<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>I WANT CLOSURE &#124;  Dating and Relationship Blog for Women and their Dysfunctional Relationships &#187; Relationship Closure</title>
	<atom:link href="http://iwantclosure.com/category/closure/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://iwantclosure.com</link>
	<description>A dating and relationship blog to encourage change in the dynamics of your dysfunctional relationship or close the door for good!</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 02:53:12 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1</generator>
		<item>
		<title>Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/why-do-you-care-when-he-does-not-care/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=why-do-you-care-when-he-does-not-care</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/why-do-you-care-when-he-does-not-care/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 16:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Real Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[liar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog for Women]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=2276</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care? I was speaking to a woman the other day who was asking a group of ladies about the man she loves. She found out he was cheating with numerous women, and had lied to her repeatedly. She asked us if we thought he had lied about everything, what we thought about what he had done, and why we think he had done it. After going on and on about this, I finally started answering every question she asked with &#8220;Who cares?&#8221;. It, to me, was the only fitting answer. She knows now he is a cheater, she spoke to two of the women he cheated with and they all told her he said the same things to her that he did to them. So why does it matter, and why should she care anymore? She knows who he is now. A cheater and a liar. Someone who cheats on you and lies to you all the time cannot possibly love you, respect you, or care about your feelings. So why the concern with theirs? Who cares if he ever loved you, because even if he did, his love, like his word, [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/why-do-you-care-when-he-does-not-care/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>When Will He Change His Mind? Shouldn&#8217;t You Change YOURS?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/when-will-he-change-his-mind-shouldnt-you-change-yours/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=when-will-he-change-his-mind-shouldnt-you-change-yours</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/when-will-he-change-his-mind-shouldnt-you-change-yours/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 03:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friends with Benefits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Going Back to the Ex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship blog]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=2265</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When Will He Change His Mind? Shouldn&#8217;t You Change YOURS? You may be in love with a man who decided to end your relationship and hope one day he changes his mind. You may be currently with a man who refuses to commit to you, lies to you, cheats on you, or is emotionally unavailable to you, and you hope he changes his mind. You may be in a friends with benefits relationship, or one with no labels or boundaries, and hope one day he will change his mind. Why haven&#8217;t YOU changed YOUR mind and dropped this loser? What has gotten into your mind that you think his behavior is acceptable or what you deserve? What can you do to change your mind and see him for who he really is, and know that you deserve better than him? Instead of hoping his change will come someday, use that time to try and change yourself and your perception of your relationship with him. How can you love, trust or want to be with someone who treats you like shit, without respect, and does not make you happy? You did everything right to make him want to step up to [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/when-will-he-change-his-mind-shouldnt-you-change-yours/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>When Should You Give Up On Him?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/when-should-you-give-up-on-him/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=when-should-you-give-up-on-him</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/when-should-you-give-up-on-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 18:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friends with Benefits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Starting a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[liar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog for Women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship tips]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=2260</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When Should You Give Up On Him? I had a conversation with a woman the other day. She told me how the man she loved told her two weeks ago how much he loved her, couldn&#8217;t live without her, and loved spending time with her. The problem is, she just found out he GOT MARRIED this weekend. She told me how confused she was. Why did he say all those things to her only to get married? He spent so much time over the last few months pursuing her, and getting her to believe his feelings for her were real. Why did he do that? She then went on to ask me if I think his marriage will last, if he really loves his new wife, and what did I think was the reason he did this? She seemed so focused on all the wrong things. Yes, I understand she was hurt and devastated, but what does it take to give up on him? Instead of wondering what the future holds for him and his wife, isn&#8217;t it time to realize she has no future with him? Instead of wondering why he did what he did, isn&#8217;t it time to [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/when-should-you-give-up-on-him/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Signs of Dysfunctional Relationships vs Functional Ones</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/signs-of-dysfunctional-relationships-vs-functional-ones/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=signs-of-dysfunctional-relationships-vs-functional-ones</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/signs-of-dysfunctional-relationships-vs-functional-ones/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 16:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abusive Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abusive relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog for Women]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=2247</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Signs of Dysfunctional Relationships vs Functional Ones It would surprise many people to learn that they are in a dysfunctional relationship. Most people think their relationship may have a few problems or issues, but the truth is that their relationship is a dysfunctional one. It&#8217;s not complicated, as many like to say, it&#8217;s dysfunctional. So how can you tell if your relationship is dysfunctional, or functional? Here are some signs that your relationship is dysfunctional. 