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	<title>I WANT CLOSURE &#124;  A Women&#039;s Guide to Relationships, Dating and Love &#187; Relationship Closure</title>
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		<title>Could You, Should You, And Will You Get Him Back?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:41:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When couples break up, the questions we are asked the most is: 1. Can I get him back? 2. Will I get him back? 3. Should I get him back? The first thing you have to look at, before you even think about getting back together, is why you broke up in the first place. If you have broken up several times already, and have always gotten back together, chances are you are in an on/off relationship and will get back together again. However, instead of worrying if you will reunite, you need to focus on why you are in an on/off relationship. An on/off relationship is one where most people are not aware they are even in a relationship. The couple breaks up numerous times and gets back together. For one, it is a game, and they know they will get back together. The other thinks the &#8220;break ups&#8221; are real and goes through emotional hell each time. These relationships get worse over time, never get the chance to grow, and inevitably will end. Focus on how to change your relationship from an on/off relationship first before you even think of getting back together, since you will only repeat [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Value and Price &#8211; Does he Value You or is Your Price too low?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 22:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abusive Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Look at all the things you do for your significant other. Look at the way you treat them, speak to them, and all the ways you show them you love them. You clearly show them what you they are worth to you, but now look at how much they value you. Look at how much they seem to value you, and could it be that you set your price too low? No one should be so high maintenance that no one can really &#8220;afford&#8221; them, but the price they pay to have your in their lives and get all you have to offer should not be too low either. Have they put you in the bargain bin, or have you done that to yourself? If you constantly do for others, yet they won&#8217;t lift a finger when you ask for help, then they do not value what you do for them. If they did, they would &#8220;pay you back&#8221;. If they take for granted all that you do, it has no value to them. If they feel entitled to take from you and not be appreciative of it, what you are giving really has no value either. If they keep [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Went Back to His Ex &#8211; Now What?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 18:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you first started dating your guy, he swore he was over her and would rather chew off his own foot than get back together. He told you negative things about her that made her out to be some swamp creature. As a matter of fact, he never seemed to have anything good to say about her. He may have told you all kinds of horror stories and admitted his friends and family will kill him if he ever got back together with his ex. Well, he should be a dead man any second now because he did. You just can&#8217;t believe it! You are devastated and can&#8217;t believe he gave her another chance. Did he tell you they had gotten broken up and gotten back together several times before? If he did, that was your first red flag. Couples that keep going back to one another, even though they swore that was the last time quite often repeat this pattern for years. It is always a good idea to ask how many times the couple has gone back and forth before you give him a shot. If he tells you more than 2 and that it has gone on [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Does &#8220;Taking a Break&#8221; Always Lead to a Break-up?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:28:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many couples take breaks from their relationships but more times than not, the &#8220;break&#8221; becomes a break up. But does &#8220;taking a break&#8221; always lead to a break up? First let&#8217;s look at the common reasons couples decide to take a break in their relationship: 1. They have a huge blow up and need some space to cool down. These &#8220;breaks&#8221; are usually just for the couple to clear their minds and keep things from escalating. They are usually short-lived. 2. Sometimes people do not want to deal with their partner&#8217;s reaction to a break-up, so instead they slowly pull away. You may notice emotional distance, lack of phone calls, texts, and emails. Affectionate behavior and sex also slows down. Then they announce they need to &#8220;take a break&#8221; from the relationship. Instead of breaking it off cleanly they drag out the break up process. 3. They don&#8217;t want to lose you, but they want to explore other possibilities. Let&#8217;s say you are in a monogamous relationship with John. John has been flirting with a girl at work for some time, and is curious to see what could happen with her. So what does John do? He suggests &#8220;taking a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Rebounds Are For Sports, Not Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 03:38:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A rebound relationship is one that either starts while you are still in a relationship, or quickly after a relationship ends. Rebound relationships generally don&#8217;t last. When you start a new relationship while you are still IN one you have not given yourself any time to get over and get away from your current situation. Some people do not have the strength to leave a relationship and be by themselves. The fear of being alone is too great, no matter how much the relationship sucks. The only way they can leave a relationship is to already be in another one. People who do this actually need more time alone than most people. Their fear of being alone makes them stay in awful relationships way to long. They don&#8217;t take the time to find the right relationship because they have to be in one now. They don&#8217;t have time to learn lessons from previous relationships because they take no time to reflect on them and keep making the same bad choices. Time alone to heal, look back and examine what went wrong, and doing so alone would really help them in the long run. Ladies, be careful of any man who [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Does She Have That You Don&#8217;t Have?