbows will be waiting on the other side. The problem...
How the Media Warps Relationship Reality Sometimes I wonder where people get their ideas about love and relationship from. When I got in line at the grocery store I saw many women’s magazines with article titles such as: 1. How to make him love you forever! 2. How to make sure he never cheats!...
When He Says He Doesn’t Know What He Wants Many women have found themselves involved or in love with a man who says, out of the blue, that he doesn’t know what he wants right now concerning a relationship. After a woman recovers from being completely blindsided, she then begins to wonder where that...
I use the term “milk carton relationships” to describe those relationships that come with an expiration date. When you buy milk, there is a date stamped on it that let’s you know that after a certain date your milk will expire. There are some relationships that are just like milk cartons, and have an...
Emotional Logic – Dating and Relationships Emotional logic is an oxymoron. People tend to justify relationships they are in, trying to get in, or staying with for way too long by what we call “emotional logic”. This is when people justify their decisions in relationships with “logic” that makes zero sense. Rather than deal...
Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is “It’s complicated”? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as “It’s complicated”? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your...
Friends with benefits is an oxymoron. Exactly what benefits do you have in a situation like this? You don’t have the benefit of being long term friends, because the sex almost always gets in the way. You get sex, but with none of the benefits of having sex in an intimate, monogamous relationship. There...
I recently came across a site where people pose questions for other people on the site to answer. I found a repetitive theme, where people constantly were asking “What does it mean when he says this, or when he does that”? The answers were very obvious, but when seeing what answers were chosen by...