1. Your relationship status changes at the drop of a hat. You break up, get back together, break up again, and get back together again. No one takes your break ups seriously anymore because they happen so frequently. On/off relationships are dysfunctional, and the relationship is no longer sacred because it can be called off at any time. The relationship never matures and evolves,problems are never resolved, and the pattern continues. 2. Too much drama. Everyone has relationship drama now and then. Dysfunctional relationships have drama all the time, and for any little reason or no reason at all. This is unhealthy, and destructive. 3. Disappearing. If you or the one you are in a relationship with goes MIA without warning and for no good [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/signs-of-dysfunctional-relationships-vs-functional-ones/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Why Didn&#8217;t It Work Out With Him?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/why-didnt-it-work-out-with-him/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=why-didnt-it-work-out-with-him</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/why-didnt-it-work-out-with-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 19:04:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blogs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[didn't work out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reason]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reasons]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship blogs]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=2243</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Why didn&#8217;t it work out with him? A lot of women that have written or I have spoken to want to have a reason, a good one, why it didn&#8217;t work out with him. (their ex boyfriend, some guy they dated, or their husband). They want to find the one good reason, one that clears it all up for them, so they can move on and let go. They look at all the reasons why it should have worked out, or could have worked out between them. The bottom line is that it didn&#8217;t work out. That should be reason enough. It does not matter how great it was, or how great it could have been. It may have had potential, but not all people or relationships live up to their potential. We all have a chance to win the lottery if we buy a ticket, but very few of us actually win. In relationships, it is smart to take a chance on a relationship with good potential, as opposed to one that could be a potential disaster. But even those that are a good risk do not always pay off. Instead of looking for the reasons why it didn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/why-didnt-it-work-out-with-him/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Trying Again and Again With an Ex?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/trying-again-and-again-with-an-ex/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=trying-again-and-again-with-an-ex</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/trying-again-and-again-with-an-ex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 20:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abusive Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Compatibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Going Back to the Ex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Moving on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog for Women]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=2231</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Trying Again and Again With an Ex? I noticed a phenomenon when it comes to pens. Most people I know have a pen holder or a collection of pens somewhere in their house. I have seen them try to write with a pen, see that it clearly does not work, AND THEN PUT THE PEN BACK IN THE PEN HOLDER. I ask them &#8220;Do you think it is going so magically work later? Why not just throw it out?&#8221;. Many of them didn&#8217;t even realize they were doing it, and tossed out the broken pen. Others said they actually DID think the pen might work later. I bet many of you reading this have a pen in your house that does not work that you, for some reason, didn&#8217;t it throw away. This reminds me so much of how so many women hold on to their ex&#8217;s the same way. How many times do you have to see that a relationship with them clearly will not work? When is it time to throw your ex (and your hopes for your ex to change) in the trash? Why do we keep trying to make something broken work? There are so many [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/trying-again-and-again-with-an-ex/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>I Can&#8217;t Believe He Did That!</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/i-cant-believe-he-did-that/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=i-cant-believe-he-did-that</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/i-cant-believe-he-did-that/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 23:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breakup Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[liar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playing games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship blog]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=2190</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I Can&#8217;t Believe He Did That! After reading several emails from women that contained the phrase &#8220;I can&#8217;t believe he did that&#8221; I felt it was time to address that phrase. Reading the emails from these ladies showed that they clearly did most of the work in the relationship, and that the man that they were in love with didn&#8217;t do shit. Quite often women believe that if they treat a man better than anyone else has, he will stay. Oh how wrong that is. If you can&#8217;t believe he broke up with you, it&#8217;s time to make a believer out of you. Sure, you treated him great and may have given him no good reason to break up with you and yet he did it anyway. Yes, it can be shocking and undeserving, but he did it. Men can have a good reason, a stupid one, or no reason at all to break up with you. It&#8217;s not fair, but it is the truth. Yes, he may have spent countless hours,days,months or years telling you how much he loved