Dating and Relationship Blog: I Want Closure
Letting Go – Does it Mean Giving up on Your Ex? Many people are afraid to let go because they fear that at the same time, they must give up. But does letting go always mean you are giving up? Not necessarily. When you have an ex, or are currently involved in a relationship...
Do You Want Him Back, or do You Just Want to Get Back At Him? Sometimes instead of getting closure and moving on, we may be plotting, planning, wondering and/or hoping that we can get him back. Some people can do this for months, even years. If you find yourself in a situation where...
We have all heard of the term “Emotional Baggage” but what is it exactly? A definition I found online states that emotional baggage is : Painful memories, mistrust and hurt carried around from past sexual or emotional rejection that cause issues in the present. Are you carrying around emotional baggage? It it getting in...
There is a good side and a bad side that many people tend to hang on to relationships rather than let them go easily. The good side is that some people are willing to hang in there through the good times and the bad times, and don’t just bail when the relationship hits a...
Relationship Closure -Getting Closure From Past Relationships Relationship closure seems to be the one thing, at the end of a relationship, that many people simply can not get. First, what kind of closure are you actually looking to get? Can someone else give you the relationship closure you are seeking? In a perfect world,...
Women have wonderful imaginations and are curious by nature. So if we can't talk to our ex or find out what is going on, we can simply fantasize about it! You can imagine telling him all the horrible things he has done and why he doesn't deserve to be back with you, you can...
While men try to avoid anything that could remind them of their ex, women tend to do the opposite. Women will re-read emails and letters to the point that they have them memorized. That takes them on a literary journey through the relationship they just got out of and re-opens the wounds so they...
If it is really JUST about you saying your piece, then how your EX reacts, what he says, what he does, feels and thinks about it WOULD NOT MATTER TO YOU AT ALL. It would be all about YOU, and that is what closure is for, YOU. When his feelings, reactions (or lack of),...
Since most women are very vocal creatures they have, either through phone calls, email, or in person let their ex know why they ended things. So what is your ex-boyfriend or husband really looking for to get the closure they so desperately need?
Why is it in almost every other area of a woman’s life she knows when to give up or quit EXCEPT when it comes to relationships?
