When you begin to make yourself pathetic and set yourself up for him to treat you like garbage it is time to stop. It's over. No, he is NOT going to feel guilty. Showing him and telling him how much you are hurting and miserable after awhile just PISSES HIM OFF. He doesn't feel... »
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Instead of Getting Closure – Some Ways to Stay in Limbo
Women have wonderful imaginations and are curious by nature. So if we can't talk to our ex or find out what is going on, we can simply fantasize about it! You can imagine telling him all the horrible things he has done and why... »
Are YOU in an Abusive Relationship??
Your partner is abusive when they feel they must "punish you" or threatens to "punish you" when they: … Give you "the silent treatment" and/or tell you to "figure out" why they are mad and what to "figure out" what YOU did wrong. … Strand you... »
Cinderella has her Prince — Now What?
The fairytales we read in our childhood end when the courtship ends and marriage or a serious relationship begins. Isn't that quite often when the fairytale ends in real life as well? We cannot expect to never have a fight or win every argument. »
Fruit Salad… Apples and Oranges (V)
Differences are not always deal breakers, but we have to examine our differences to see if they are harmonious or not. »
Apples and Oranges – Part IV
Knowing yourself and who you are, having the courage to express your personality, feelings, opinions etc helps people to know if YOU are the right choice for them. If a man wants an orange and you are an apple, why would you want him... »
Cinderella – Some Day my Prince will Come…
Even the best of relationships have issues, yet when ours do we feel like it's "ruined" because it is no longer perfect. We need to understand that a perfect relationship is one that survives and thrives after the bad times. It is the bad... »
Apples and Oranges – Part 3
In relationships we may think we want one thing but come to find out we really don't like it all that much. If you want a man who makes a lot of money AND gives you a lot of attention you have to realize... »
Apples and Oranges – Continued
We want to satisfy our cravings not constantly and continually feel them. Just like people have told us to pay attention to what our body is craving, because most likely that is what your body needs, what we crave from relationships is our way... »
Is it worth it?
waiting for the payoff of the relationship to become what they want it to be. Let's say it is commitment, and you keep waiting, getting an excuse, yet you hang in there, and time is going by without a payoff. Exactly WHEN do you... »
Apples and Oranges – Which Do You Want?
You can yell at an apple all day long and guess what? It still is not on orange.You can talk to the apple about how much you want it to be an orange. You can sit around and wait for the apple to change... »
Office Crushes…
There could be a woman or a man at your job that you find very attractive. You enjoy working with them, joking with them, and even flirting with them. It seems like they like you, but nothing has happened yet. You go out to... »
How to Trap a Man (it’s NOT what you think)
This article is not about how to trap a man and get him to be yours forever and ever but the ways women often trap men into falling flat on their faces. »