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:34:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Quite often when a breakup occurs because we are left for another woman we wonder &#8220;What does she have that I don&#8217;t have?&#8221;. For starters: A lying, cheating pig of a man. Second, she has a man who will probably cheat on her too. And third, she has a relationship that will most likely end because he started it with her before he finished things with you. And last but not least, she has the ending of an affair, and the reality of what a relationship with him is really like. She also has bad taste. When you met him, he was free, and you had no idea he was this much of a scumbag, but she knows very well what he is capable of. She has a delusional mind. Where you would never trust him again, she is deluded enough to think he would never do that to her. Not really something to envy, is it? You could assume he left you for her because of something you lacked, but it really was not about you. He has no excuse for cheating, lying, and failing to work things out with you. It is also inexcusable that he did not [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Moving on &#8211; Tips, Help, and Advice  Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 21:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In a previous posting we gave you some great ideas, tips and guidance for moving on by taking control of your life and doing things for YOU. Here are some other pointers we can share with you to help you move on, let go and get closure from an ended relationship. It is ok to allow your self some time to let things go, but then comes the time to start adding structure back into your life. The things you let go, like your diet or exercising habits need to be brought back into your daily routine. You can bring them back into your routine one at a time or more quickly, but the point is to get back to being you again and start living life as normally as you can. Keep your thoughts focused on the present and try not to think of or dwell on the past. When trying to move on you may feel like you cannot even picture your life going on, but you must. You don&#8217;t have to create a fairytale that even you won&#8217;t believe, just start somewhere. If you always planned on writing a book start thinking about writing that book. That [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Moving on &#8211; Tips, Help, and Advice  Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 20:54:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The relationship, for whatever reason, is over. A chapter of your life has come to an end and it is time for move on and move forward to the next chapter. Sounds easy? Well, it&#8217;s not. It is very difficult for many people and they have no idea how to even begin the process of letting go and start moving on. Tips, help and advice to help you along the way. First, keep in mind that the end result of all of this is to move on. It will not happen overnight, and that is o.k. Take it one day at a time and do the best you can. Allow yourself to the varied emotions you will go through, and express them. Write letters you never send, use family members as sounding boards, or talk to an empty room. Just GET THEM OUT. Punch a pillow if you have to. Release them. Your life may be going through changes that have come from the end of this relationship. Your finances may now be different, and instead of ignoring it, deal with it. Getting control of your life assists in the process of moving on because you feel empowered and in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Letting Go &#8211; Does it Mean Giving up on Your Ex?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 19:09:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many people are afraid to let go because they fear that at the same time, they must give up. But does letting go always mean you are giving up? Not necessarily. When you have an ex, or are currently involved in a relationship that is not working for you, letting go can simply mean that you have stopped trying. You finally reach a point where you realize you cannot control how another person feels, what they want, and their intentions towards you. They have free will and make their own decisions and are responsible for their own behavior, actions, words, and choices. Letting go does not mean you have given up on someone, but what you let go of is trying to force change that you are not in control of. The only person that you have that control over is you. If you want an ex back but they are not receptive towards you, you need to accept that at a certain point. You can hope they may want you back in the future, but you must accept that they do not want to reunite with you now. With that acceptance, you let go of trying to change their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Want Him Back, or do You Just Want to Get Back At Him?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 19:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes instead of getting closure and moving on, we may be plotting, planning, wondering and/or hoping that we can get him back. Some people can do this for months, even years. If you find yourself in a situation where your main objective is to get him (or her) back, ask yourself do you really want him back, or do you just want to get back at him? If you really feel the relationship has potential and that on a whole the relationship was a good one, it is understandable that you would put dating on hold to see if there is a reconciliation coming. Be honest with yourself concerning your ex and the relationship. Don&#8217;t focus so much on the potential it had if big changes had to be made, but more so on if it had potential should nothing change. Look at how your relationship was vs how it could be. How it was is most likely how it will be in the future. Especially if it is not you who needs to make most of the changes. Then decide from that point if you do indeed want him back. But what if you are just doing this to [...]]]></description>
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