Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
When Will He Change His Mind? Shouldn’t You Change YOURS? You may be in love with a man who decided to end your relationship and hope one day he changes his mind. You may be currently with a man who refuses to commit to you, lies to you, cheats on you, or is emotionally...
When Should You Give Up On Him? I had a conversation with a woman the other day. She told me how the man she loved told her two weeks ago how much he loved her, couldn’t live without her, and loved spending time with her. The problem is, she just found out he GOT...
To See The Future of Your Relationship – Look at the Past Women seem to hold on to their present relationships because of their hopes for the future. They feel if they can get through the storms currently in their relationship, that sunshine and rainbows will be waiting on the other side. The problem...
How the Media Warps Relationship Reality Sometimes I wonder where people get their ideas about love and relationship from. When I got in line at the grocery store I saw many women’s magazines with article titles such as: 1. How to make him love you forever! 2. How to make sure he never cheats!...
Self Esteem – How Our Relationships are affected by it If one has low self esteem it has a very negative impact on romantic relationships. Someone with low self esteem constantly wonders what their new love interests sees in them, and quite often feels undeserving of love. Instead of believing that they deserve what...
I use the term “milk carton relationships” to describe those relationships that come with an expiration date. When you buy milk, there is a date stamped on it that let’s you know that after a certain date your milk will expire. There are some relationships that are just like milk cartons, and have an...
Emotional Logic – Dating and Relationships Emotional logic is an oxymoron. People tend to justify relationships they are in, trying to get in, or staying with for way too long by what we call “emotional logic”. This is when people justify their decisions in relationships with “logic” that makes zero sense. Rather than deal...
Men really love being called a player, and act as though being called one is a compliment. (And to many men, it is) Women, on the other hand, know that if a man is a player that does not make him a good man, but a man to be wary of and avoid. A...
Have you ever asked someone about their relationship and all they can respond with is “It’s complicated”? Have you ever seen someone list their relationship status as “It’s complicated”? I guess saying it is complicated sounds better than saying it is dysfunctional, but the truth is the truth. The simple, UN-complicated fact is, your...
There are a lot of blogs out there that talk about “connections” women can have with men in this airy fairy way that make me want to puke. I understand people can feel connected to someone but what I don’t understand is how “connections” seem to give women a free pass to stay in...
