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		<title>Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 16:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why Do You Care When He Does NOT Care? I was speaking to a woman the other day who was asking a group of ladies about the man she loves. She found out he was cheating with numerous women, and had lied to her repeatedly. She asked us if we thought he had lied about everything, what we thought about what he had done, and why we think he had done it. After going on and on about this, I finally started answering every question she asked with &#8220;Who cares?&#8221;. It, to me, was the only fitting answer. She knows now he is a cheater, she spoke to two of the women he cheated with and they all told her he said the same things to her that he did to them. So why does it matter, and why should she care anymore? She knows who he is now. A cheater and a liar. Someone who cheats on you and lies to you all the time cannot possibly love you, respect you, or care about your feelings. So why the concern with theirs? Who cares if he ever loved you, because even if he did, his love, like his word, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When Should You Give Up On Him?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 18:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Should You Give Up On Him? I had a conversation with a woman the other day. She told me how the man she loved told her two weeks ago how much he loved her, couldn&#8217;t live without her, and loved spending time with her. The problem is, she just found out he GOT MARRIED this weekend. She told me how confused she was. Why did he say all those things to her only to get married? He spent so much time over the last few months pursuing her, and getting her to believe his feelings for her were real. Why did he do that? She then went on to ask me if I think his marriage will last, if he really loves his new wife, and what did I think was the reason he did this? She seemed so focused on all the wrong things. Yes, I understand she was hurt and devastated, but what does it take to give up on him? Instead of wondering what the future holds for him and his wife, isn&#8217;t it time to realize she has no future with him? Instead of wondering why he did what he did, isn&#8217;t it time to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>To See The Future of Your Relationship &#8211; Look at the Past</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 16:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To See The Future of Your Relationship &#8211; Look at the Past Women seem to hold on to their present relationships because of their hopes for the future. They feel if they can get through the storms currently in their relationship, that sunshine and rainbows will be waiting on the other side. The problem is, the future they imagined has a very slim to none chance of actually coming to fruition. To clearly see the future of your relationship, you must first look at the past. The past is a better indicator of what your relationship will be in the future that just hopes,wishes and daydreams. The future has to based on reality, and the past is reality. If you have been with a man who doesn&#8217;t take you anywhere and your relationship is only a sexual one, don&#8217;t think your future has something different in mind. The passage of time does not change things for the better, but our past behavior often sets the patterns of our behavior in the future. Take the first few months (which are always the best) out of the equation. Then look at your relationship from then til now. What has he learned? That [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Signs of Dysfunctional Relationships vs Functional Ones</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 16:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Signs of Dysfunctional Relationships vs Functional Ones It would surprise many people to learn that they are in a dysfunctional relationship. Most people think their relationship may have a few problems or issues, but the truth is that their relationship is a dysfunctional one. It&#8217;s not complicated, as many like to say, it&#8217;s dysfunctional. So how can you tell if your relationship is dysfunctional, or functional? Here are some signs that your relationship is dysfunctional. 1. Your relationship status changes at the drop of a hat. You break up, get back together, break up again, and get back together again. No one takes your break ups seriously anymore because they happen so frequently. On/off relationships are dysfunctional, and the relationship is no longer sacred because it can be called off at any time. The relationship never matures and evolves,problems are never resolved, and the pattern continues. 2. Too much drama. Everyone has relationship drama now and then. Dysfunctional relationships have drama all the time, and for any little reason or no reason at all. This is unhealthy, and destructive. 3. Disappearing. If you or the one you are in a relationship with goes MIA without warning and for no good [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trying Again and Again With an Ex?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 20:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trying Again and Again With an Ex? I noticed a phenomenon when it comes to pens. Most people I know have a pen holder or a collection of pens somewhere in their house. I have seen them try to write with a pen, see that it clearly does not work, AND THEN PUT THE PEN BACK IN THE PEN HOLDER. I ask them &#8220;Do you think it is going so magically work later? Why not just throw it out?&#8221;. Many of them didn&#8217;t even realize they were doing it, and tossed out the broken pen. Others said they actually DID think the pen might work later. I bet many of you reading this have a pen in your house that does not work that you, for some reason, didn&#8217;t it throw away. This reminds me so much of how so many women hold on to their ex&#8217;s the same way. How many times do you have to see that a relationship with them clearly will not work? When is it time to throw your ex (and your hopes for your ex to change) in the trash? Why do we keep trying to make something broken work? There are so many [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I Can&#8217;t Believe He Did That!