Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
Trying Again and Again With an Ex? I noticed a phenomenon when it comes to pens. Most people I know have a pen holder or a collection of pens somewhere in their house. I have seen them try to write with a pen, see that it clearly does not work, AND THEN PUT THE...
It’s Not You, It’s Him I was speaking to someone the other day who was feeling so bad about a comment they had made to their significant other. They kept going on and on about how bad they felt, and how wrong it was. I told her to knock it off, because first of...
How the Media Warps Relationship Reality Sometimes I wonder where people get their ideas about love and relationship from. When I got in line at the grocery store I saw many women’s magazines with article titles such as: 1. How to make him love you forever! 2. How to make sure he never cheats!...
Getting Away With It – Do You Let Him Get Away With too Much? Are you letting him get away with too much in your relationship? Are the things you are letting him get away with helping your relationship or hurting it? If the man in your life is not the most punctual person...
Demanding Relationships – Is He Too Demanding? There is nothing wrong with demanding that people treat you with respect,dignity, and love. When your man’s demanding is disrespectful to you and is not loving behavior is when being too demanding becomes a problem. When the demands are all one sided, and your thoughts and your...
Forgetting or Ignoring? Some ladies wrote in recently asking what it means if their boyfriend or husband forgot their Birthday or Anniversary. Well, if he really forgot, it means he forgot. If he knew about it, did nothing, and then lied and said he forgot as an excuse, that is another thing. Yes it...
Almost all of us have had a close friend or family member that suddenly, right before our eyes either “disappeared” from our lives or morphed into someone else we barely recognize. You used to talk on the phone frequently and got together every so often but now it as if some black hole swallowed...
When it comes to dating, many men “claim” to be looking for a relationship, when they are actually looking to serial date. For example: On internet dating websites, so many men say they are looking for a serious relationship, yet when you date them, you find out what big fat liars they are. They...
Enabling Does Not Create Change If you want someone to make changes, you have to make some changes of your own. If you enable someone, you enable them to stay as they are and not make changes. You may want the man in your life to do, say, or act differently, but what if...
Consistency Counts We all have way of excusing our behavior, some that make sense and some that are ridiculous. Fine, we can understand that you were a wee bit crabby today because your boss yelled at you, but to say you hit your spouse because they didn’t hand you a cold beer quick...
