Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
There are a lot of blogs out there that talk about “connections” women can have with men in this airy fairy way that make me want to puke. I understand people can feel connected to someone but what I don’t understand is how “connections” seem to give women a free pass to stay in...
Many women we speak to contact us in a panic when their boyfriend or husband is angry with them. They are terrified that their significant other will never forgive them and they ask us what they can do to make their significant other forgive them. First of all, you cannot make someone forgive you,...
A friend of mine is crazy about this man she has been seeing for about six months. She has not seen much of him though, because he has many hobbies and interests and works a lot. She told me she wished that she could see more of him but understands that he has a...
Our guts tell us a lot of things. We get this funny feeling there that something is not right in our relationship. The problem is though, that our heart grabs a megaphone and starts screaming “Don’t listen to your gut, listen to ME instead”. Well, your heart is an idiot. You heart already took...
Before you let your heart invest in a relationship, you need to make sure the man you choose in emotionally available. Here are some signs of an emotionally unavailable man so you can spot one quickly, before you are in too deep: 1. If he has a girlfriend or wife. If he has not...
I have heard the term “emotionally unavailable” and was not sure what to think. Was this yet another cute catch phrase/label or another excuse/reason we give to a man to explain why our relationships are off-balance? We are all human, and all humans have the ability to feel emotions, so wtf is an emotionally...
Since the New Year is coming up, we decided to write a few resolutions for your relationship that can only make for a better, happier New Year and happier YOU. 1. Leave the games to the professional sports players and keep them out of your relationship. Don’t play them, and stop being played by...
Quite often people purchase a home thinking it has “potential”. It needs a lot of work, but they think they can handle it, and decide fixing it up could be a lot of fun. Usually fixer uppers can be had for a great price and are therefore a good deal to the potential home...
Many of our female clients have asked us why men withdraw. Actually, many women wonder why men withdraw, and here are some reasons why: 1. When a couple first meets and feels an overwhelming connection or chemistry, a tendency to want to be with this person 24/7 is commonplace. You are thrilled that he...
Friends with benefits is an oxymoron. Exactly what benefits do you have in a situation like this? You don’t have the benefit of being long term friends, because the sex almost always gets in the way. You get sex, but with none of the benefits of having sex in an intimate, monogamous relationship. There...