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 23:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I Can&#8217;t Believe He Did That! After reading several emails from women that contained the phrase &#8220;I can&#8217;t believe he did that&#8221; I felt it was time to address that phrase. Reading the emails from these ladies showed that they clearly did most of the work in the relationship, and that the man that they were in love with didn&#8217;t do shit. Quite often women believe that if they treat a man better than anyone else has, he will stay. Oh how wrong that is. If you can&#8217;t believe he broke up with you, it&#8217;s time to make a believer out of you. Sure, you treated him great and may have given him no good reason to break up with you and yet he did it anyway. Yes, it can be shocking and undeserving, but he did it. Men can have a good reason, a stupid one, or no reason at all to break up with you. It&#8217;s not fair, but it is the truth. Yes, he may have spent countless hours,days,months or years telling you how much he loved you. But now he says he no longer does and you cannot believe it. Believe that at one time he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Self Esteem &#8211; How Our Relationships are affected by it</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 04:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Self Esteem &#8211; How Our Relationships are affected by it If one has low self esteem it has a very negative impact on romantic relationships. Someone with low self esteem constantly wonders what their new love interests sees in them, and quite often feels undeserving of love. Instead of believing that they deserve what everyone else does, someone with low self esteem expects less. Someone with low self esteem is always waiting for the shoe to drop, and rarely has hope their relationships will work out. Someone with low self esteem will put themselves down, and will not accept compliments gracefully. (They often do not believe a word of them) Someone involved in a relationship with someone with low self esteem may try very hard to help them build up their self esteem. The problem is, when and if it does not work, they get frustrated and quite often angry. This can sabotage a relationship big time. When someone loves you yet feel no matter what they do you will never believe it, they feel defeated. The believe they can never make you happy no matter what they do. They can get tired of hearing you put yourself down over [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Away With It, Do you Let Him Get Away With Too Much?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 18:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting Away With It &#8211; Do You Let Him Get Away With too Much? Are you letting him get away with too much in your relationship? Are the things you are letting him get away with helping your relationship or hurting it? If the man in your life is not the most punctual person in the world and runs late (but not too late) then letting that slide is not the worst thing in the world. We all have our flaws, and if the flaws are not that big of a deal to you, then let him get away with it. However, if the things you are letting him get away with are causing him to believe he can get away with anything and everything, it&#8217;s time you created some boundaries and rules and begin enforcing them. He should not be able to abuse you in any way shape or form and get away with it. He should not be able to have affairs and cheat and get away with it. When someone abuses you or cheats on you, they have no respect for you, or the relationship. You lose respect for yourself as well when you let someone get [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Emotional Logic &#8211; Dating and Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2012 18:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Emotional Logic &#8211; Dating and Relationships Emotional logic is an oxymoron. People tend to justify relationships they are in, trying to get in, or staying with for way too long by what we call &#8220;emotional logic&#8221;. This is when people justify their decisions in relationships with &#8220;logic&#8221; that makes zero sense. Rather than deal with their relationships the way real logic would dictate, they fabricate illogical reasons to stay stuck in unhealthy situations. Some of these fabrications may actually have some logic to them, but within the context of the entire relationship it falls very short. It can start small, and then grow into a parallel like universe where they cannot separate reality from fantasy anymore. It can start off simple, like when a guy does not call for days or weeks and the woman he is dating or in a relationship with accepts the fact that he is just so busy and leaves it at that. Shouldn&#8217;t she realize that it takes 10 seconds to send a text message saying &#8220;I am busy right now, but will call when I am free&#8221; and everyone has 10 seconds during a 24 hour day to do so? Shouldn&#8217;t it occur to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Emotional Cheating</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 01:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>I Want Closure</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Lying in Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[An emotional relationship or affair is often never questioned or not taken as seriously as a physical affair. Because a sexual act has not occurred, many people do not see it as cheating in a relationship. Emotional cheating should not be taken lightly, because the damage caused to a relationship due to emotional cheating can be devastating. Many people don&#8217;t even know what emotional cheating really even is. If you have contact with an ex or member of the opposite sex that you are keeping private from your husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend, this is a form of emotional cheating. If it was just a case of friendship, and nothing else, why the big secret? Are you sharing intimate details of your relationship with a member of the opposite sex or an ex that if your loved one found out they would feel horrified or betrayed? To discuss such things with one of your friends is one thing, but a member of the opposite sex is another thing. To make matters worse, the communication that is supposed to be shared within the relationship no longer is. When someone is emotionally cheating, they no longer want to share their thoughts and [...]]]></description>
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