you. But now he says he no longer does and you cannot believe it. Believe that at one time he [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/i-cant-believe-he-did-that/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>If You Get Played By A Player&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/if-you-get-played-by-a-player/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=if-you-get-played-by-a-player</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/if-you-get-played-by-a-player/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2012 20:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breakup Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying in Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[played]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Player]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog for Women]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=1637</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Men really love being called a player, and act as though being called one is a compliment. (And to many men, it is) Women, on the other hand, know that if a man is a player that does not make him a good man, but a man to be wary of and avoid. A player knows what to say and when to say it, even if he does not mean it. That is the whole concept behind being a player. They &#8220;play&#8221;, with women&#8217;s feelings, use those feelings against those women, and manipulate them to get what they want. It is &#8220;playing&#8221; a &#8220;role&#8221;, like acting, of the man they think you want to get what they want from YOU. A man is called a player, but if he were a woman, he would probably be called a manipulative bitch or something equally as charming. Players size women up easily, and are able to spot vulnerabilities and weaknesses in women and use them to their advantage. Players make you feel wonderful and special at the beginning, in an effort to make you fall for their lies (by action or words) so they get what they want and &#8220;win&#8221; the game. [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/if-you-get-played-by-a-player/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Witness Protection Man</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/witness-protection-man/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=witness-protection-man</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/witness-protection-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 23:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breakup Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can't move forward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog for Women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship closure]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=1620</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Witness Protection Man You are on cloud nine. You met Mr. Fab and things couldn&#8217;t be better. He is open, communicative, fun, and easy to talk to. He compliments you all the time, tells you how he feels the relationship is developing and things seem to be moving forward. Then out of nowhere *whoosh* he is gone. I mean GONE gone. He doesn&#8217;t call, won&#8217;t take your calls, and pretty much dropped you like a bad habit. You are shocked. Stunned! Everything was great and he just up and leaves without a word? No valid explanation? Nothing! You can&#8217;t believe it, you re-think everything that he said, you said, you did, he did, body language, horoscopes, biorhythms, and you can&#8217;t find any red flag, much less a good reason for what he did. You wonder why he did this to you and you want an explanation, anything, something, to put this to rest. Months go by, sometimes years and you never get from this guy a reason for just bolting on you. You just cant get over it. Knock it off will you? Yeah, you had every right to be hurt, upset, confused and pissed off by what he did [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/witness-protection-man/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Could You, Should You, And Will You Get Him Back?</title>
		<link>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/could-you-should-you-and-will-you-get-him-back/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=could-you-should-you-and-will-you-get-him-back</link>
		<comments>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/could-you-should-you-and-will-you-get-him-back/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:41:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breakup Help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending a Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Going Back to the Ex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Changing his behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creating change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dysfunctional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ending relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[excuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting Back Together]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting CLOSURE in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr. Right]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr. Wrong]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Blog for Women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reuniting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wasting time]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iwantclosure.com/?p=1212</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When couples break up, the questions we are asked the most is: 1. Can I get him back? 2. Will I get him back? 3. Should I get him back? The first thing you have to look at, before you even think about getting back together, is why you broke up in the first place. If you have broken up several times already, and have always gotten back together, chances are you are in an on/off relationship and will get back together again. However, instead of worrying if you will reunite, you need to focus on why you are in an on/off relationship. An on/off relationship is one where most people are not aware they are even in a relationship. The couple breaks up numerous times and gets back together. For one, it is a game, and they know they will get back together. The other thinks the &#8220;break ups&#8221; are real and goes through emotional hell each time. These relationships get worse over time, never get the chance to grow, and inevitably will end. Focus on how to change your relationship from an on/off relationship first before you even think of getting back together, since you will only repeat [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://iwantclosure.com/closure/could-you-should-you-and-will-you-get-him-back/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>

